Saturday, April 30, 2022

strange dream

I had a strange dream.  I had it repeatedly in one night and then again the next night.

In my dream I am married to a Chinese woman.  Suddenly in our 40's she begins to age rapidly and dies.  I am shocked, I am stunned.  I grieve.

Dreams are strange.  And it continues... 

I walk into the next room in my dream, and there she is, but now she is an embryonic late elementary school age person.  She she is aging.  She is 40. Then she is aging, then she dies.

I am shocked.  I am stunned.

I walk into the next room and there she is again, a late elementary school size person.  Then she is 40.  Now I ask her what is happening.  She does not know.  I ask her if it will continue.  She says that she thinks it will.  And then she is aging and then she dies.

But now I am not shocked, and I am not grieving.  I walk into the next room and there she is.  And the process begins again.

It was like the movie Groundhog day.

Dreams are strange.  I don't always think about what dreams mean, but in this case since I have had it repeatedly and since I can recall it vividly in my conscious mind, I am thinking about it's meaning.  Here is what I have come up with.

Life is short.  Death is certain.  Death is normal.  Death does not need to be feared because just in the next room there is life again.

Enjoy the moments that you have with your friends and loved ones.  Don't fear death... it just opens the door to the next thing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, April 29, 2022

Carey Nieuwhof

I don't know Carey Nieuwhof, but one of my friends does, and they sent this to me.  I loved it.  He wrote 57 pieces of unsolicited advice as he turned 57.  Here they are...

Click here to go to his web page

Character

  • Bragging is your insecurity leaking out.
  • The people closest to you should have the best experience of you, not the worst. Often, the opposite happens.
  • Humble is a habit that can be practiced. If you’re not sure what to do, take the low place. Also try admitting you’re wrong and letting others go first.
  • Ask more questions than you give answers. Curiosity is a superpower.
  • Hold the door open for people. Even if they don’t thank you.
  • How you do anything is how you do everything. Faithfulness and attention to detail in the little things always shows up in the big things.
  • When someone who cares about you criticizes you, the best response is to simply say, “Thank you.”
  • Work twice as hard on your character as you do on your competency.
  • Be the first to apologize, even if you weren’t wrong. Because you probably were wrong.
  • When you have to deliver a hard message, make sure the other person still leaves with their dignity. Focus on attacking problems, not people.
  • Doing what you said you were going to do when said you were going to do it gives you an unbelievable advantage over almost everyone else.
  • You are at your most kind when you have the most margin. So unapologetically create more space for your margin in your life.
  • Be harder on yourself than you are on others. That doesn’t mean you should be cruel to yourself. It mean you should hold yourself to a higher standard. The lazy way out is to assume everyone else is wrong.
  • Talk less about yourself. It’s good for you, and for the person you’re talking to.
  • Bragging is your insecurity leaking out.
  • Those closest to you see you more accurately than you see yourself. Ask them what they see. 


Routines

  • Silence will reveal your greatest griefs and spark your greatest breakthroughs.
  • Reading books or long-form articles daily is compound interest for wisdom.
  • Becoming a morning person is like beating rush hour. You’ll do more than others are doing and in less time.
  • Sleep is a secret leadership weapon.
  • If you’re going to sleep in, sleep in on the front side – go to bed an hour earlier.
  • If you don’t rest adequately, your body will eventually go on strike.
  • To beat a craving, wait ten minutes. It usually goes away.
  • You will probably never feel like exercising. Do it anyway.
  • Solitude is a gift. Isolation is toxic.
  • Silence will reveal your greatest griefs and spark your greatest breakthroughs.
  • Don’t litter in your own house. Pick it up. 

Work

  • If you’re overwhelmed, clean your desk. That will get you started in the right direction.
  • Work isn’t about what you do. It’s about why you do it and who you do it with.
  • Writing things down clarifies your thinking.
  • Managing your energy will bring you greater rewards than simply managing your time.
  • If you’re overwhelmed, clean your desk. That will get you started in the right direction.
  • When asking someone with more power than you for a favor, let them off the hook by telling them that whether they say yes or no, you’re still grateful for them.
  • Busyness is a choice.
  • If you see a problem, don’t leave it until you’ve solved it or taken it to someone who can.
  • Rest before your next vacation so you don’t go in tired.
  • Finish your emails with something encouraging like “Grateful for you” or “Thanks so much.” It makes a bigger difference than you think.


Money

  • Generosity gives back. You never miss the money you give away, and generosity always has a way of coming back to you.
  • Personal growth is an investment, not an expense.
  • Wealth isn’t about what you have, it’s about who you’re with and what you do with what you have.
  • Live under your means and you will eventually have more means.
  • People won’t pay for things or give to causes they don’t understand.
  • Generosity gives back. You never miss the money you give away, and generosity always has a way of coming back to you.
  • Do the preventative maintenance. It pays for itself over and over again in the long run. 


Random

  • Never speed in your own neighborhood.
  • You’re probably only really great at one or two things. That’s okay.
  • Learn to identify bird calls. It will make you more sensitive to what’s happening around you.
  • If you don’t know the answer, just say you don’t know.
  • If you want to change the dynamic in any conversation, smile.
  • Attack the problem, not the person.
  • Your boldest moments are your scariest moments, and your best moments.
  • Keep your car clean. It will become one more part of your life that doesn’t feel chaotic.
  • Never speed in your own neighborhood.
  • Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig liked it.
  • If you don’t know, ask someone to show you. They’re almost always happy to share.
  • Buy lawn fertilizer with higher middle and third numbers. 24-24-24 is about right.
  • If you want a healthier lawn, raise your lawnmower blade. Roots only go as deep as the grass is long.
  • Buy two charge cords for your devices. It makes your travel so much easier and you stress less if someone takes off with yours.
  • If you have a kitchen island, put a few electrical outlets just below the countertop on the frame or upper cabinet. This way no one will trip over cords when they charge their devices.
  • Learn how to make a proper cup of tea. Ask anyone from a Commonwealth country. They know.
  • Grill over real charcoal. It improves the taste immensely.
  • When you’re walking in the woods, breathe in the scent. It will calm you down.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, April 28, 2022

I'm just so glad

I listened to one of the sermons that was delivered by our new Pastor, Tim Barton, who is being assigned to Fort Pierce First United Methodist Church.

In the sermon, which was very good, he told the story of a friend who loved to say to people, "I am so glad that you are here."  Pastor Tim went on to say something like, "this is Jesus' message to everyone... I am so glad that you are here."

I loved it!

What a message of welcome!  A message that we can give to everyone, everyday.  I am so glad that you are here!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, April 27, 2022

you are ok

You are ok.  God made you and you are good.

Who tells you that you are ok?  It has to be you.  Sure, affirmation from others is great, but you have to know on the inside that you are ok.  Broken sure, but ok as well.

As long as we are waiting or needing affirmation from others, we will be lacking it.  If God loves you and you are forgiven, then forgive yourself.

You are ok.  Say it 100 times until it sinks in.  Say it 100 times every day if you have to.  Don't waste your life feeling like a bad person.  Life is short.

You are ok.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, April 26, 2022

I am a victim

I am a victim of some bad things.  Things that happened when I was a child.  You may be as well.

Ok, so we are victims.  We were innocent children.  But I have learned something in the past month:  In order to begin the process of getting whole, you cannot park your car in the victim garage.

Yes you are a victim.  But as long as you park your car in that garage, nothing will change.  No one is coming along to fix it for you.  Basking in victimhood only perpetuates the pain.

Get out of the victim garage and don't ever park there again.  Not because you aren't/weren't a victim, but because no healing will come as long as you are in that garage.

Get out there in the world and start working on you.  Stand up and live.  Refuse to be a victim and begin the journey of overcoming. 

 [I know this post is heavy.  If you want to talk to me about it, send me an email at jsbrink57@gmail.com]

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, April 25, 2022

All we need is love

We all want to be loved.  We love to spend time with people who enjoy us.  We crave approval and we crave to be known.

Because we crave such things, it is easy to gravitate towards those who give us warm fuzzies.  I encourage you to spend time with those who love you, but don't get stuck there.

Get filled up and get out into the world.  Someone somewhere is waiting to be loved by you.  In fact, learn to fill your own cup so that you can spend more time out with the least of these.

Yes for sure we crave to be loved, but I hope that we are learning to give it away as well.  In fact, I hope that we are giving away more than we are taking in.

If we can focus on the good coming in and let the bad roll off our backs, we should be getting very good at loving and supporting others.  Maybe we can learn to find our cups filled as we fill the cups of others.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, April 24, 2022

old things can become new

They say that you can't teach an old dog new tricks.  And so, we make a lot of excuses for staying the same and not trying to improve ourselves.

But the fact of the matter is, with enough hard work, and God's blessing, old things can become new.  I was at a car show yesterday and saw an old Model T Ford that my friend Greg had restored.  Piece by piece the car was dismantled, cleaned, painted and reassembled.  All of the wooden parts he made himself.  Today, this old car has become new.



You may feel old and worn out.  You may feel that you are past your prime.  But we can always get better.  We can always find a way to discover more grace.  If you want different in your life, then the first step is for you to put legs to your desires.  God loves us and old things can still miraculously become new.  All things are possible, only believe, and work at it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, April 23, 2022

Perspective

My friend Cara sent this in...

A little girl was overheard talking to herself as she marched through the backyard, wearing her baseball cap and toting a ball and bat. "I'm the greatest hitter in the world,” she announced. Then she tossed the ball into the air, swung at it, and missed.

“Strike one!” she yelled. Undaunted, she picked up the ball and said again, “I’m the greatest hitter in the world!” She tossed the ball into the air. When it came down she swung again and missed. “Strike two!” she cried.

The girl then paused a moment to examine her bat and ball carefully, and then rubbed her hands together. She straightened her cap and said once more, “I’m the greatest hitter in the world!” Again she tossed the ball up in the air and swung at it. She missed. “Strike three!”

“Wow!” She exclaimed. “I’m the greatest pitcher in the world!”

Either way – she’s right.

Isn’t perspective a wonderful thing?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, April 22, 2022

your real self

There is the real me, and then there is the me that I allow people to see.  Same for you.  There is the real you and the you that you allow others to see.

Clearly, the most valuable relationships in our lives are the ones in which we can be our true selves.  

I want to suggest today that too often, we hide parts of ourselves from others when it is not necessary.  When we cram down part of who we are, it is detrimental to our well being.  It is better sometimes to have an open conflict/discussion, then to create all of the stomach acid that comes with pretending.

I for one, am glad to know you and accept you, just as you are.  You can be your real self with me. 

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, April 21, 2022

Family Happiness

Family Happiness is the title of a short story by Leo Tolstoy.  He was a Russian author who lived 1828-1910.  His ideas were so popular that he gained a cult following and had a sort of commune for a while. Tolstoyism was a movement that became popular based on Tolstoy's beliefs that mirrored the sermon on the mount.

A quote from one of the characters in the short story Family Happiness:

"It was he who taught me to take quite a new view of our serfs and servants and maids.  It is an absurd confession to make, but I had spent seventeen years among these people and yet knew less about them than about strangers whom I had never seen.  It had never once occurred to me that these people had their affections and wishes and sorrows, just as I had.  [upon coming to this awareness] Our garden and woods and fields, which I had known so long, suddenly became new and beautiful to me.  He was right in saying that the only certain happiness in life is to live for others."

A hundred and twenty years ago, before electric cars, before cars, before the telephone, there was a man who taught about living lives of love.  About living for others.  Tolstoy, 1900.  And then of course there was that Jesus guy.  Love your neighbor, be the good Samaritan, turn the other cheek ca. 0030AD.

True happiness in life comes when we learn to love others.  See the serfs, the servants, the maids, the person behind the counter, see the least of these and love them.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, April 20, 2022

views of reality

I just finished the book When we cease to understand the world, by Benjamin Labatut.  It is about the development of Quantum Mechanics.  Now all of that sounds very uninteresting to me, but I found the book and it's stories of WW2 scientists fascinating.

Many very smart people collaborated over the years to find this new way of looking at the world of physics.  Here is a quote from the book, page 80:

"A perspective by nature is limited.  [yours is, mine is.]  It offers us one single vision of a landscape.  Only when complementary views of the same reality combine are we capable of achieving fuller access to the knowledge of things.  The more complex the object we are attempting to apprehend, the more important it is to have different sets of eyes, so that these rays of light converge and we can see the One through the many.  That is the nature of true vision."

My comment... The older I get, the less I know.  I have learned over the years that I learn more from people that are different from me than I learn from people that are like me.  If I surround myself with those who see it just as I do, there is no growth.  But, when I open my heart and my ears and listen to those with a different perspective on things, I am enriched.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, April 19, 2022

I am a bad person

Do I have your attention???  Have you ever thought the thought, "I am a bad person."

Most of us think such things from time to time.
  • I did something in my past.
  • I was unloved as a child.
  • I was rejected.
  • I am no good.

On and on such thoughts go.

We should stop.  Stop thinking such things.  God loves you and you are good.  God made it, and he said it was good.

Every moment that we spend thinking that we are a bad person is a moment lost forever in time.  When we are focused on what a loser I might be, I can be of no good to another person around me.  When I am focused on what a bad jerk I am, I cannot be grateful.  When we are filled with negative stuff about ourselves, we rob ourselves of the ability to do good, and to be good to others.

Feeling like a bad person is a total waste of our time.  There is nothing constructive about it, because it is totally negative thinking.

Life is too short.  Life is also awesome and amazing if we can get our minds focused on that.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, April 18, 2022

Joke Day

In the Eastern Orthodox Church, the day after Easter is joke day. They tell jokes because on Easter, Jesus pulled the wool over Satan's eyes. He got the best of the devil. [now you know that I don't believe that the devil is the opposite of God, but I am just going to let them keep their metaphor.] In fact, I am going to join in. Today is joke day. Let's enjoy.

Here is a smattering of my favorite jokes
Two cheese trucks were in a collision.  One turned on it's side and split open.  Debris was everywhere.  [De Bris, the bree]

My friend was in a side swipe accident.  He lost his left arm and left leg.  
He's all right now.

When does a joke become a Dad joke?
When it becomes apparent.

Did you know that a Florida Alligator can grow up to 12 feet???
But most of them only have four.

Well we could go on and on, but if you catch one little smile today from a joke that you know, give thanks to God because Jesus is the Victor and we can all rest easy today. He is risen!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, April 17, 2022

He is Risen

We all know the highs and lows of life.  Sometimes the lows seem so much more familiar to us.  On Good Friday, we saw that God suffered.  Just as we sometimes suffer in this life, God the Father, and Jesus, both suffered.

This tells us that we have a God that is in our corner.  We have a God that stands with us in our moments of despair.  He suffers as we have suffered.

And now today on Easter Sunday, we have the most glorious news.  Jesus not only suffered, but he has risen from the dead.  This should provide hope to any of you who may be down in the dumps.  Suffering is not the end.  Your worst place in life is not the final piece of the story.

With the help of our God, we can rise from the ashes of a broken life and be born into a new life!!!

He has risen and so can we.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, April 16, 2022

More on time

 A quote of Burt Reynolds in the Netflix movie, Without a Paddle:  "you can waste your money, then work hard and get it all back, but if you waste your time, it never comes back."

As I am growing older, I am more a tune to the fact that I will not be here for ever.  I want to make better choices about the use of my time.

I want to make every minute count.  Every day, every hour, every minute.  Are you spending your time in the ways that you find constructive?  If not, it is never too late to make a change.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, April 15, 2022

The God that suffers with us

Martin Thielen is a retired United Methodist Minister.  He writes a newsletter called "The Doubter's Parish."  This recent article of his may push your theology, but I think it is time that we consider other ways to understand the death of Jesus on the cross.  This is long, but worth the read if you are seeking to believe in a loving God.

The Night I Stopped Believing in Substitutionary Blood Atonement
by Martin Thielen

March 29, 2022

Almost two decades ago, during a combined Holy Thursday/Good Friday worship service, I told a true story from the Holocaust. The story involved a Polish army sergeant named Franciszek Gajowniczek and a Franciscan priest named Maximilian Kolbe.

The Saint of Auschwitz
In February 1941, the Nazis incarcerated Maximilian Kolbe at Auschwitz. In spite of the brutality of the infamous concentration camp, Father Kolbe lived out the spirit of Jesus. He shared his food, gave up his bunk, and prayed for his captors. He soon earned the nickname “the Saint of Auschwitz.”

In July of that same year a prisoner escaped from the camp. The policy at Auschwitz was to kill ten prisoners for every one who escaped. The next morning, guards gathered the prisoners into the courtyard. The commander randomly selected ten names from the roll book. Everyone knew if they heard their name called it meant a death sentence.

The commander began calling the ten names. At each selection another prisoner stepped forward to fill the sinister quota. The tenth name called was Franciszek Gajowniczek. Upon hearing his name, the condemned Gajowniczek began to sob. “My wife and my children,” he wept.

The guards heard movement among the prisoners. They raised their rifles. The dogs tensed, anticipating a command to attack. A prisoner pushed his way to the front. It was the priest, Maximilian Kolbe. He showed no fear on his face, no hesitancy in his step. The guard shouted at him to stop or be shot. “I want to talk to the commander,” he said calmly. Father Kolbe stopped a few paces from the commander, removed his hat, and looked the German officer in the eye.

“Herr Commandant, I wish to make a request. I want to die in the place of this prisoner.” He then pointed at the sobbing Gajowniczek. “I have no wife and children. Besides, I am old and not good for anything. He’s in better condition.” “Who are you?” the officer asked. “A Catholic priest.” The entire crowd was stunned; the commandant, uncharacteristically speechless. After a moment, he barked, “Request granted.”

Franciszek Gajowniczek later said, “Prisoners were never allowed to speak. So I could only thank him with my eyes. I could hardly grasp what was going on. The immensity of it. I, the condemned, was to live; and someone else willingly and voluntarily offered up his life for me, a complete stranger.”

Gajowniczek survived the Holocaust. After the war he made his way back to his hometown in Poland. In his backyard he placed a plaque, one he carved with his own hands. The plague reads, “A tribute to Maximillian Kolbe—the man who died so I could live.” (Max Lucado, Six Hours One Friday, Portland: Multnomah, 1989, pp. 66–68).

After the story I briefly compared Maximillian Kolbe’s sacrifice to Jesus’s death on the cross. “Like the priest,” I said, “Jesus died in our place, to pay the price for our sin.” We sang the old hymn, “When I Survey the Wondrous Cross.” Then we observed Holy Communion. Although the service went well, I felt uncomfortable.

Where is God in This Story?
After the service I went to my office to put away my clerical robe. Although I didn’t fully understand why, my feelings of discomfort grew in intensity. I sat at my desk and reviewed the worship service in my mind, especially the story about the priest. It seemed a fitting metaphor of Christ’s sacrificial atoning death on our behalf. But still something felt wrong. The story nagged at me. For years I had quietly struggled with atonement theology—the belief that Jesus died in our place to pay the punishment for our sins. But mostly I ignored my reservations. After all, substitutionary blood atonement stood at the core of Christian orthodoxy, at least in my religious tradition. Who was I to question it? But tonight the struggle came to a head.

Still sitting at my desk, I again mulled over the Holocaust priest story. I asked myself, “In this metaphor, who is the God figure?” God was not represented by the loving priest. Instead, Maximillian Kolbe represented Jesus, who lovingly and willingly gave up his life. So I asked myself again, “Where is God in this story?” And then, in a chilling moment of horrifying awareness, I realized who the God figure actually was.

In my metaphorical usage of this story, God the Father was represented by the Nazi commander at Auschwitz who demanded blood, suffering, and death for behavior he deemed unacceptable. That realization stunned me. I finally realized that behind the all-pervasive theology, liturgies, prayers, songs, and hymns of Christendom that Jesus “died for our sins” stood a bloodthirsty, wrathful, and vengeful deity who required a pound of flesh to pay the price for human sin.

That, of course, is the exact opposite of the spirit of Jesus. As the Roman soldiers brutally executed him on the cross, he didn’t pray, “Father, avenge me.” Instead, Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them.” As I pondered this truth, I wondered, How can this disturbing image of a vindictive God be reconciled with Jesus’s belief in an all-loving, all-merciful, and all-forgiving God? The answer was stunningly clear. It can’t.

That’s the night I stopped believing in substitutionary blood atonement. That’s the night I decided to never again sing, “There is a fountain filled with blood, drawn from Immanuel’s veins; / And sinners, plunged beneath that flood, lose all their guilty stains.” That’s the night I rejected substitutionary atonement theology once and for all.

Although the metaphor of blood atonement made sense to an ancient world that practiced animal sacrifice, it’s theologically offensive in the modern era to think God required a bloody sacrifice of his Son in order to forgive humanity. That’s divine child abuse, not divine justice or love. How do you love, worship, and serve such a violent, ruthless, and vengeful God? It’s past time for twenty-first-century Christians to reject this crude and barbaric theology.

Executing God
It’s not possible to adequately discuss this complex topic in a brief post. If you would like to explore this important subject more thoroughly, including New Testament teachings about Jesus’s death, I recommend that you read Sharon Baker’s excellent book, Executing God: Rethinking Everything You’ve Been Taught about Salvation and the Cross. Two quotes from chapter 1 follow:
“Nothing but the blood of Jesus.” This theologically loaded hymn has been a familiar and comforting part of our worship all our lives. And as we sing we think of the blood of Jesus that washes away our sin, that provides the payment for our forgiveness, we inadvertently put forth an image of God as violent and retributive, who cannot forgive sin without recompense of some sort. In this case, the recompense happens to be the horrific death of an innocent man.
We believe that God required Jesus to hang on the cross, suspended in midair, and die a sacrificial, violent death so we could escape the divine consequence; imprisonment in a place of eternal violence. In other words, we believe in a violent God of love. (Sharon Baker, Executing God, Louisville: WJK, 2013, pp. 3, 9).

Sharon Baker is correct. Traditional “power in the blood” atonement theology is a sub-Christian concept that needs to be discarded. However, jettisoning blood atonement doesn’t mean one has to discard the cross of Jesus. Instead, we can replace substitutionary atonement with a far better understanding of the cross: a theology of the crucified God.

The Crucified God
The following year at our Holy Thursday/Good Friday service, I didn’t talk about a God who suffers for us (substitutionary atonement). Instead, I spoke about a God who suffers with us. I noted that the cross of Jesus tells us that God is a crucified God. Although God does not take away our suffering, God enters into our pain and shares it with us. That’s a far better theology of the cross than substitutionary blood atonement and far more meaningful. During that service, like the year before, I told my congregation a true story. This one involved a man named David.

Years ago, David’s fourteen-year-old son Rob died in a tragic accident. Several days after the funeral, David, in agonizing grief, drove to a Roman Catholic bookstore. There he purchased a wooden crucifix, depicting Jesus’s suffering on the cross. David drove home, opened his toolbox, and grabbed a hammer and nail. He then walked to the kitchen and hammered the crucifix to the wall, right above his son’s empty chair at the dinner table.

Every evening, when he stared at Rob’s empty chair, David lifted his eyes to the crucifix and remembered that God, like him, had suffered great grief. The crucifix did not explain his son’s death. Nor did it take away the pain of that death. But knowing that God suffered with him allowed David to survive that horrible time of pain and grief. Many years later, that crucifix still hangs on David’s wall. It reminds him that the God of the cross is always with him, even in his deepest suffering.

Happy Good Friday, for God is a God that suffers with us.

Thursday, April 14, 2022

The Gift of Time

A friend suggested that I watch the movie Collateral Beauty starring Will Smith, Edward Norton and Helen Mirren.  If you watch it, bring Kleenex.

One of the themes of the movie is that time is a gift.  And I would say, yes, it sure is.  Time is a gift.

To help someone with their homework.  To sit in church with a friend.  To sit across a table at the Olive Garden or restaurant of your choice.  To listen to music together.  To go for a walk.  To spend some time on the phone catching up.  To play a game of cards.  To work on your car's brakes together.

When we give another person the gift of our time, we are showing love.  

My buddy Paul called yesterday and asked when I was coming back to KC.  He misses me.

Time is a gift.  Appreciate it.  Savor every day that you have.  Give your time to those whom you love.

And if you watch that movie, grab your Kleenex.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Wednesday, April 13, 2022

Inspirational signs

At this silent retreat that I was on last week they had many inspirational signs.  No phones or laptops [which was a very interesting introduction to paying attention] but lots of inspirational signs.  Here are some of my favorites:

"Forget all the reasons why it won't work and focus on the one reason why it will."

"Fall asleep with a dream, wake up with a purpose."

"Anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."

"Life begins at the end of your comfort zone."

"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in getting up every time that we do."

"There are only two ways to live your life:  one is to believe that nothing is a miracle; the other way is to believe that everything is a miracle."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Tuesday, April 12, 2022

I apologize

Evidently my April fool joke about closing the blog was not received well in some homes.  I am sorry.  I love you all.  Although I have done this for a number of years in the past, I will try to remember not to do it next year.

I am also sorry for my tardy responses to some of your texts and emails.  I was in a "silent retreat" for a week or so.  I will try to get my emails caught up as soon as possible.

One of the quotes that I loved from the retreat I will share today, "If something is important, we will find a way, if it is not important, we will find an excuse."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Sunday, April 10, 2022

Wind Mills

One of the coolest things on the river cruise to Belgium and the Netherlands were the windmills at Kinderdijk.  They were fantastic.  The windmills were built in the 1700's and if you own one, by law you must keep it in good repair.

It was beautiful day for a bike ride thru the windmills.  I had forgotten these pictures, but they are too good not to share.











It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Saturday, April 9, 2022

I am always there

Not too long ago I was going thru a rough patch.  The messages that I got over and over from my friends were so encouraging...

"I am here for you."

"We will always be brothers."

"I will always love you."

"I have your back."

I hope if you are in a tough spot, that your friends are saying such things to you.  And I trust that if your friends are in a tough spot, you are saying such things to them.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Friday, April 8, 2022

encouraging messages

My friend Pat hooked me up with an encouraging project.

In response to trying times, an elementary school class in Healdsburg, CA found a way to help: a phone hotline that delivers recorded pep talks from kindergarteners. They expected to generate a few smiles for people in the surrounding community. Within a week, the hotline was handling 5,000 calls a day.

Some of the messages that you will get from the hotline:

"Be grateful for yourself."

"The world is a better place with you in it."

"Choose weird."

"Bro, you are looking great."

707-998-8410 is the number.  Check it out!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Thursday, April 7, 2022

learning to be comfortable with disorder


"the greatest enemy of ordinary daily goodness and joy is not imperfection, but the demand for some supposed perfection or order."


Richard Rohr, Devotional March 22nd

My mother wanted everything to be perfect. But when we are trying so hard or insisting that things be perfect, we set people up for depression. We give them a task that they can never fulfill.

Life is not perfect. People are not perfect. When we can become comfortable with imperfection, we can relax and find the joy.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Wednesday, April 6, 2022

Bad Spot

He was suddenly in a bad spot.  How did his brain get so low??? It surprised him and it surprised those who knew him well.

Maybe your brain gets in a bad spot from time to time.  You don't have to stay there.  Make choices, lean on your friends.  Tomorrow is a new day!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Tuesday, April 5, 2022

Rules for life


There are several versions of this on the web. http://www.snopes.com/ will tell you that Bill Gates is not the author of these rules. However, once that he personally heard Bill Gates deliver these on television.

Anyway, here you go. 

Bill Gates rules for life-
>RULE 1-Life is not fair - get used to it.

>RULE 2-The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

>RULE 3-You will NOT make $50,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice president with a car and phone, until you earn all three.

>RULE 4-If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

>RULE 5-Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a
>different word for burger flipping - they called it opportunity.

>RULE 6-If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your
>mistakes, learn from them.

>RULE 7-Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are
>RULE 8-Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as many times you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

>RULE 9-Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.

>RULE 10-Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to work.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Monday, April 4, 2022

The pain of change


Change can be scary.  Change can be painful.  We are never sure how a thing will go.  There is an old saying that we never change until the pain of remaining the same becomes worse than the pain of the change.  Sometimes we just have to dive in.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Sunday, April 3, 2022

Ghent

By now I am home from my trip but I still want to share some pictures.  These are from the town of Ghent.  You may remember the famous "altar piece of Ghent."  I was so looking forward to seeing it, but we needed reservations and did not have the time to fit it in.

Today, as I write this [March 25th] I took the bike ride in Rotterdam.  On the ride I was hit by a motorcycle, a first for me.  I came out fine but the bike is going to need some work.

I would have to tell you that my favorite part of the trip so far has been the town of Ghent.


church from the 1400's








the stone carving is amazing.

zoom in to appreciate


Marriott hotel [zoom in]












Kind of a shame to have all of these amazing churches, that no one attends.  I think the good ol' USA is heading that direction.

It did make me happy to know that there was a time when everyone went to church, everyone loved God and they built some fantastic sanctuaries.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Saturday, April 2, 2022

Well now I am back

Well now I am back.

Like a cat that wants to go out and then wants back in, I am back. Yesterday was, you know, April Fools Day. I am not shutting down the blog. Some of you saw that coming and some of you didn't, that is ok.

One of my favorite April fools stories comes from 1971. I was 14. My grandma, my dad's mom came to live with us. My sisters got to share a room so that grandma could have her own space.

Her name was Mary Lee Toll Brinkman. She was born into big money. The house of her childhood is now the Catholic Reporter building on Armor road and Warwick in Kansas City. It is next door east of the Jacob Loose house. The house and the money were gone long before I was born, but my Mom used to tell the story of going to dances in the ballroom on the top floor of the "Toll Mansion."

We called Grandma Toopta. No one knows why. She used to babysit us on Friday nights so my parents could go to lodge meetings. Years later we found out that lodge was really Dad's AA meetings. Back then we had one little black and white TV, an RCA Victor model. Sometimes I would go with Dad to the store to replace the tubes. Do you remember when the grocery stores had little tube testing stations where you could test and buy tubes? Anyway, we would sit up on Friday nights with Toop and watch TV. She taught us all the song, "the incy wincy spider" and the more obscure, "I don't know why she swallowed the fly" rhyme. I will have to say it for you sometime.

So, anyway, Toopta came to live with us when I was 14. She liked Hawaii 5-0 "book em Danno." She watched the Today show and General Hospital. She drank Sherry [something like wine or brandy I think.] She attended the Episcopal church. My mom didn't like her. I am not going to speculate why. There were a number of possible reasons, but it was a real sacrifice for my Mom to have Toopie living in our home. It only lasted for about a year, and then she was gone. As quickly as she had arrived, she was gone, traded off to another Uncle for a player to be named later.

One morning, I heard a thump, thump, thump, coming down the stairs. I ran around the corner and there was Toopta in a writhing ball of pain at the bottom of the stairs. I called for help, and in a few moments, my mom and both of my sisters were there. We were all gathered around Toop. My Mom took over. Kids step back.

Mom: Toop, where does it hurt?
Toopta: Oooooo. [groaning]
Mom: do you want me to call an ambulance?
Toop: Oooooo.
Mom: where does it hurt?
Toop [quietly]: what day is it?
Everyone looks at each other. We are puzzled. She must be losing her mind.
Toop: what day is it?
Mom: Toop it is Wednesday.
Toop [a bit louder now]: no, what day is it?
Mom: it is April 1st.

April 1st!!!!!!!!! It is all a big joke. She is not hurt, she did not fall down the stairs. My sisters and I start laughing. Mom is furious. She does not think it is funny at all for a 72 year old woman to pull such a stunt. She storms off into the other room. I help Toop up and Toop and the kids go on about our business, somehow the better for the story.

That's the way it was, April 1st, 1971.

I hope that story gives you a smile. Smiles are good!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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Friday, April 1, 2022

I'm Sorry

I'm sorry but I am shutting down the blog permanently.
I am unhappy and depressed and I just need a break.
It is hard for me to end this way but I will still declare it a beautiful day.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am, along with Sherri Swanson and Aaron Brown, leading a trip to the Holy Land January 23-February 2, 2023.

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