no control

I was reading the story of a former NFL quarterback who got into drugs and his career was derailed.  He is on the right path now and doing well.

One of the things that he said in the article was this [paraphrase]... "my past is my past.  I can't do anything now about what happened, and I can't do anything about what people think of me."

He is not letting the past hold him back.  There is nothing he can do about it now.  There is nothing that he can do about what people think.

I liked that line of thinking.

The past is the past.  What has been, cannot be undone.  What people think of me?  Well, that is their choice.  There is no point in me worrying about what they think. 

I have no control over that.  Let me focus my life efforts onto things that I can do something about.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Cruise Ship Fights

Well if you missed it, there was another cruise ship fight.  This one, a few weeks ago in the Galveston port terminal got 24 people banned for life from Carnival.

I sometimes wonder, "what were they thinking?"

So I was reading an article about the fight and it was talking about the ways that you can get on the permanent no sail list.  Here they are:

1. Drinking too much. Duh.
2. Bringing controlled substances onto the boat.
3. Complaining too much.
4. Ignoring the safety protocols.
5. And of course, fighting.

The one that I found interesting was "complaining too much."  Lord, it is about time.  We humans need to learn that the world is not about me.  The world has no obligation to align itself to make me happy.  Every moment that we spend complaining, is a moment lost forever to doing and being the good.  In other words, every 5 minutes that we spend complaining is 5 minutes that we could have spent loving others.  That 5 minutes is lost forever.

Complaining is not helpful.  Let us just live, love and as REO Speedwagon said, "roll with the changes."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Who is doing that singing???

Heavenly days.  It is 6:15 in the morning.  I am walking out of the hotel to get in the car and drive to the jobsite.  I was still in Omaha at the time.  I am walking to the car and I hear this bird singing.  Loud!  And honestly, it wasn't the best bird song that I have ever heard.  That reminds me of an old saying which is lovely and true.

"If only the birds with good voices sang, the forest would be a very quiet place."

I stopped and looked around.  I found the culprit.  It was a big fat robin sitting on a sidewalk light.  Oh, he was proud of himself.  Oh, he was having a good day!

Moral of this story is easy... you may not be the best looking bird, you may not have the best voice, but if you have a song in your heart, sing it!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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A day without power

 A few weeks ago the power went out suddenly and inexplicably in Spain and Portugal.  There is a Netflix series in which that happens. It is called "Zero Day" and it is very good.

Anyway, Zero Day is a show.  The loss of power happened for real in Spain and Portugal.  Imagine... no traffic lights, you cannot charge your phone, there are no lights in stores, only cash is accepted as point of sale machines are down, and atm's are not operational.  No air conditioning, no c-pap, no elevators, no TV, no radio, oh my, what will we do?

It was quite a culture shock to the folks who experienced it.  We have all so grown accustomed to the creature comforts of our modern life.  How would we respond to that?  Talk about the world not aligning itself to make us happy.

I guess the moral of this story is to take nothing for granted.  Modern life has given us so many creature comforts.  We should appreciate them.  So many others in remote parts of the world do not have what we see as commonplace.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Concrete

Whenever I pour concrete, I think of my dad

Some of the tools that I have for concrete work belonged to him. Some of them in fact belonged to his father, my grandfather.

For some reason, it was important to my dad that I knew how, that I learned how to work with concrete. A lot of things he didn’t teach me how to do, but he wanted to make sure I knew how to mix concrete.

So on Saturday a few weeks ago, I widened this porch stoop by about 8 inches - not a big deal, but for some reason, it was poured short and the stones kept falling off and sinking and washing away.

Then I extended the stoop.  We just could not get grass to grow there, so we made a short walk way.

Now I think the porch will be stable and no one will track mud onto the patio.  If you ever come to visit, [and you are invited anytime] If you ever come to visit, stop on the new stoop and think of my Dad.

I think of him a lot.  But I always think of him when I pour concrete.

Thank you, dad

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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History

I love history, so I love museums.  A week ago Sunday, I was in Omaha on a job.  On Sunday after church, I went to the Durham Museum in downtown Omaha.  I did not know what to expect.  

Well the museum is housed in the old Union Station.  The building by itself was worth seeing.  But wow!!!  The trains and old cars, the dinosaurs, it was all very fantastic.

the main building was still set up like a train station.

Real stagecoach from the 1800's

Real, non threatening buffalo.
by the way, what did the mother buffalo
say when her son left for school???
Bison

Again, not real, but pretty terrifying!

Meatasaurus.

More my size.

Lovely model trainset!!!

train cars that we could walk through

Old Omaha street car

caboose!

I love old trains.  My Dad loved old trains.

The building itself was amazing!!!

As I looked at all of the cool stuff, I thought what I always think... my gosh, these people did all of this amazing stuff, and now they are gone.  All the more reason to live each day to the fullest.  Make every day count.  We only go around once and we will not be here for ever.  Give it your best!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Prayer of St. Francis

The following prayer, often attributed to St. Francis, has not been traced further back than 1912, but it is a wonderful prayer. My comments at the end.

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace:
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy.
O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

I was watching a show on Netflix called Unbroken about 7 Jewish brothers and sisters who survived the holocaust. Their mother would help other people hide from the Ghestapo.

As they were discussing this, they remembered that their mom had said, "When we help others, we help ourselves." That made me think of the Prayer of St. Francis.

I don't think that we should help others so that we get something back. But I do think that when we work to live a self-less, other centered life, good naturally comes back to us. Probably not in monetary things, but certainly in a sense of purpose and peace in our hearts.

When we help others, we help ourselves.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thin veneer theory

The thin veneer theory goes like this... humans at their core are animals.  There is only a thin veneer of goodness that covers their inner animal urges.  Given the opportunity, humans will break out of the veneer and steal, ransack and pillage.  And everything that comes with it.

Some would hold out as an example of this, what happened in New Orleans after Katrina with the looting and other misbehavior that was going on.

The theory goes on that government and civilized laws are all that keep people from disintegrating into chaotic behavior.

I for one, do not believe it.  Although I know that we can be pretty bad to each other, it is my strong belief that we have choices.  When people choose to hurt others, it is a choice.  When people choose to act out in kindness, it is a choice.

Do you feel bad ideas lurking just under your skin?  Choose to ignore them.  Choose to rise above them.  Let the thin veneer turn into a thick membrane upon which you can stand to act out in kindness.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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thankful

I was writing a grocery list.  Here it is... random things that I need when living in a hotel room.

I was suddenly struck with a feeling of thankfulness.  I can read!  I can write!  And I am totally serious.  I know people who can't read and write.  I work with people from time to time and I have to help them fill out their paperwork.  I am thankful that I can read and write.

For all of the times that I have complained about my childhood in this blog, at least my parents made sure that I got a good education.

While we are at it... I am thankful for friends.  I am thankful that I have a computer.  I am thankful for a vehicle that runs.  I am thankful that I have and am learning to love in this life.

We have a lot to be thankful for.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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When is Cinco de Mayo?

Today is Cinco de Mayo. Cinco = five. Mayo = May. The fifth of May.

I love to ask people, "when is Cinco de Mayo this year?" Many people recognize it as a holiday but do not understand that it is date specific. Much like someone from another culture might hear that we celebrate a holiday called July 4th. If the words July and fourth don't translate well into their language, they might not know it was a specific day.

I have heard that Cinco de Mayo is not celebrated very much in Mexico.  [Others tell me that it is.]  Cinco de Mayo may actually be a fabricated holiday for Americans to drink margaritas and have a party.

It is also not the Mexican day of Independence. That is September 16th. Cinco de Mayo celebrates a Mexican victory over French forces at the Battle of Puebla, May 5th 1862.

Anyway, today is Cinco de Mayo. When is it next year?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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May the Forth

Yes it is here again... Star Wars Day!

I remember when the original Star Wars movie came out. I was 19 years old at the time and was visiting my friends in San Jose, California. I was there for two weeks. I saw the movie seven times during that visit.  I still love it.

Why is today Star Wars Day?

May the Forth be with you!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thoughts on the Bible

Some people see the Bible as "inerrant."  No errors.  Perfect.  Don't question it.  It is the magic book that will solve all of life's ills.  Just read it, open it's secrets and you are in.  But don't question it.  It is close to God.  Maybe even to be revered and worshipped.

Others see the Bible as "containing everything that is needed for faith and practice."  These folks still love the Bible, but they understand that it was written over thousands of years by many different people.  They are not concerned or threatened by it's inconsistencies.  They accept that the book is not perfect, it is not God, but they read it because it has many things that will lead us to God.

Having said that, I received a question from a blog reader... "If the Israelites left Egypt with flocks and herds, why are they only eating manna and quail in the wilderness?"

Great question from a great person.  There are many more similar questions.  For example... if God commanded Israel to wipe out various Canaanite tribes, why do they appear again later in scripture?  Were they not wiped out?  Which genealogy of Jesus is right?  Does God spare the faithful from difficulty or not?  

For those who see the Bible as inerrant and not to be questioned, these are hard questions.  Usually they find some excuse to explain them or say that the Bible is only perfect in it's original documents {which do not exist.}

For me personally, I am not troubled by such contradictions.  Imagine that the story of the United States was written down by 30 people over a period of a few thousand years.  Would it surprise you that there would be inconsistencies?  Would it surprise you that some of the perspectives of the authors would be different?  Probably not.

The Bible is a big book.  Written over a long time.  Yes you will find some things in it that do not seem to add up.  But that does not bother me.  It still contains everything that I think we need to have faith and practice it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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working together

Do you see yourself as different from others?  Are you tribal?  Or do you see yourself in this life as part of one big family?

I read this story on the internet news and found it to be fantastic!!!

Book lovers united in the small town of Chelsea, Michigan, to help a beloved bookstore relocate down one block.  To expedite the process, more than 300 locals made two lines along a sidewalk between the bookstore’s old location and new storefront. In less than two hours, patrons of the store passed more than 9,000 books one by one down the line until they made it into the new space. The inventory was even alphabetized on its way down the lines! Bookworms might get a nerdy rap (which we wear with pride), but we get the job done!

What an amazing story. Imagine what Christians and church goers could get done if they would simply join hands and work together. We are, after all, one humanity, one people. We are all in this life together.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Costs

When I was first driving, you could go to a gas station and get air in your tires... it was free.  Now they charge like $1.50 for air.  Do you know why?  Inflation.

Here is another inflation story... You know I like to take chocolate on the airplanes and give it to the flight attendants.  I was buying it for years at the dollar tree for $1.00.  $1 for a 5 pack, snack pack of Hershey bars.  Great deal.

Then in 2019 they raised the price 25% to $1.25 for the very same 5 pack.  Now today I am going to the dollar tree and the 5 pack has shrunk by one.  Now the $1.25 is a four-pack.  A 20% increase in the price.

So from 2018 to 2025, in 7 short years, the cost of the airplane chocolate delivery has gone up 45%.

That is inflation for sure.

I feel for everyone who is tightening their belts.  I feel for businesses that have to weigh the need to raise prices vs driving customers away.

It is just difficult times right now.  My Dad would say, earn more, spend less, trust in God.  Not bad advice.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I love cars and trucks

You may know that I love cars and trucks.  I love to own them, drive them, fix them, clean them, and watch them.  I love car shows.

I am happier with my vehicles now that I can ever remember being in my life.  I have a lovely 2016 ford pickup and a 2010 Mustang.  Both have over 200,000 miles, but I love them both.

Right now I am on a job in Omaha.  My wife sent this picture of some local car thieves about to commit grand theft auto.

Turns out that I am not the only Mustang lover in the neighborhood!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Great Sign

I posted this a few years ago.  I think of this sign from time to time, so I must share it again...

I was driving thru Taunton, Mass a few weeks ago and I saw this banner hanging on a lovely church. I wanted to stop and take a picture, but the traffic was busy, I did not know the area, and I had a meeting to get to in Kingston.

I determined to get a picture of the banner on the way home.
Unfortunately, my GPS took me a different direction.

I decided to do some investigating. With the help of Google maps I was able to locate the church that I thought was the correct one. First Parish Church, Taunton, Mass.

I sent an email to the church office. I received a delightful word back from Lindi in the church office confirming that this was their banner.

Now I overstepped my bounds. I wrote back and asked Lindi if she would send me a picture of the banner. SHE DID!!! I was so excited to get the picture!  Thank you Lindi, and thank you First Parish Church for the awesome message on your banner. I love it!!!

I wish that more churches would put out this sign...

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Interim Pastoral Appointment

Today it was announced at Oceanview United Methodist Church in Juno Beach, that they would be getting a new pastor on July 1.  His name is Jeff Brinkman.  It is a part time appointment and it is only for six months, but I am really looking forward to the opportunity.  I watched their worship service online yesterday and I loved it.  I look forward to getting to know the people and trying to be of some service for the Kingdom.

Please keep me and the Oceanview UMC in your prayers.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Why worry

The news has some people very worried.

Jesus had a lot to say about worry.  Worry just is not helpful.  Worry shows a lack of trust.  If God is with us, then why worry?

There are things that I like and things that I don't like.  Things are not always going to go my way.  There are also things that I can do something about, and there are things that I can do nothing about.

Why worry about the things that I can do nothing about?  I will say it again, why worry about the list of things that I can do nothing about?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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were you loved by all?

"The thin red line" is a very violent movie about the WW2 battle for Guadalcanal.

I had not seen it for years. But it was available so I watched it again.

It’s very violent.

I was a bit intrigued by Jim Caviezel’s character as a stretcher bearer - and then just five years later, he is cast as Jesus in the Mel Gibson film, "the passion of the Christ."

An interesting question pops out in the movie as he’s having a discussion with a dead Japanese soldier. He asks the dead soldier, "Were you loved by all?"

Not, do you love people, not, do you actively love others, but do others love you???

I found this to be profound.  

I don’t know about you, but there’s a certain level of commitment that I feel to be loving towards others. But when I think about, do others, love me?  I stop in my tracks.   I just wanna double down.  I want to work harder at loving others.  I just want to invest in them so that at the end of the day they will say,  "I loved that guy!"

Are you loving others?  That is question one.  Question two is this... are we loving others so much and so effectively that they are loving me?  Loving us?

Were you loved by all???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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your issues and mine

I was in a city office a few weeks ago and I saw this sign... I have a lot of sympathy for people that are required to deal with the public in their job.  Some customer service person took the initiative when they held out this message.

Your issues are your issues and my issues are mine.  I cannot blame mine on you anymore that you can blame yours on me.

We need to learn to get over ourselves.  We cannot take our pain out on others. The world will not align itself to make me happy very often.  Usually, I have to adapt.  I have to learn to find my place in the story.  I have to learn to see the good.  

And I continue to try to do so.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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general Jeff update

So I had a wonderful visit last weekend with my buddy Roger.  Oh my, it was fantastic.  While he was here I got a call from the construction company to go to Omaha for a few weeks.  So I spent part of Easter Sunday travelling.

For my friends at the Ft Pierce First United Methodist Church, I probably will not be back til May 20.  Omaha, then Kansas City... then back to Florida.

In the Atlanta airport I had to change terminals so I rode the train.  When the train stopped, the door opened and a few of us were trying to get off.  A group of four young people were trying to get in.  There was literally no where for anyone to go because they were blocking the square feet right in front of the door.  Maybe I shouldn't have said anything, but I said, "can you wait until we get off of the train."  The young woman said, "go around."

Now I am typing this 4 hours later and I still feel the hurt of that encounter.  Tell me if I am wrong, but when my parents raised me, you let other people get off, and get out of the way, then you entered.  I was put off by the attitude, and by the disrespect for an old person.  [me.]

OMG I just made it about me!  I am so good at that.

So I was sitting at the bar in Atlanta waiting for my flight to storm ridden Kansas City.  The people on either side had paid their bill and left.  The bills were sitting there on the counter for anyone to see.  One left a $2 tip on a $30 bill the other left $1.10 on a $16.90 bill.  I was annoyed.  I gave the server $10 when she came to pick up the bills.

Anyway, the moral of the story goes back to what it always goes back to.  How we treat each other matters.  Grace and kindness leaves a sweet spot.  Rude behavior leaves a mark as well.

We only go around once in this life.  We have only one chance to live this day.  Leave a positive mark.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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someone remembers you

This came in from Carlotta Belcher, my mother in law.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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awesome quote from Bruce

 aha!!!!!  I love it!!!

"I don't know anything about consciousness.  I just try to teach my students how to hear the birds sing."

Shunryu Suzuki Roshi

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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joke day

In the Eastern Orthodox Church, the day after Easter is joke day.  They tell jokes because on Easter, Jesus pulled the wool over Satan's eyes.  He got the best of the devil. [now you know that I don't believe that the devil is the opposite of God, but I am just going to let them keep their metaphor.]  In fact, I am going to join in.  Today is joke day.  Let's enjoy.

Here is a smattering of my favorite jokes
Two cheese trucks were in a collision. One turned on it's side and split open. Debris was everywhere. [De Bris, the bree]

My friend was in a side swipe accident. He lost his left arm and left leg.
He's all right now.

When does a joke become a Dad joke?
When it becomes apparent.

Did you know that a Florida Alligator can grow up to 12 feet???
But most of them only have four.

A toothless termite walks into a bar and asks "is the bartender here?"

A pair of jumper cables walk into the bar.  The bartender says, "I'll serve you, but don't start anything."

Well we could go on and on, but if you catch one little smile today from a joke that you know, give thanks to God because Jesus is the Victor and we can all rest easy today. He is risen!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Happy Easter

Easter brings many memories for me.  When I was three years old, I got a deck of Casper the Friendly Ghost playing cards in my Easter Basket.   We went to egg hunts every year in Kirkwood park.  We ate big Easter meals and finished them off with a piece of lamb cake. [white cake baked in a lamb shaped pan.] We never missed church, ever, when I was growing up. In fact, I believe that I have been in church every Easter Sunday for 67 years.

Today, we will make new memories.  Time spent with families, traditions exercised, relationships renewed.   And church.   May you find this day, a blessing from your worship.   May the prayers prayed, the words spoken and the songs sung, bless you.  May you feel the joy of life with God.   May the resurrection speak to you of the hope that we have in Christ.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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seeing the good

Three years ago, a friend of mine from church was diagnosed with bladder cancer.  After surgery, radiation and immunotherapy, the cancer had metastasized to the bones and there was not much left to do.  There was one possible final treatment, but the doctors warned that it could make you really sick. My friend decided to forgo the last treatment and just enjoy the time he has left.

I see him from time to time at church and he is in a very good place.   Although he has months to live, he has a great attitude.   He stopped me on the way into church last week to explain why he cries at church. "He said, it is not that I am sad, no far from it. I am happy.  I am alive like never before!  When I open my eyes I see things like I never have in the past.  The colors are so beautiful and vibrant.  I have such an appreciation for newfound thoughtful, loving, caring friends.  I am so grateful for life and for the gift of each day."

I find this to be an amazing witness to the power of God's work in the world and the power of the choices that we have to see the good regardless of circumstances.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Good Friday

Good Friday is proof that God loves us.

To willingly make a sacrifice for the benefit of others is a sign of love.  Good parents do it for their children.  Friends make sacrifices for each other.

Jesus gives himself up.  It shows the immense depth and width of God's love for us.

That is why they call it Good.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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ages and changes

When I was young, I knew everything.

In my 40s, I started having questions.

In my 50s, I accepted the questions and started to explore them.

In my 60s, I looked at other answers. I even questioned the value of my questions.

Now I recognize that part of the value of my life is recognizing that I don’t know everything. I no longer need certainty. I am totally comfortable enjoying the mystery of life.

I can accept people and love them just as they are, whether they meet my expectations or not.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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speaking peace

I had the opportunity the other day to speak a little bit of peace into the life of another human.  This is someone that I have worked for doing handyman work.  I have helped her off and on for years.

Some of my customers I am very close with, others it is more like I am an employee.  This particular person always seemed a bit distant to me.  I am fine with that.  I want people to be comfortable and to welcome me into their lives as they see fit.

Well last week when I got to her house for a job, she was having a meltdown.  She saw me and started to cry.  She apologized and then rambled off a pretty good list of problems.

I gave her a hug.  I told her that it would be all right.  Afterall, it will be alright.  It was a beautiful opportunity to speak peace into the life of another human.

A good word at the right time is good stuff.  Good for them and good for you.  To speak hope into another human's life is a wonderful thing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I prayed today...

I got a note from a dear friend the other day.  It said, among other things, "I have been praying for ways to show God's love to someone in a tangible way."

Oh, I loved that.  To make a conscious decision in the morning to look for someone to care about.  To devote a part of one's brain to be on the look out for the needs of other humans.

Well done.

That is why we are here.  

May we all work harder to spend the time to look for and find, to look for and see the needs in the world around us.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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act or react

Some of the memes that I see, I am not sure of the source, but I love this one...

I don't know who said it, but I totally agree.  It may even be 5% of what happens to you vs 95% of your response.

On the stage of life we are all actors or reactors.  Reactors [as the name implies] react to things without thinking.

Actors on the stage of life, on the other hand, they step back, they take a deep breath, they remember who they are, they remember who they want to be and then they act.  They act out of the best of who they are.

Which kind of person do you want to be???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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dreams

I dream.  I dream in color.  I dream almost every night.  The story of the Stone Chapel was a dream that I had on Tuesday night last week.

I dream about church, I dream about people, I dream about all kinds of things.  The human mind is an amazing thing.

I have gone to bed with a problem and found the solution, in a dream!

I had a class in college in which they told us to write down our dreams.  Put a pen and paper by the bed and write your dream the moment that you wake up.  

It is amazing how much happens in a dream and how easily it is to forget them.

Whatever your dreams are for this life, keep after them.  It is never too late.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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The Stone Chapel, Pt. 2

The skies were blue and the sun was out.  It was a bright spring day.  The pear trees that lined the road to the Stone Chapel were in full bloom.  In the north garden, Pam and Jim were pulling weeds.  

The doors to the Chapel stood open and the sounds of the children's choir poured out into the church yard.

At the labyrinth, Trevor walked the lines, thinking about his life.  Joan and Mike sat on the bench, waiting their turn.

Daffodils and tulips were shouting to the glory of God.  The green grass was freshly mowed.  

The atmosphere around the Stone Chapel was electric.  On Sunday morning, the pews were filled and the foyer was aglow with handshakes and hugs.

The atmosphere was self perpetuating.  

THE END...

Now, what is the difference between this story and yesterday's?  You.  People.  People that care.  People that take pride in their church.  People that love and value their church.  Never doubt that a few committed people can make a difference in their church.  In fact, it is the only thing that can.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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The Stone Chapel, Pt 1

The day was cold and overcast.  The Stone Chapel was closed.  The doors had been locked for a long time.  Cracks in the sidewalk sported weeds.  Next to the Chapel, the labyrinth had not been walked in years.  The one remaining bench was rotten and it leaned precariously to the left.  The old chapel was so neglected that it created it's own weather.  

Something is missing.  Do you know what it is?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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what do you want from me?

In the old days, I used to meet people for breakfast or lunch.  Sometimes happy hour.  My purpose was innocent.  I just wanted to get to know them.  I wanted them to know that they were valued.

I remember a couple of times when people were suspicious.  It was like they were waiting for me to ask them to serve on a committee or give money for something.

Friends, we need to learn to value people for simply who they are.  I don't need anything.  I don't want anything.  

Maybe I just want to love you.

Let's have breakfast or lunch.  What do you say???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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cow jokes

So I got into a texting banter the other night with a friend.  It was a back and forth about cow jokes...

Someone once told me to lighten up the blog from time to time [like my Delorean] so here we go.

What do you call a cow with no legs... ground beef.

What do you call a cow with two legs shorter than the others... lean beef.

What did the momma cow say to her calf... it's pasture bed time.

Why did the cow win an award?  She was out standing in her field.

What happened when the cow jumped over the barbed wire fence?   Utter disaster.

What did the momma buffalo say to her boy as he left for school in the morning?  Bye-son!!!

[if you want more serious writing, please send me some questions that I can chase]

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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crazy versions

I was visiting with a friend the other day about the many versions of Christianity.  I don't know about you, but I usually just go about thinking that Christians are kind of, mostly the same.

This could not be further from the truth.

There are many crazy versions of Christianity.  Some Christians speak in tongues.  Some of these groups insist that without this practice, you cannot go to heaven.  Some Christian groups will pray over you and cast out evil spirits.  Some Christians handle snakes.  No thanks!  Mormon's believe that there is Mother God as well as a God the father.  They have lots of children to provide bodies for the "spirit babies" that the Gods are producing.  On and on the list could go.  

Why do I bring this up?  Just be normal please.  Just love people and don't get lost in speculative crazy doctrines.

If God is love, that is what we need to focus on and how we should spend our time and efforts.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Roger

I met Roger in 1991?  I was assigned to the Princeton UMC.  Does anyone from Princeton still read this blog?  I am not sure.

Anyway, for me, Roger was a great friend at first sight.  Roger has a great sense of humor, a great work ethic, and a recognizable voice.  We hung out all the time in Princeton.  After I moved away, we saw each other from time to time [like my Delorean]  but after a bit, we lost touch. 

Then when Scott was injured 3 years ago, Roger and his wife Kathy, saw the post on my blog or Facebook.  

I will never forget, I was sitting on the back porch watching TV about 8pm and I got a call from a number that I did not recognize.  I answered the call.  There was that recognizable voice.  My heart was immediately happy.

Do you have people in your life that make you immediately happy to hear from???  I hope so!!!

Anyway, Roger, it turns out was working just north of Jacksonville, Fl.  A few weeks later, I drove up to see him.  We had a wonderful visit.

After not seeing each other for years,  one of the things that he said to me on that visit was this... "my life is better with Jeff Brinkman in it."  Wow did that make me feel great.  I would say the same about him.

Roger is coming to visit in a few weeks.  I cannot wait.  

I thank God for the people who make our lives better.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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out of prison

On Monday last week, I was in Miami.  I was waiting at a job site for a city inspector to come by and give a final inspection approval so the store could open.

The door was unlocked for the inspector's visit, but the store was not open officially.

Every 15 minutes someone would walk in the door and I had to explain to them that the store was not open.  I got some interesting responses... "well then why is the door unlocked?"  When will you open?  Sure looks like you are open...

Anyway, two young men came in looking for work.  I had to explain to them that I did not work for the store.  I also had to explain to them that I had no power to hire for the construction company that I was here representing.

One young man was begging for a job.  He said, "I just got out of prison.  I am trying to stay on the straight and narrow."

I felt for him.  I felt his desperation.  I congratulated him on not being in prison.  We shook hands.  He left.

Wow... the next time I think that I have problems, at least I am not and have not been in prison.  But for the grace of God go we.  May we be mindful of the least of these.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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think first, think harder

When I was a teenager, there was a poster that said, "be sure to engage brain before putting mouth into gear."

These days, I think that it is important to do just that.  

Don't be in a hurry.  Don't go off in a huff.  Don't react or overreact to whatever has come your way.  Think carefully before you do that.  Read both sides of the news.

Our best decisions are not made on impulse, but after careful, prayerful thought. I am the most proud of my life when I step back, take a deep breath, remember who I am, and then make a decision or take an action.

I hate going to bed when I know that I missed it.  I love going to bed at night when my decisions reflect who I really want to be.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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seeing the good

In response to my post a few days ago about seeing the good, my friend Mary sent in this picture.  I wonder how many people walked past this tree and paid no attention to this cardinal?  

Life feels better when we stop and see the good.  There are so many things out there to enjoy and appreciate if we but pay attention.  

Today, maybe take a moment.  Slow down, or better yet, stop in your tracks and look to see what you might have been missing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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don't change

Love.  True love.  It loves you, just the way that you are.

In far too many relationships, love comes with conditions.

I love you, but.  I will love you when you start this or I will love you when you stop doing that.

Love does not demand conditions of people.  Love does not try to control.  Love just loves.

I love you the way that you are... don't change.  Don't change unless you want to do so.  

No conditions.  I just love you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Helping others

I believe in helping others.  I believe that it is better to help one time too many than one time not enough.  In other words, I would rather help so many, that from time to time I was taken advantage of, instead of withholding help and letting legitimate needs go unmet.

Recently I have become aware of a need at our church.  A young woman was diagnosed with a brain tumor.  She is from a family that works hard.  Fortunately, the tumor was benign and she is expected to be ok.  But there will be bills.

I have chosen to help the family by making a payment on their medical bills.  I asked a good friend if I should ask for others to help through the blog.  They weren't sure if it was a good idea or not.  

So, I don't want to put anyone on the spot.  I will just put it out there this way... if you are interested in learning more about the situation, send me an email at jsbrink57@gmail.com

If you choose to help or not help, that is totally fine.  I love you just the way that you are.  And honestly, there are tons of other needs out there.  This one just spoke to me for some reason.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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April 1st

Happy April Fools Day.  I have no jokes to share today.  I overdid it a few years ago and I hurt some of my friends.

I don't want to hurt people.

Over the years I have learned that not everyone "gets" or appreciates my sense of humor.  I totally understand that.  Some times I don't know where it all comes from.

Anyway, if you need some humor today, I hope that you find it.  Text me and I will tell you a joke.  But I won't be hurting anyone through a blog post today.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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3 kinds of churches

To begin with...  Happy Birthday Tyler!!!

Now on to today's post...

My friend Bill Carpenter has always said that there are three kinds of churches:  Growing, Stagnant and Declining.  Each has their own unique set of problems.  

Which set of problems do you want to have at your church?

Well I am so excited for the Fort Pierce First United Methodist Church.  Yesterday we received 12 new members.  That is amazing!  That is huge!

In the 8 years that I have been attending, nothing like this has happened.  Good things are happening all around.  Pastor Tim Barton is doing a fabulous job.  

It is exciting to be a part of a church that is doing a lot of things right.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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How soon we forget

My eight year old grand niece, the daughter of my niece was here to visit for a week.  Oh my how she loved the sunshine, the palm trees and the beach!!!

She is from Kansas City, so she doesn't get to see those things so much.  

We tend to enjoy the things that seem new to us.  

And this is a bit of an insult to the amazing things that we get used to.  We get used to the beach, to the sunlight and to the palm trees...

We should always see the things around us as amazing.  My niece found her visit to be wonderful and amazing.  May we pay enough attention that we are always grateful for whatever is around us.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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not my way

That thing did not go my way. I was perturbed. I was upset.

Thank God that we usually feel better after we get some time to process things.  That is why it is almost always better to say nothing when you are having your first reaction to something.

I must remind myself: "Sometimes in life you get what you want and sometimes in life you get what you get."

And I also remind myself of this quote:

This is the true joy in life,

the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one;

the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap…

and being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod

of ailments and grievance,

complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.

George Bernard Shaw

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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It's closer than you think

In order to see the good, sometimes you have to look really hard.  Sometimes you have to look at the microscopic.  Sometimes you have to see what is commonly overlooked.

And sometimes seeing the good is just perched on your front door step.  It is right there if we just open our eyes.

This is what was hanging out on our front porch the other day, mid day...  front porch security.

two sand hill cranes

protected by Brink's sand hill cranes

Right there for the seeing if anyone was looking.  What beauty is hanging out very close to you?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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feel good about being you

 

So I was watching the Netflix series "Adolescence."  I found it to be very good and also very painful.  Here is a quote from the series... "All kids really need is one thing that makes them feel okay about themselves."

Great.  True.  And let me add to that... All most anyone needs is one thing that helps them to feel good about themselves.

May we do all that we can to help others feel good about themselves.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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