She lost her phone

I was waiting in line to drop off a package at the UPS store.  A woman can rushing in.  She was in panic mode.  She bypasses the line and yells to the clerk.  "Did I leave my phone in here?"

He looks.  He says, No.

She leaves.

A few minutes later she is back.  "I know I left my phone in here.  I was talking on it in here."  The clerk acknowledges that she was talking on it, but he doesn't think that it is here.

I step in.

Ma'am if you give me your number, I will call your phone.  She does.  I call it.  There is no ringing.  The phone is not in the store.  

I tell her to go out to her car and I will call her there.

By this time, I am done with my UPS transaction and I am standing by her car.  I call her number again.  She says, "I can hear it in here, but I don't know where it is."

She opens the hatch back and sure enough, there is her phone, sitting in the trunk area, right where she left it.

My favorite author, Anthony Demello says, "if you can't find your keys, I know where they are.  They are right where you sat them."  The problem isn't that we don't know where they are, the problem is that we are not paying attention to life.

We are in such a hurry that our brains are on to the next thing and we didn't pay attention to what we just did.

Time to slow down.  Time to live in the moment.  Time to pay attention.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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When reality says "No"

"Can you accept a 'no' from reality? Can you allow things to not go your way? Suffering means that you are having a tantrum because reality isn’t behaving the way you want it to."   Anthony DeMello

Jeff comments... when we choose to accept the moments that we do not like, when we choose to relax in the face of difficulty, when we come to grips with the fact that it is not going to go my way,  then we find a peace that the world cannot give.



It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Loan or gift?

A friend of mine loaned another friend $10,000.  A good deal of it was paid back.  But then the payments stopped.  It became clear that friend #2 was unable to make any more progress on the loan.  

The situation wore on both of them.  It affected their relationship.

Finally, friend #1 said to themselves, "this money is getting in the way of our friendship.  I don't need the money and they obviously are not going to be able to pay it back."  Friend 1 called friend 2 and cancelled the remainder of the debt.

Let nothing be between you and me.

Some things are more important than money.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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the hereafter

I am starting to forget things.  It is fairly common, it happens several times a week that I will forget.  I will walk into the garage, or into a room in the house and totally forget why I went in there.

So I believe in the here after.

I walk into the room and I ask myself, "what am I here after???"

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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be prepared

Some people are surprised, even angry when difficulty comes their way.  Into each life a little rain must fall.  Don't be upset and don't be surprised when trouble comes knocking on your door.

My friend Courtney sent in this screen shot...  it is a quote from the book "This Beautiful Truth" by Sarah Clarkson.

This is how the world works... beautiful and terrible things will happen.  Do not be afraid.  You are not alone.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Nothing to Earn

We humans keep trying to earn love.  What if there’s nothing to earn?  What if God just loves us as we are?  There’s just nothing to earn.  There’s nothing to prove.  That is true love.

You just wake up in the morning and realize that you are loved.

Sure, there is a negative voice that tells you that you were bad or wrong or ugly or stupid or a sinner or should be going to hell.  Love washes that voice away.  Just take a deep breath and admit all of those voices were wrong. 

You have nothing to prove.  You have nothing to earn.  Love is just given.  Love keeps no record of wrongs.

Receive it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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triangulation

Triangulation is a concept in relationships where a conflict between two people is engaged in by a third person.  For example, I have a beef with a co-worker, so I go to a third co-worker for help.  Or in a family, a brother has an issue with a sister, but instead of working it out between the two of them, he goes to a third sibling in hopes that they can help resolve the situation.

Triangulation is never healthy. In his book, "Creating a healthier Church" Alan Richardson says, "one person cannot change the relationship between any two people; efforts to do so usually only make things worse.  If you are person C in the triangle, you can only manage your own relationship with either A or B.  You cannot do anything about the relationship between A and B.  As soon as you take a side in the triangle, regardless of the righteousness of the cause or of the issues involved, you automatically become a part of the problem."

If you are engaged in triangulation, you may want to take a step back.  Let them work it out.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Love

My friend Bruce sent this quote in...

"Love- the greatest thing that one will ever learn in this life is to love and to be loved in return."
          Eden Ahbez

Personally, I think I am doing better on learning to love, still struggling with being loved in return.  Let's keep working on it!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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just borrowing and sermon audio from yesterday

If you are interested, here is the sermon audio link from yesterday...  open the link and scroll down past classic worship to modern worship on 5/31/26

click here for yesterday's message

Now on to today's blog post...

In response to my post a few days ago about going to garage sales, my friend Arthur wrote in about going to estate sales.  He said that it bothered him for a while, buying things that belonged to the dead... kind of morbid...

Then he said that he had this thought... we really don't own anything permanently, we are only borrowing it while we are here.

How much did the rich man take with him when he died?  None of it.

Everything that we have is on loan from God.  After we have no need for it, it will go to the rubbish pile or someone else will borrow it while on their earthly journey.

Something to think about.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Thank You

The last few days, I have awoken with one thought on my mind.  "Thank you."

Thank you God for the gift of another day.  Thank you.

Although the simplest of prayers, I find it to be truly profound.  To begin the day with gratitude and to keep an attitude of appreciation during the day is such a healthy and positive thing for us humans to do.

A grateful attitude keeps our egos in check and effects how we treat others.

Meister Eckhart, a German Catholic Priest 1260-1328, said quite famously, "If the only prayer that we learn in this life is 'thank you,' it is enough."

Practice practicing gratitude, you will be glad that you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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loneliness

I was watching a movie the other night called "All is Lost."  It stars Robert Redford as a man on a sailboat, alone and in trouble in the middle of the ocean.

I had to watch in sections as the feelings of loneliness were so powerful.

I thought of so many people who feel lonely.  I thought about how we can feel lonely even with a house full of people.

I thought about the remedy for loneliness.  To me, that remedy is friends.  We all need them.  People to talk to, people to sit with, people who care.

If you are lonely, please reach out to a friend.  Send me a note if you like at jsbrink57@gmail.com

Even though we get lonely from time to time, it is still a beautiful day in God's world...be sure to be the good.

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It could be me

I went to a garage sale last Saturday.  Sometimes I get the urge.  Usually I find nothing, but this time, I hit the jackpot.  For $20 I got a box of sprinklers, sprinkler fittings, a log chain, a collection of drill drivers, a bunch of little lead birds, four concrete tools and some other cool stuff.

Turns out the husband had passed and the wife was selling his collection.  He collected the same things as I do.  Now I have more.  [we always want more don't we???]

I realized... it could have been me.  A bunch of locals coming to the house to buy my precious collection of fix it stuff.  It could have been me.  One day it will be me.

My point in all of this is to say this... no matter what is going on in your world, you woke up today!!!

Life is good.  Life is a blessings.  Life doesn't last forever.

Enjoy the day.  Keep a good attitude.  You only get this day one time.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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The Sabbath - quote 3

"The higher goal of spiritual living is not to amass a wealth of information, but to face sacred moments."

Far too many Christians are pursuing a Christianity of knowledge and information.  Learn more about the Bible.  Learn the secrets.  Know the stuff.  Know the secret stuff.  Knowledge is power.  Know more.

But knowledge is not salvation.  Knowledge is not the mark of a Christian.  Love is.

Too many Christians sit on their hind ends in class rooms, filling their head with knowledge and never get out for the sacred moments.

Sunday School is fine, but it pales in comparison to feeding the hungry, visiting the lonely or working the shower ministry.

Sacred moments are not experiences of the mind, they are experiences of the heart.  

Close the book and get out amongst them.  You will be glad that you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Chocolate

Most of you know that I take chocolate for the flight attendants when I go on an airplane.  It is one way that I have chosen to express kindness to people who are often treated poorly.  How we treat people in the service industry tells so much about our Christianity.

Anyway, I give them the chocolate and they are almost always grateful.  I don't do this because I want a response, sometimes there is none.  But usually they are thrilled and they want to give me snacks and drinks.

On a recent trip to Ashville NC for a wedding,  the response was surprise, joy, and this:

a bag of snacks, note the pilots wings pin

and this note...

"Thank you for making us feel seen."  Wow.  I thought that was fantastic.  And it just goes to show you how many human beings are out there, waiting tables, standing behind the counters, cutting the grass, and they don't feel seen.

Everyone wants to be acknowledged.  Every one want to feel like they matter.

See the humans in your life.  Look them in the eye.  Show kindness.  It will make their day and it will be a blessing to you as well.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Bill Carter's words

Bill Carter was a fantastic man.  He did so many great things at the church.  He built the altar, pulpit, and communion rails.

He was also very wise.  He passed on many things to me.  A couple of his sayings that were humorous 🦴 still resonate with me.

When we were designing the new church, the architect had drawn a private bathroom next to the pastor's office.  I said, "hey if we put the door on this side, the entire staff can use it, the pastor doesn't need his own bathroom."  Bill replied saying, "you won't always be the pastor here."

He was right.  And I will tell you that there were many times when I was very appreciative of that private bathroom.

Another time was in 1994, I had just arrived at Woods Chapel UMC.  There were six exterior doors on the old building and all of the panic bars were worn out.  One in particular, we had trouble dogging the panic bar open.  I asked him to come work on that door.  He came by and worked on all of the doors.  When he was done, he called me over to one of the doors.  It was not the door that I had asked him to work on.

He started to tell me how the panic bars worked.  I started to tell him that this wasn't the door in question.  Before I could finish he said something profound... He said, "son, you are talking when you ought to be listening."

Initially I felt hurt for a moment or two, then I realized that he was right.  And I have thought of it many times afterwards, I still think of it today.

Are there times when you are, when I am talking when we ought to be listening???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Memorial Day

Memorial Day... a day to remember those who fought in our wars. Whether we agreed with the wars or not, to fight in the military is a sacrifice that I believe deserves respect.

Memorial Day is also a day to remember our loved ones who have gone on before us. My Dad, Paul Brinkman. My mother, Mary Brinkman. My friends, Dan Horn, Joel Horsch, Jonny Cross, Robin Fisher, Kent Chappelow and Kathy Krueger.

It is sad to lose those that we love.  When we love someone, we set ourselves up for pain.

The older I get, the more time I spend thinking about life. What a gift it is! What a joy it is to be alive. I also believe that whatever is on the other side must be pretty good too.

But for now, let us live, let us love, let us live lives of gratitude. We only get one shot at this, so let's make the most of every day and every moment that we have left.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Mystery still

As I have been thinking about the God who is beyond us, the God who is found in mystery, I remembered again the story of the salt doll. I have posted it before, but it has been a while.

"A salt doll journeyed for thousands of miles over land, until it finally came to the sea.
It was fascinated by this strange moving mass, quite unlike anything it had seen before.
“Who are you?” said the salt doll to the sea.
The sea smilingly replied, “come in and see.”
So the doll waded in. The farther it walked into the sea the more it dissolved, until there was very little of it left.  Before the last bit dissolved, the doll exclaimed in wonder, “now I know what I am!”

When we fall into the mystery of God we come to know ourselves better. We let go of the need to be right. We let go of the need to be in control.  We let go of doctrine.  When we fall into the mystery of God and dissolve into him, we find a comfort, a rest, a peace.

Wade in. The water is fine.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Male or Female or ?

I grew up in a culture where all pronouns relating to God were male.  He, Him, Father.  To this day, I am still comfortable with that.

But do we believe that God is really a male?  Come on...

A politician got in trouble recently for referring to God as non-binary.

Non-binary means "denoting, having, or relating to a gender identity that does not conform to traditional binary beliefs about gender, which indicate that all individuals are exclusively either male or female:"

We can get very uncomfortable with language about God. I want to suggest to you that God is not male or female or non-binary.  God is beyond our description.  God is bigger than our ideas.

Instead of trying to control God with our ideas, lets consider him as bigger than our thoughts and just enjoy the beauty of the big giant mystery that God is.

Isaiah 55:8-9 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” declares the LORD."

Fall into the mystery.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Doctrine or mystery?

If you grew up in the church, you were taught doctrine.  You were taught what to believe.  Doctrines, are a collection of ideas accumulated and formulated by men.  They take random ideas and random scriptures and create doctrines, ideas or pathways about God and salvation.

There are 1,000s of different ideas about God and salvation.  Who says that the one you and I were taught is right?  The next pastor picked a few different ideas and scriptures and shaped something else.

Ultimately, God is bigger than doctrines.  People can quote the Bible, but GOD is bigger than the bible.  The bible is not GOD.  God is bigger.  Period.

Ultimately I think that we can know three things about God:

1.  God is good

2.  God is loving

3.  God asks us to follow him and to be loving and kind.

Beyond this, our knowing of God is a journey into the mystery of something that is so very much bigger than we are.

Are you living in a world of doctrine or a world of God's infinite mystery???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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quote 2

Quote 2 from the book "Sabbath."  By the way, if you want to buy this or any book, I was introduced to a site called Dealoz by my friend Alexandra.  There is a dealoz app.  I can usually get used books in great condition for a very very good price.

Quote 2: 

"In order to retain an idea of the holy God, to perpetuate the presence of God, His image is fashioned.  Yet a God who can be fashioned, a God who can be defined, is but a shadow of man."

Let me extrapolate... In order to secure the concept of God, in order to stay close to God, in order to feel like we understand God, we humans create images... Maybe a stone idol, maybe a church sanctuary, maybe a collection of doctrines.  Yet, any God that can be defined by man, is but a shadow of man, a creation of man, a figment of His true being.

God is bigger than our doctrines, he is bigger than our notions of him.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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new book

A friend recommend a new book to me.  The title is "The Sabbath" the author is Abraham Joshua Heschel.  A Jewish theologian, the book was originally published in 1951.

Over the next few days I am going to post some quotes from the book.  The theme that I am encountering in the early chapters is this... We focus too much on collecting stuff and having more.  In doing so, we miss the gift of time.  We miss the gift of enjoying this precious moment.  

Here we go... [quote edited by me...]

"There is a realm where the goal is not to have, but to be, not to own, but to give, not to control, but to share, not to subdue, but to be in accord.  Life goes sideways when our acquisition of things becomes our sole concern."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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just sit

Last weekend I was invited to officiate a wedding in North Carolina.  Outside of Ashville, we stayed in a lovely cabin that had a fantastic view of the mountains.

I did something that I have not done for a long time.  I sat on the porch and enjoyed the view.  It was wonderful.  It was peaceful.

I realized that I can do this anywhere.  I can do this on my back porch at home.  I think I am going to start making a habit of just sitting for a bit.

Meditation.  Appreciation.  Joy.  Slow things down.  Enjoy the moment.  It feels good to the soul.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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self-less

From my friend Arthur...

I heard this recently;  "Being selfless isn't thinking less of oneself,  it's thinking of one's self less."

Jeff says... I would add, being selfless isn't thinking less of one's self, it is thinking of others more.  It is thinking more of others.  It is noticing others.  It is seeing others.

Being selfless doesn't denigrate me.  It lifts up others.  And that makes me feel happy and fulfilled.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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cranky

I bought a new battery for the car.  I paid online and picked it up from the store.  An employee brought it out to me in the pick up area.

The next day, I took the core [old battery] in to Walmart automotive.  The woman informed me that she could not refund the core charge due to a glitch in her system.

Back and forth we went.  She wanted me to leave the battery with out receiving the core charge refund.  Back and forth we went.

I am trying to be nice, but this does not make sense.  I have dealt with this woman before.  She is always cranky.  It is like she is unhappy in her life and so it boils out to everyone that she comes in contact with.

And I wonder... did she think that I was cranky?

You know what they say, when I point one finger at another, there are three pointing back at me.  How am I coming across even in, especially in the frustrating moments of life???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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focus on what you love

This is a thought from the book, "The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse as shared by my friend Kathy.

Sometimes life does feel out of control.  Especially as we grow older, there are so many things that happen.  Our children move away, age takes it's toll on our bodies.  There is often a growing sense of disconnection.  Unforeseen and unwanted change can do that to a person.

If you find yourself in such a spot, here is the advice from the book:  don't get lost in all of the crazy stuff.  Don't focus on it.  Look around, see what you love, give thanks for that and enjoy that.

There are plenty of things and plenty of people to love.  Let's let our hearts live there.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Sherri Swanson and I are leading a trip to New Zealand January 30-Feb 12, 2027
If you want to sign up, you can use my host number 17768 or Sherri's 57707
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Sherri Swanson and I are also leading a Canada/New England cruise in September of 2027
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Awareness

Awareness... it is paying attention... seeing who you are and acting out of your best part...

From my friend Courtney...

When we start paying attention to how we affect others, we start changing our behavior.  What message are your words delivering?  What direction are your thoughts taking you?  Are you paying attention to the people that you are with???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Sherri Swanson and I are leading a trip to New Zealand January 30-Feb 12, 2027
If you want to sign up, you can use my host number 17768 or Sherri's 57707
Here is a link for more information
Click here for New Zealand Info

Sherri Swanson and I are also leading a Canada/New England cruise in September of 2027
Here is the link for more information

click here for Canada New England cruise info

more power

In response to yesterday's post, a friend wrote in and said, "When I read the word 'power' my first thought was, that power is the ability to invoke change.  I wish I had more power."

I think that this is a sentiment that all of us can share.  I wish I could help people understand.  I wish I could get people to listen.  I wish my kids...

I would simply say this... we all have power.  Make sure that you are using every bit of it at your disposal to affect positive change.

Don't fail to do something, just because you can't fix everything.

You can make a difference.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Sherri Swanson and I are leading a trip to New Zealand January 30-Feb 12, 2027
If you want to sign up, you can use my host number 17768 or Sherri's 57707
Here is a link for more information
Click here for New Zealand Info

Sherri Swanson and I are also leading a Canada/New England cruise in September of 2027
Here is the link for more information

click here for Canada New England cruise info

power

In moments of power, are you thinking about you and what you want?  Do you use your power to consume and control things to your benefit?

Or are you thinking about God?  Do you think about His justice and kindness?

This is the topic of the Sermon on May 31.  Stay tuned.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Sherri Swanson and I are leading a trip to New Zealand January 30-Feb 12, 2027
If you want to sign up, you can use my host number 17768 or Sherri's 57707
Here is a link for more information
Click here for New Zealand Info

Sherri Swanson and I are also leading a Canada/New England cruise in September of 2027
Here is the link for more information

click here for Canada New England cruise info

Yellowstone

I have been watching the series "Yellowstone." I picked up a great quote:

"It’s the shame that hurts the most, you know.
But shame is in the mind.
You can turn that faucet off whenever you want to."

I love it... As human beings, we can only think about one thing at a time. Let’s talk about Chief's football. Patrick Mahomes and Travis Kelce.  Whoop Whoop!!!

Then let’s stop and talk about war in Iran. Three aircraft carriers in the Middle East.  Do you notice how when I started talking about aircraft carriers you forgot about the Kansas City Chiefs?  We can only think about one thing at a time.  

When your mind is stuck feeling bad about who you are or what you’re doing, turn off that faucet, just start thinking about something else.  Like how much you are loved by God.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Sherri Swanson and I are leading a trip to New Zealand January 30-Feb 12, 2027
If you want to sign up, you can use my host number 17768 or Sherri's 57707
Here is a link for more information
Click here for New Zealand Info

Sherri Swanson and I are also leading a Canada/New England cruise in September of 2027
Here is the link for more information

click here for Canada New England cruise info

I missed Mother's Day

I apologize.  Yesterday was Mother's Day and I didn't say anything about Mothers.  

I don't know why... I am not a mother [and it is always about me right?]  My relationship with my mother was troubled until the very end.  I did get my wife a card.

I know that there are many many many great mothers and you all deserve to be honored.  Thank you.  Bless you.  Hugs to you.   We appreciate you so very much.

I guess we all have days when we miss something important.  I think that it is important to admit it when we miss the boat.  I will be sure to do better next year.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to be the good.

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Sherri Swanson and I are leading a trip to New Zealand January 30-Feb 12, 2027
If you want to sign up, you can use my host number 17768 or Sherri's 57707
Here is a link for more information
Click here for New Zealand Info

Sherri Swanson and I are also leading a Canada/New England cruise in September of 2027
Here is the link for more information

click here for Canada New England cruise info