hurt

When someone hurts a friend, it hurts us too.

This happened to me the other day.  Someone said something hateful to one of my friends.  The spoken words were not about me.  I was not involved at all.  The situation had nothing to do with me.

But, I still hurt, because they hurt my friend.

"When one member suffers, we suffer as well."  1 Cor 12

Today I extend words of comfort to my friend and to anyone out there who is hurt.  Be comforted my friend!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

this cannot continue

Every now and then we come across something that we do not like.   I had this reaction about a thing that I observed... "the current trajectory cannot continue."

Unfortunately, some things we can do something about.  Other things we cannot.

So if there is something that you want to change, then please do so.  If you can change the trajectory, then please do so.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

It 's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Father's Day

Father's Day came and went.  I got a really cool Jurassic Park shirt from my daughter Jennifer.

Note the raptors...

I got to speak with all three of my children on Father's Day.  I received two cards.

First the humorous...

From my wife Cathy.

And then there was the serious card...

That's a keeper for sure.  

And, yes, had I been there,  I could have saved the Titanic.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

a rock!!!

Darn.  There is a rock in my shoe.  I take the shoe off.  I cannot find it.  It is still there.  I deal with in for a bit and then I take the shoe off and look again.

These are some of my favorite shoes.  Nicely old.  Broken in.  Comfy.  But not with the rock there.  I am discouraged.  I hate to have to throw them out.

I take the shoe off and pull the insole up.  It must be in here somewhere.  I find a little bit of stuff, but I don't think this is the problem.  Shoe back on.  Problem is still  there.

Then I stepped on the tile floor.  I was barefoot.  Oh.  The rock is not in the shoe, the rock is in my foot.  What is it?  I pull up my foot and look.

Stuck to the bottom of my foot is a rubber bumper from a cabinet door.  I remove it.  Problem solved.  How did it get on my foot?  I guess that I stepped on it at some point.

Sometimes what we think the problem is, is not the problem.  Sometimes our reasoning faculties get it wrong.  We are not always right.

I apologized to my shoe.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

I don't like to do it

The drain was running very slow, problematically slow.  I don't want to do this.  I don't want to take it apart.

I tried the plastic snake.  No help.  I tried the drain cleaner.  No help.  The next thing that I did was to put off the inevitable.  I don't want to take apart the trap.  I don't like to do it.

So I put it off.  I did other things.

If the snake didn't work and the drain cleaner
did not work, I know that this is going to be gross!!!

I delayed as long as possible.

But the problem did not go away.   

Sometimes in life we put things off that we don't want to do.  Sharing disappointing news with someone.  Calling a church member who is upset over something.  Picking up the pet poo.  Paying that bill.  Saying that we are sorry.  We all have things in our lives that we put off doing, because we don't like doing it.

I finally relented.  I got my tools out and took the trap apart.  I am not going to tell you what I found in the trap and pipes, but let's just say that it was a good thing that I finally took it apart.

I take apart plumbing at my house.  I generally don't do it for
clients.  I just don't like doing it.

All cleaned up and put back together.

Now everything is working fine.

Is there something in your life that you are putting off?  Don't make yourself miserable by having the action hanging over your head.  It is not going to go away.  Step out and do it.  Take care of it.  Get it done.  You will be glad that you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

To Pen a Note

Someone made fun of me.

I used a phrase that they had not heard of.  I was emailing about a joint email that we were working together on and I used the phrase that I would "pen a draft."

They called and ridiculed me.  In good fun... well, sort of.

Anyway, I looked it up.

click here to learn about the phrase

Anyway, it is quite a real phrase and it is of correct usage in the English language.  Heck, every day that I write a blog, I am penning a note.  If I write a draft, which I do from time to time, I am penning a draft.

Let's keep an open mind.  Just because we have not heard of  a thing, does not mean that it is not a thing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

G. K. Chesterton Quotes

Gilbert K. Chesterton 1874-1936

Chesterton was a brilliant man. He had no college degree, but was known as a brilliant orator. When he came to town, the halls were packed. Everyone wanted to hear what he had to say. He spoke many eloquent words on gratitude.

I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder. –Gilbert K. Chesterton

There is no such thing on earth as an uninteresting subject; the only thing that can exist is an uninterested person. –G. K. Chesterton

The aim of life is appreciation; there is no sense in not appreciating things; and there is no sense in having more of them if you have less appreciation of them. –Gilbert K. Chesterton

When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude. –G. K. Chesterton

When we were children we were grateful to those who filled our stockings at Christmas time. Why are we not grateful to God for filling our stockings with legs? ~G.K. Chesterton

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

End of time bad theology...

A friend's mother recently asked me about  "end of time prophecies."  And as you know, many preachers have made a living out of pulling scriptures out of context, combining them together in ways that are arbitrary, and coming up with maps of the end of time and dates for the end.   There is a great book called, "The Last Days are here Again" by Richard Kyle.  In the book he goes thru church history and outlines every group who made a calendar and set a date for Jesus' return. I guess that humans like to feel that they are special and living in special times.  By the way, none of the predictions were correct.  The authors however, did make a lot of money off of their readers.

In my opinion, this is all a waste of time. The rapture and attached teachings were not taught prior to the 1850's.  It is a new teaching in the timeline of Christianity.  If you don't believe me, read about it online, read about John Nelson Darby and how this teaching emerged.  It is a new comer to Christianity and it is not a helpful doctrine.

A companion thought that I have to this is that the book of Revelation is not about the future, it is about the past.   John wrote Revelation about what was happening in his day and he wrote it for the Christians being persecuted by Rome.  I am not a scholar, but this is the view of all Biblical scholars.

So, in my opinion, except for the simple return of Jesus, all "Biblical prophecy" has already taken place.

To me the good news about this is that we can stop worrying and stop speculating about the end of time, about Israel and the Middle East.  We don't have to worry about some tribulation time coming in the future.  Instead, we can relax and live and live and live - lives of love.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

loss of community

I had a lovely breakfast yesterday with Dave and Jennifer.  We talked about most everything.  One of the things that I love about people that I am friends with is that we can talk, agree, or disagree, talk some more and still love each other. 

Because, there is something higher going on.   

Dave spoke of the political climate in our country as "we have lost the sense of community."  I love that.  We have made it so much about me that we have lost the we.

It is time to return to love.  It is time to restore the sense of caring.

There is something bigger going on in this world than my feelings about a thing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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the end of the world

This is not the end of the world.

I am almost 68 years old.  I have lived through countless wars and war story lines.  Every time something happens, well meaning Christians say that these things are signs of the end of the world.

Israel attacked Iran last night.  It is not a sign of the end of the world.  It is a sign that they don't want Iran to have a nuclear weapon.  That is all.

Life goes on.  Stop thinking that this is the end.

On Saturday I am flying home to Florida.  On July 1, I start at Ocean View UMC and I am looking fwd to that.  Life will go on.  This is not the end.

Don't waste your time thinking about the end of the world.  Spend your time instead thinking about who you can care about today.

There is love to be shared.  We need to keep doing it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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types of churches

There are churches that claim to be the most Biblical.

There are churches that claim to have the right doctrine.

There are churches that say that they have the key to the future.

There are churches who are the most popular.

Some say that they have the best worship.

I want to find one church.  And I want to go to that church.  I want to find and go to the one that shows the most love.

If I have all of these things and I have not love, I am nothing.

Where is the love???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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see the good

So I was driving yesterday on Independence Street in Lees Summit between 2nd and 3rd streets.  It is a residential area.  I would have taken a picture, but the traffic did not allow me to stop.

One of the residents had put a sign in her yard, right by the street.  On one side it said, "see the good"  on the other side of the sign it said, "you are doing great!"

So here is this random person in Lee's Summit, MO encouraging those who drive by.  A good word at the right time is so helpful.

Please remember that we can use our voice to hurt or to heal.  We can discourage folks or we can encourage them.

See the good.  You are doing great!  I love it!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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an old man is drilling gasket, so what?

Some people ask me what I do when I go to work in Kansas City.  Well, I do random handyman work, but I also work for a friend that has a small steel company.

They build giant duct work for power plants.
People all over the world have electricity because
these power plants are operating.

The sections of ductwork have flanges that are bolted together.   There is a gasket material that goes in between the sections of duct.  They have to be drilled so that the sections can line up and be bolted together.

The material is shipped to the warehouse.

The material is laid out to be marked.  
My friend Bruce does this, which is the hard part.
the brainy part.

The marked gasket is lined up for drilling.

Drilled gasket is laid out per job order.
Pictures are taken to prove that the work has been done.

Drilled gasket is rolled and prepared for shipping.

Wrapped and ready to be packaged for shipping to the job site.

Why does this matter?

Well, it is simply this... Near Palatka, Florida, near Memphis, Tenn. and in places all around the world, people are turning on a light switch.  They are running an air conditioner.  They are heating up baby formula.

Why?  Because they have power.  Why?  Because a lot of people in the distribution stream did their job to make it happen.  Including the old man who was drilling gasket on a trip to Kansas City.

A good number of people go into making anything successful.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Making time for Dad

My Mom died in 1995.  She was 62 years old.  My Dad lived for seven years after mom passed.  He died in 2002.  I miss my Dad.

One of the regrets that I have in life is that I did not work harder to spend time with him in the last few years of his life.  I have my excuses... I was busy at church, I was busy raising children... blah, blah, blah.  My worst excuse is that I didn't know that it was the last few years of his life.

Well one of my friends is doing it right.  Tim's Dad wanted to go to Northern Europe to see the places where they were from.  Tim took his Dad on a trip to Denmark and Belgium.  I am so happy for them.

Tim by the statue of Hans Christian Anderson.

Your parents won't be with you for ever.  Take time away from your busy life to stay up with them.  You will be glad that you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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goodness

Harry on the left, former mayor of Vero.

I run into Harry from time to time.  He is a good man.  I know it.  I just know it.  I can sense the goodness in him.  His heart comes out through his words, his eyes and his handshake.

He lives in a posture of goodness.  I hope he feels the same way about me.

What posture does your life take?  How do you rub off on others?  Some people come across as being in a hurry.  Some come across as being angry.  Some are know-it-alls.  Some live as victims.  Then there are those from whom kindness exudes.

What is the posture of your life.  What flows out from you to others?  May we all work harder to be filled with love, joy, peace and kindness.

The world needs more people like Harry.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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what to think?

Something happened.  I don't know what to think about it.  I probably never will.

Some things in life are a mystery, an enigma.  From time to time, something comes along that is just puzzling.

I am ok with that.  I think that it makes sense that we will have unresolved questions in this life.  Our mission here is not to know everything or to understand everything.

Our mission here is to show love and kindness.

Some things I will probably never understand.  I am not going to get hung up on that.  Let's just keep sharing the love.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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wrong word

I thank my friends for calling me out when I am wrong.

A few days ago, my post ended with this...

"You have tattoos?  I love you.  You are the wrong religion, I love you.  You voted for the other candidate, I love you.  Simply said, I love you.  No qualifications, just love."

A dear friend of mine wrote in and said that instead of saying that I loved someone of the "wrong religion" wouldn't it be better if I said to love someone of "another religion."   They indicated, and rightly so, that when I penciled that person in as the wrong religion I sounded like the "but" people.  

I love you even though you are the wrong religion.  Yes that is not what I should have said.  Let me try again.

I love you no matter your religion.  I respect your religion.  You are valuable.  I love you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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love the sinner hate the sin, pt 2

A few days ago my post included a rejection of the phrase, "love the sinner, hate the sin."  One of my dear friends wrote in with questions....  He said basically, regarding pedophiles, I think that it makes sense to love the sinner and hate the sin.

I agree that there are sins that we would all agree are sins.  My rejection of the phrase love the sinner hate the sin is not a rejection of the notion of sin.  Not at all.

But when the phrase is commonly used about someone, their personhood is usually all balled up in the [perceived] sin whatever it is.  The focus of the speaker is most often one of hatred of the sin.  And the hatred bubbles over to the person.

I find it to be a convenient catch phrase which gives people a chance to judge others.

Here is my other issue... in high demand religious groups, the focus is on sin.  I personally, do not want my life to focus on sin.  I do not want the discourse of my life to be mainly about sin.    Jesus' message was about love.  We should talk about love as much as possible and focus on sin as little as possible.

Time and time again, Jesus loved the person and did not focus on their behavior.

He does not call the woman at the well a prostitute.  He does not call the Roman soldiers abusive occupiers.  He does not call the thief on the cross a thief.  He just loves them all.

So should we. 

I hope that helps.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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learning

There is always something to learn.  We humans like to think that we know a lot.  We like to think that we are smart.  Our experience brings us a great deal of information.  But there is always more to learn.

When I moved to Florida, I learned that plants grow forever with out the presence of a winter freeze.  I learned that the salt air is detrimental to things like air conditioners.  An A/C unit that might last 20 years in Missouri has a life span of more like 10 years in Florida if you are close to the beach.

Then there was this annoying lesson.  If you leave a hose with a metal end on a spigot long enough, you will never get it off.  Something in the salt air fuses the two metals together.  I spoke with a plumber the other day who told me that he worked for an hour to remove a sprayer from a hose end and could not get it loose.  A plumber!!!

So, odd as it sounds, when I get a new hose, I cut off the metal end and put on a plastic one.  Problem solved.

New hose... I cut off the metal end.

old and new ends...

There is always something to learn if we are open to do so.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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taking the time

Too often in this life, we are in such a hurry that we fly right past amazing things.  The adage "be sure to see the good" is a reminder that we can easily miss amazing things.

My friend Arthur was touched by the appearance of a rainbow after a storm.  He made the decision to stop and take a picture...  We should all stop and take more pictures.

Blue Springs lake is in the background.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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be the reason

I saw this on a church sign in Vero Beach the other day...

"Be the reason that someone believes in goodness."

I love that.  Nothing more to say.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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love is indiscriminate

Indiscriminate- love is indiscriminate.  It is not given to some and withheld from others. True love goes out to all.  As the lamp provides light to all, true love is indiscriminate.   As the scent of the rose is available to all,  so love is blind.  The tree provides shade to the good and the evil, love is available to all.

When we are acting in love, the kindness goes out to all.  We love the friend and the foe.  The home team and the rival.  We love those who like us and those who hate us.  True love goes out to all.   Don't be bothered by anyone.   Don't be disturbed by anyone who is mean.  Keep loving.  Keep caring.   Let the shade fall on them,  the scent of the rose find them.  Let the light of your love go out to all.

Love cannot be contained.  It wants to come out of us.   It wants to forgive.   It wants to heal.  Don't be overcome by your hurts, find the love in your heart and give it out again.   Give it back again. And again.  To the new person in the office, to the old curmudgeon, to the friend, to the surly, to the rich to the poor.  When we learn to love like God loves, everyone is the recipient.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Hatred disguised as love

In "high demand" religious groups, hate often masquerades as love.  You will hear phrases like, "love the sinner, hate the sin."  You will hear phrases like, "there is no love without truth."

In both cases, love has been highjacked by truth.  And not just truth, but their version of the truth.

Values are great, sure.  But Jesus never sacrificed people because of some "truth."  In fact, one of the things that causes us to love Jesus is his uncanny way of setting aside the values of the day to welcome a broken human.

When Samaritans were heretics, he welcomed them.  When lepers were outcasts, he healed them.  When the Romans were occupiers, he was there for them.  When the Pharisees were self-righteous, he met with them, if they were willing.

Love doesn't have a but.  I love you but... I hate your sin.  That is not love.  I love you but, here is the truth... that is not love.

Love simply loves.  True love flies freely.  It moves in unbounded ways from the heart of one person to another.  

You have tattoos?  I love you.  You are the wrong religion, I love you.  You voted for the other candidate, I love you.

Simply said, I love you.  No qualifications, just love.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Poor Ocean View

I am feeling bad for the Ocean View UMC.  I am supposed to preach there on July 6.  I have this sermon idea in my head and it won't go away.  

I have worked on it and worked on it.  I have gone to bed for several weeks thinking about and practicing this first sermon. 

Well in a matter of minutes, I put myself to sleep with this sermon.  Can you imagine how many people in the congregation will be out after 5 minutes of listening to me?  If I can't keep myself awake, how will it be any good for anyone else?

What if I start into the sermon on July 6, and I fall asleep 5 minutes in?

If I do, please someone pop up and kick me and get me started again.  It is some good stuff [I think} about the 12 disciples... for some reason, it has been on my mind... until I fall asleep...

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Maybe you actually can do it...

I don't know if my friend Derek reads this blog or not... but if you know him, you might tell him about this dream that I had...

Sunday night I dreamt all night long that Derek wanted me to do this job on a roof leak in their home.  It was a big job and I was afraid of it and I kept telling him no.  I didn't think that I could do it.

Derek's family's company is the construction company that I go out on the road for from time to time.  Well, after telling him no, no, no, I finally started in on it and I worked it over and over and over again in my dream.

I will bet you that I took this roof apart 20 times over and over in my dreams, until I was happily surprised that I was able to repair it.  I was able to get it all fixed up.

 I guess the moral of that story is that maybe if there’s something in your life that you’re afraid of, maybe you shouldn't be.  Maybe you are afraid of trying to give it a shot, but you shouldn't be. 

Step into your fears... You may surprise yourself with more ability than you thought you had.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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look at what you have

I have just finished seasons 1, 2 and 3 of the White Lotus on HBO Max.  Not sure what to say about some of it, but there were some great moments.

Spoiler alert...  quote from season 3...  Something to think about for people like me who had rough childhoods...

One character said to another, "Stop worrying about the love that you didn’t get...
think instead about the love that you have now...
I love you and I’m right here."

Friends, if someone loves you, the above is a pretty profound and powerful statement...

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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procrastination

Why put off til tomorrow what you can do today?  In other words, lets get it off our plate.  Everything that is done today is one less thing on the list for tomorrow.  

I remember when I had employees and I had to have a difficult conversation.  The introvert in me wanted to put those conversations off, but I learned over the years to get them done so that I could stop worrying about whatever it was.  Usually the discussions went better than I thought they would.

But then there is procrastination.  There are some things in life that we find distasteful and so we put them off and put them off.  

Recently I had such an experience with Cologuard, a test prescribed by my doctor.  I am not going to describe what you do for this test, but it is not fun and it is not pretty.  I have been dreading it.  If you have done this test, you know what I mean.  If you have not done this test, you can read about it here... reader beware...  

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Anyway, as I write this blog, the test is done.  It is off in the mail.  I am glad it is over with.  I am also glad that taking this test has made it so that I don't need to have a colonoscopy... another wonderful part of life that we all would like to avoid.

If you are facing something unpleasant, get it over with.  Get it over with so the dread will go away and you can move on.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Memorial Day

Memorial Day... a day to remember those who fought in our wars. Whether we agreed with the wars or not, to fight in the military is a sacrifice that I believe deserves respect.

Memorial Day is also a day to remember our loved ones who have gone on before us. My Dad, Paul Brinkman. My mother, Mary Brinkman. My friends, Dan Horn, Joel Horsch, Robin Fisher, Kent Chappelow and Kathy Krueger.

It is sad to lose those that we love.

The older I get, the more time I spend thinking about life. What a gift it is! What a joy it is to be alive. I also believe that whatever is on the other side must be pretty good too.

But for now, let us live, let us love, let us live lives of gratitude. We only get one shot at this, so let's make the most of every day and every moment that we have left.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Gravitational pull

Sometimes in a relationship there is a gravitational pull - where one person who is weaker, will be pulled into the orbit of the stronger person.

Sometimes over the years, this comes and goes... I am in your orbit, then you are in mine.  

I am not sure that there is much to do about this except to encourage healthy respect and caring in relationships.  Treating others with respect is so important.

Too often we grow older but we do not grow up.  Shaming, shunning and gaslighting of another have no place in healthy relationships.  Power is not something to be exerted over another.

Is someone in your orbit... let them go... are you in someone else's orbit?  Become your true self again.  You will be glad that you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Churchill Quote

"Success is not final, Failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts."

Sometimes, we just have to roll out of bed in the morning and keep after it.  We have to set aside our feelings of failure and just give it another go.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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it's not that bad

So maybe your are worried about something that you did, or something that you are doing.  Whatever it is, someone else has done much worse.  Someone else has done so much that they are making you look like a saint.

Yet you suffer with worry.  If Jesus can forgive Barabbas, if Jesus can forgive the thief on the cross, if Jesus can love and welcome the Romans, then you are probably ok.

Stop feeling bad.  God loves you.  No one is perfect.  If God can forgive David, who had Uriah killed, then God can forgive you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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how we see the world

Three men who were visiting the Grand Canyon for the first time – an artist, a pastor, and a cowboy. As they stood together at the edge of the massive abyss, the Artist exclaimed, “Ah …. What a beautiful scene to paint.” The Pastor waved his arms in sweeping gestures and declared, “What a wonderful example of the magnificent handiwork of Father God.” Then the Old Cowboy grumbled, “What a terrible place to lose a cow.”

How we look at something makes all the difference in the world.  We tend to look at things through the lens of self-protection and self-validation.  What would happen if we saw the world through the eyes of another?

We might get off of our high horse for a moment and save someone's cow [from utter disaster].  Don't let that joke take you away from the point.  We can't save someone's bacon until we learn to look at the world through their eyes.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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to make a change

This is a quote from one of my favorite books... Managing Transitions, by William Bridges.

To become something else, you have to stop being what you are now; to start doing things a new way, you have to end the way you are doing them now; and to develop a new attitude or outlook, you have to let go of the old one you have now. Even though it sounds backwards, endings always come first. The first task is to let go. (p. 80 Transitions, Bridges)

Let's discuss this in terms of learning to be a kinder person. If we seek to be more kind, we must work to end the practice of selfishness. If we would move into a life of kindness, we must stop reacting negatively to the things that happen in our lives.

Out with the old, in with the new.  We will never grow in kindness until we learn to stop the negative behaviors in our lives.

Ready, set, go!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Ocean View UMC

Yesterday I visited with the Pastor and leaders of Ocean View UMC.  I thought that we had a great visit. I was pleased to see this sign outside of the entrance.

All cultures, all sizes, all ages... why would it be any other way???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Florida Gators

Did you know that Florida Gators can grow up to 12 feet?  But most of them only have 4.

Now on to today's post...

For the first 58 years of my life, I was ambivalent about the Florida Gators.  No feeling one way or another.  Then something happened that made me hate dislike the Gators.  As I was being introduced to a new church, the Pastor in charge prayed over Cathy and I and then put Florida Gator hats on our heads.  In the middle of the worship service.

Needless to say, that left a bad taste in my mouth.  I have disliked the Gators since then.

Until last night.

Last night I finished watching a Netflix series called "Untold:  Swamp Kings."  It was about the Gator football teams of 2005-2009.  Tim Tebow was the quarterback.  Oh, my... the heart, the work ethic, and the determination of those athletes was incredible.

Today, and going forward, I will have a different feel about the Gators.

Don't ever let your personal pain cloud your view of others.  The Missouri Tigers, the Kansas Jayhawks, the Florida State Seminoles and on we go...  they are all just young men and women doing their best.

When we get tribal, we can get hateful.

I would also call that, "off-mission."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I'm not as smart as I think

I think I know more than I do. That is why, from time to time, I am wrong. I don't mind admitting that I was wrong. It happens.

I’m routinely reminded [graciously] by people smarter than me that I’m not as smart as I thought.
And it’s not that they’re saying things, it’s not that they’re just coming out and telling me that I’m not very smart, it just happens by interacting with them. I realize that I don’t know as much as I think.

I think it is good for us to be aware of our shortcomings. I think a little humble pie is good for everyone. When we realize that we don't know everything, good things can happen.

-our minds can be open to the thoughts of others.
-we journey thru life as seekers instead of knowers.

-we can gain from the experience and knowledge of others.

I hope that you can admit when you are wrong.  I hope that you are a seeker of knowledge.  Life is better from this posture.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Passed on by my friend Bruce...

Chris A... personal message from me to you... send me your stuff.  I need your thoughts for this blog!  You have so much to give!!!

Now on to today's post... from my friend Bruce...

Happiness is when what your think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Mahatma Gandhi

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Friends for life

I was helping a friend with a funeral the other day. The family had requested the scripture from Romans 8.

38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[k] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

And I got to thinking about this.  God will never leave us.  God will always stand by us.

Some years ago, I was tossed aside by a friend. It was not his choice, but it was still real, and it hurt.

Since then, I have a prerequisite for friendship... it is simply this... we will be friends until the end. I am not throwing you away, no matter what, and you will stand with me, no matter what.

In life, things happen. Some of it is not pretty. But I want you to know that if we are friends, I am, we are in it for the long haul.

Having people in your life that you know will stand with you is very valuable. I AM ONE.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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do you read this?

A friend of mine, TC, told me that he has a contact in Idaho that reads this blog.  Hmmm.  I'm not sure... if you live in Idaho and you read Anthony DeMello and you read this blog, please send me a note to jsbrink57@gmail.com

Now on to today's post...

My daughter Jennifer sent me a list of Marcus Aurelius' top quotes. One of them was this: "When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breath, think, to enjoy, to love."

I find it interesting, heart warming, and inspiring that 2,000 years ago, someone, or some people were thinking about the very same things that I am thinking about.

What a privilege it is to be alive... to breath, to think, to enjoy, and most of all, to love!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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no control

I was reading the story of a former NFL quarterback who got into drugs and his career was derailed.  He is on the right path now and doing well.

One of the things that he said in the article was this [paraphrase]... "my past is my past.  I can't do anything now about what happened, and I can't do anything about what people think of me."

He is not letting the past hold him back.  There is nothing he can do about it now.  There is nothing that he can do about what people think.

I liked that line of thinking.

The past is the past.  What has been, cannot be undone.  What people think of me?  Well, that is their choice.  There is no point in me worrying about what they think. 

I have no control over that.  Let me focus my life efforts onto things that I can do something about.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Cruise Ship Fights

Well if you missed it, there was another cruise ship fight.  This one, a few weeks ago in the Galveston port terminal got 24 people banned for life from Carnival.

I sometimes wonder, "what were they thinking?"

So I was reading an article about the fight and it was talking about the ways that you can get on the permanent no sail list.  Here they are:

1. Drinking too much. Duh.
2. Bringing controlled substances onto the boat.
3. Complaining too much.
4. Ignoring the safety protocols.
5. And of course, fighting.

The one that I found interesting was "complaining too much."  Lord, it is about time.  We humans need to learn that the world is not about me.  The world has no obligation to align itself to make me happy.  Every moment that we spend complaining, is a moment lost forever to doing and being the good.  In other words, every 5 minutes that we spend complaining is 5 minutes that we could have spent loving others.  That 5 minutes is lost forever.

Complaining is not helpful.  Let us just live, love and as REO Speedwagon said, "roll with the changes."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Who is doing that singing???

Heavenly days.  It is 6:15 in the morning.  I am walking out of the hotel to get in the car and drive to the jobsite.  I was still in Omaha at the time.  I am walking to the car and I hear this bird singing.  Loud!  And honestly, it wasn't the best bird song that I have ever heard.  That reminds me of an old saying which is lovely and true.

"If only the birds with good voices sang, the forest would be a very quiet place."

I stopped and looked around.  I found the culprit.  It was a big fat robin sitting on a sidewalk light.  Oh, he was proud of himself.  Oh, he was having a good day!

Moral of this story is easy... you may not be the best looking bird, you may not have the best voice, but if you have a song in your heart, sing it!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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A day without power

 A few weeks ago the power went out suddenly and inexplicably in Spain and Portugal.  There is a Netflix series in which that happens. It is called "Zero Day" and it is very good.

Anyway, Zero Day is a show.  The loss of power happened for real in Spain and Portugal.  Imagine... no traffic lights, you cannot charge your phone, there are no lights in stores, only cash is accepted as point of sale machines are down, and atm's are not operational.  No air conditioning, no c-pap, no elevators, no TV, no radio, oh my, what will we do?

It was quite a culture shock to the folks who experienced it.  We have all so grown accustomed to the creature comforts of our modern life.  How would we respond to that?  Talk about the world not aligning itself to make us happy.

I guess the moral of this story is to take nothing for granted.  Modern life has given us so many creature comforts.  We should appreciate them.  So many others in remote parts of the world do not have what we see as commonplace.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Concrete

Whenever I pour concrete, I think of my dad

Some of the tools that I have for concrete work belonged to him. Some of them in fact belonged to his father, my grandfather.

For some reason, it was important to my dad that I knew how, that I learned how to work with concrete. A lot of things he didn’t teach me how to do, but he wanted to make sure I knew how to mix concrete.

So on Saturday a few weeks ago, I widened this porch stoop by about 8 inches - not a big deal, but for some reason, it was poured short and the stones kept falling off and sinking and washing away.

Then I extended the stoop.  We just could not get grass to grow there, so we made a short walk way.

Now I think the porch will be stable and no one will track mud onto the patio.  If you ever come to visit, [and you are invited anytime] If you ever come to visit, stop on the new stoop and think of my Dad.

I think of him a lot.  But I always think of him when I pour concrete.

Thank you, dad

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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History

I love history, so I love museums.  A week ago Sunday, I was in Omaha on a job.  On Sunday after church, I went to the Durham Museum in downtown Omaha.  I did not know what to expect.  

Well the museum is housed in the old Union Station.  The building by itself was worth seeing.  But wow!!!  The trains and old cars, the dinosaurs, it was all very fantastic.

the main building was still set up like a train station.

Real stagecoach from the 1800's

Real, non threatening buffalo.
by the way, what did the mother buffalo
say when her son left for school???
Bison

Again, not real, but pretty terrifying!

Meatasaurus.

More my size.

Lovely model trainset!!!

train cars that we could walk through

Old Omaha street car

caboose!

I love old trains.  My Dad loved old trains.

The building itself was amazing!!!

As I looked at all of the cool stuff, I thought what I always think... my gosh, these people did all of this amazing stuff, and now they are gone.  All the more reason to live each day to the fullest.  Make every day count.  We only go around once and we will not be here for ever.  Give it your best!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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