Saturday, November 30, 2019

God is bigger than the book

In a desert country trees were scarce and fruit was hard to come by. It was said that God wanted to make sure there was enough for everyone, so He appeared to a prophet and said, “This is my commandment to the whole people for now and for future generations: no one shall eat more than one fruit a day. Record this in the Holy Book. Anyone who transgresses this law will be considered to have sinned against God and against humanity.”

The law was faithfully observed for centuries until scientists discovered a means for turning the desert into green land. The country became rich in grain and livestock. And the trees bent down with the weight of unplucked fruit. But the fruit law continued to be en­forced by the civil and religious authorities of the land.

Anyone who pointed to the sin against humanity in­volved in allowing fruit to rot on the ground was dubb­ed a blasphemer and an enemy of morality. These people, who questioned the wisdom of God’s Holy Word, were being guided by the proud spirit of reason, it was said, and lacked the spirit of faith and submission whereby alone the Truth can be received.

In the churches sermons were frequently delivered in which those who broke the law were shown to have come to a bad end. Never once was mention made of the equal number of those who came to a bad end even though they had faithfully kept the law or of the vast number of those who prospered even though they broken it.

Nothing could be done to change the law because the prophet who had claimed to have received it from God was long since dead. He might have had the courage and the sense to change the law as circumstances changed for he had taken God’s Word, not as something to be revered, but as something to be used for the welfare of the people.

As a result, some people openly scoffed at the law and at God and religion. Others broke it secretly and always with a sense of wrongdoing. The vast majority adhered rigorously to it and came to think of themselves as holy merely because they held on to a senseless and outdated custom they were too frightened to jettison.

God is bigger than the book. Love should always be the first rule.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Friday, November 29, 2019

$1.50

A friend of mine shared this story.   On Wednesday, he was on the way to St. Louis for Thanksgiving.  A light started blinking on the dash.  One of the tires on his car was low.  For whatever reason, he was cash-less.  He stopped at a gas station planning to use his debit card to buy a drink and get cash.  The air compressor was $1.50

The clerk explained that they did not give cash back.  He said, oh, well I needed air.  He started out the door.  The clerk hollered and stopped him.  Seems that she keeps quarters back for indigent folks who need air but don't have the money.  Not that he is indigent, but he did need the quarters.

He thanked her and promised to pay her back.
She said, Don't worry about it, Have a Happy Thanksgiving.

This morning he woke up to drive back home.  On the way there, he stopped at Price Chopper, bought a box of Russel Stover candies, and got some cash back in the purchase.  He headed to the town where the clerk had given him $1.50 two days before.

When he walked in the door, he was pleased to see that the same clerk was working.  He asked if she remembered him... yes she did.  He handed her the chocolates saying, these are for you.  Then he gave her a $10 roll of quarters.  He said, this is for your quarter collection...keep up the good work.

They exchanged smiles.  One person helping another, who then helps another...

How have you been blessed in the past by an act of kindness?  How have you paid it forward?  Would you be willing to start a chain of kindness by engaging in a random unprovoked act of kindness?  Think of all the good that might come from one small act of love.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Thursday, November 28, 2019

Thanksgiving

Come ye thankful people come.
Raise the song that harvest has come.
All are safely gathered in
Before the winter storms begin
God our maker will provide
for our wants to be supplied
Come to God's own temple come
Raise the song... we are safe and we are home.

I love Thanksgiving.  It is such a beautiful holiday.
If you are really awake in life, then you know that every single day is thanksgiving.

If you can find one thing to be thankful for it changes everything.
Are you sad?  Is your nose stuffy?
There is something yet to be thankful for.  Find it.  Find the thing.
If you can find one thing to be thankful for it changes everything.

Meister Eckhart, a Catholic monk lived around 1300.  One of his favorite quotes....
"If the only prayer that you learn in this life is thank you, then that is enough."

Happy Thanksgiving my friends!

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Wednesday, November 27, 2019

feeling safe

Last week I had breakfast with my friends Pete and Carol.  They are heavily involved with a mission school in Haiti.  I love ministries that reach out to the least of these.

They were telling me about their last trip.  There is unrest in Haiti now and on several occasions they were told to leave a place because it was not safe for them.  Angry young men set up road blocks and you either had to pay them to continue on or find another route.

It occurred to me as they were talking, I have never, or hardly ever felt unsafe in the USA.  Thanksgiving is here and I am thankful for something that we so often take for granted, feeling safe.

Thank you God that we feel safe.  Please bless those who do not feel safe.  May we all appreciate the sense of feeling safe it is such a blessing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Tuesday, November 26, 2019

sacred space

From my friend Ginger...

“The space in our head and heart is sacred. We can believe the lie that we must do things the way we always have. We can believe we are powerless in our circumstances. Or we can believe that God made us for something more. “

I would like to add... yes I totally agree.  Where ever we are, we don't have to stay stuck.  We have the power, and we alone have the power to work with God to make our hearts and minds work in more kind and gracious ways. 

If you don't like where your heart and mind are at, today would be a great day to choose to begin the journey of change.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Monday, November 25, 2019

we just don't know

We just don't know what is behind someone's behavior.  Maybe they are sad, maybe they are angry, maybe they are violent.  Maybe they are hateful.

We just don't know why people do what they do.  Not to justify bad behavior, but maybe their heart is breaking.  Maybe they are angry about something in their life and are taking it out on other drivers.  Maybe their entire life they have felt inferior and it comes bursting out from time to time.

I helps me to remember that behind someone's hurtful behavior is probably some form of hurt.

Yes, I wish people would take responsibility to make their life better, but not all will do so.

So at least for today, instead of hurting back, I am going to absorb the pain.  You never know what is going on in someone else's heart or head.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Sunday, November 24, 2019

The uncertainty of sermon preparation

A few weeks ago I preached a sermon on the church and what it takes for us to be relevant.  I thank Pastor Tim for the opportunity to fill in for him.

The sermon was delivered on Nov 10 and when I sent out the audio, several of you let me know that the audio was cut off.  I don't know why but for some reason my phone shut off half way thru the recording.  I'm sorry.

Anyway, As I prepared for this sermon I was reminded of how difficult this process is.  [unless you just steal someone else's, but that creates its own issues.] When I was serving the church full time, I can tell you that it seemed like Sunday came 3x a week.  Sometimes you would work on a thing, go to bed on Saturday night praying, "Lord, you are really going to have to help this one."  Sometimes I would wake up on Sunday morning and look at the notes and think, "oh my gosh, what was I thinking?"  Sometimes after service people would go out and say, "well, that was not one of your best."  The pressure to think that you can speak for God is really difficult.

Imagine having to say something spiritual, every Sunday.  What if you don't feel spiritual?  What if you are struggling with loneliness or such?  Doesn't matter.  I will never forget the Mother's Day when a member came up to me and said, "good morning Jeff, it's Mothers day and my mother is here with me.  This better be a good one."

The point of all of this is that preaching is a huge responsibility.  Le us remember to pray for our preachers and encourage them.  It is not an easy endeavor.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Saturday, November 23, 2019

unconditional love

From my friend Brian...

I continue to learn about love and forgiveness from our grand kids. My 5 year old grand daughter was in a room where basically everything had been removed from its assigned place and thrown on the floor.  What a mess.  I had talked to her about making a mess several times and launched right into a stern lecture. I told her no excuses were acceptable and that she needed to help me pick things up right then. She did so without objection. Later I learned it was her younger brother, a human tornado at age 2, who had been responsible for the mess. I went to her and explained I was wrong, and I was very sorry. She lit up! The fact that I was wrong and had accused her unfairly did not impact how she felt about me. She had already forgiven me before I even asked! She wasn’t going to let a little mistake get in the way of the love we share. She was happy to know I knew the truth, but her unconditional love had easily survived my mistake. Once again, it made me think about God’s love for us. Clearly it can survive our mistakes as well. He has proven that over and over. It’s nice to have our grand kids to remind of things like that.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Friday, November 22, 2019

The elephant and the flea

I have a dear friend who has a loving adult child who thinks that he is the source of the love.  He does not acknowledge God as the source of  the love in his life.

So for those who think that God is not under girding and upholding things, there is an old story about an elephant and a flea. The flea lived in the elephants ear. One day the elephant walked across a wooden bridge. The bridge shook and swayed. The flea said, "man did we shake that bridge!"

For all of those out there who think that God is not the source of the love... I don't believe that God is offended by that... God simply still loves.  Our adult children who think this way have still experienced love and the elephant still carries the flea.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Thursday, November 21, 2019

Nancy

I had the privilege to get to know Nancy and her husband Jeff at Cape Coral.  We brought her on staff as an admin and she was awesome.

Last week I posted about how we see God.  I said that God is not a person, God is a spirit and God is love.

Nancy offered some comments that I found interesting and insightful.  She said, "I loved the book, The Shack. I had no problem of “seeing” God as a black women I have never imagined God in human form at all. To me God is power or energy “the burning bush” or the voice in the Garden of Eden. He is the power and energy of love and if people can get past the fact he has to be in human form we’d all be better off. God is so much greater than humans. Greater in his image is the image of love not of humankind."

I guess maybe I [Jeff] am the one who has struggled to look past God as a person or an angry man.  Nancy's words were very helpful.

God is spirit.  God is love.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Wednesday, November 20, 2019

not again

NO! NO! NO!
Not again.  Please not again.

Last week another young man who grew up in our neighborhood took his own life.  He was in my son's class and they played baseball together.

28 years young.

Ok, let me put this out there........ I feel qualified to write on this topic because I have considered suicide myself.  Twice.  First when I was 28 and going thru my divorce and the other time more recently after I left Woods Chapel.  I understand the kind of pain that causes someone to wonder if there is hope for the future.

I want you to hear this.  There is hope!  Things can get better.  If you have considered taking your own life, let me say a few things.

First on the negative... suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.  Suicide does not end the pain, it simply multiplies it and passes it along to everyone that loves you.  I know you don't want to hurt, but do you really want everyone else to hurt?

Now on the positive... think of all the things that you will miss seeing if you do this... all of the beautiful life experiences that could be yours if you stay alive.  One day you will play catch with a friend.  One day you will feed a hungry person.  One day you will see the beauty in the flowers.  One day you will watch a rocket launch.  One day you will make new friends.  One day you will eat your favorite food.  One day you will experience a beautiful fall day.  You will sit by a fire and enjoy the moment.  Your football team will win a close game.  You will hug and be hugged.

There are hundreds of reasons to stay alive.  Please remember this!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Tuesday, November 19, 2019

warm



Someone wrote to me about how warm church can feel.

They were not talking about the Fahrenheit.   They were talking about the feeling that they get in their heart and soul.

Warm hearted is good.  Church should feel warm hearted.  Church leaders should cultivate a culture of warm heartedness. 

We can all create a culture of warmth in our lives simply by being kind.  Not too long ago I stopped into the high school to buy a t-shirt.  I got to talking to the secretary and she commented on what a nice person I must be.  Why?  because I was nice to her, I took time to talk to her and she probably is used to being treated with less than kindness by some students and parents.

Warmth is good.  A warm handshake.  A warm smile.  A warm embrace.  A warm welcome.

I have said it once and I will say it again... "people won't always remember what you did, they won't always remember what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel."

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Monday, November 18, 2019

Love and a cup of coffee

My friend Phil passed away a few months ago. I loved him so much. He was as ornery as I am and we had fun needling each other. When I moved away I sent him a note and put in writing how much he meant to me. I wanted him to know that I loved him.

One of the things that was great about Phil was Phil and Sue together. You could always tell that they loved each other.  They called themselves "the lucky ones."

After Phil's funeral, their grandson was visiting from California and Sue poured him a cup of coffee. Some of it splashed out and they watched it form a perfectly shaped heart. They both looked at it like “what just happened?” The grandson grabbed his phone and took a picture. Sue wrote, "I think Phil was telling us he’s ok and wanted to have coffee with us."

I personally believe that although we cannot see them, that somehow they are still with us, beyond the grave. They are what the writer of Hebrews calls the great cloud of witnesses.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Sunday, November 17, 2019

the marginalized

Every church I have ever been a part of had ministries to the homeless or marginalized.  We took food and stuff and went to where they lived.

At Ft Pierce First UMC it is different.  The church is in the middle of the area where the homeless and marginalized live.  A number of them attend our church.  Well, it's their church too.  On my second Sunday, one of the fellows introduced himself to me and said, "welcome to my church."  I loved it!

Anyway, I have got to know a number of these guys and they all have a story.  There is a reason that they are where they are at.  I have come to prefer the term marginalized because not all of them are homeless.  Some of them have places to stay.

Anyway last Sunday after church we had a dinner to raise money for our Cuba Sister Church.  The marginalized guys [aka the guys] always come and they eat for free of course.  After the dinner we had a dessert auction.  Pies and cakes are sold for amazing amounts of money.  One pie went for $150.  Anyway it was about money for a good cause.

I wanted to participate so I bid up some m&m brownies.  I ended up buying the tray for $50.  Now if you have seen me lately, you know that I don't need to eat any more brownies.  So I cut them up, put them in baggies and gave them to the guys.  And here is the point of this blog...  the looks on their faces, the sincere appreciation, the genuine thanks.  It touched my heart.

Doing nice things for people is not about getting appreciation or thanks, but I was glad that the brownies made them happy.  Do all the good that you can, in all of the ways that you can, to all of the people that you can.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Saturday, November 16, 2019

Jesus is tired

Jesus is tired.  He is tired of being bound up by our ideas about him.  It is like we have him locked up in a prison.  We have purified him according to our preferences.  He preached an unrelenting love.  He offered to us a God of grace.  He ignored the dark parts of the Old Testament.  He taught us not to judge.

In spite of all of this we Christians still sometimes-

  • look down on homeless people
  • justify our wealth
  • make excuses for our selfishness
  • do the minimum of Christian work to get by
  • we judge the gay and anyone else that might not follow our rules.


Jesus is tired of being bound by our narrow ideas about him.  He wants to get out.  He wants to be loosed.  He wants to spring from the pages of our hearts and shout to the world of his love, of God's grace and of God's welcome.

Is your Jesus loose or is he tired of being tied up?

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Friday, November 15, 2019

faith is a journey

For some people faith is not a journey.  They start at one place and end at the same place.  They never move anywhere in their life.  I guess they feel that they have it "right."

However, in my opinion, since faith in God is a huge undertaking, there should always be learning, growing and changing.

Faith should be a journey.  Not a journey of learning more of the same, but a journey away from the starting point and towards what is real.  A journey away from how you were raised and towards what is relevant and normal.

As children or new Christians we are taught concrete ideas.  When we grow up, we can open our minds and consider other ideas.  I don't know it all and I don't have to know it all.

May all of us be on a journey.  Away from judgement, away from biblidolatry, away from the god that is small and towards a life of love and grace.  May we all move more and more each day into the life of love and grace.  Any ideas that get in the way of love and grace are not worth keeping.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Thursday, November 14, 2019

God is love

When the book The Shack came out, a lot of people got freaked out because God was depicted as a black woman. 

REALLY???

God being a black woman is no more ridiculous than us thinking that God is an old  white man with a beard.

Our denominational, human ideas and depictions of God fall short.  All of them.

The bible says that God is love.  1 John 4.  Do we believe that?  Or do we believe that God is an old man on a throne.  Maybe we believe that God is sitting in the church somewhere.  I think that most humans think of God in terms of being a person, because that is all that we know.

But God is love.  The bible says so.  He is a spirit.  He is love.  Consequently, whenever you come into contact with love, in some way that is hard for us to understand, you have come into contact with God.  When we feel love for another person we sense the holiness of that.  Love is amazing, love is a miracle.  God is love.

Don't worry if your kids do not attend church.  They don't have to see the world the way that we might.  Ask yourself this... do my kids know love?  Do my kids experience the miracle of love?  Then somehow, in ways that are outside of our denominational definitions, they have and are experiencing God.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Wednesday, November 13, 2019

words vs love


I grew up in a church that taught us to talk to people and convert them.  Our youth group would go to Golden Gate Park in San Francisco and walk up to total strangers and ask them if they were going to heaven or hell.  These words were not helpful.  We would knock on doors on "visitation night" and try to convert people or get them to come to church.  These words did not help.

We sing the song, I love to tell the story.  It's a great song, but do we really run around and talk to people all the time about Jesus?  I have met a few that do and they are really annoying.  Their words do not help.  Sure there is a time to talk to people about your faith, but you must earn the right to enter the spiritual life of another person.

Words don't always help, but love does.  When we don't know what to say, we can always show love.  If you have a loved one that does not believe... love them.  Don't hurt them with words, love them.  The effect of your love on another person is much more powerful than any words you can say.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Tuesday, November 12, 2019

colonization

When I hear the word colonization, I think of how stronger countries went into weaker countries and took them over.  Europeans colonized North America.  France made Tunisia a colony.  The British Empire had colonies all over the world.

Colonization has been resisted by native peoples because of their desire for self-determination.  Gandhi and the Indian people resisted the British.  Native Americans resisted us.  Hong Kong is resisting China.  Colonization always exploits the weaker country for the economic benefit of the stronger.

Recently I have heard the word colonization used to describe the work of the church.  What we thought was missionary work is now in many circles being understood as colonization.  We went into places and pressed the people to accept our version of Christianity.  We pressed them to learn our language and customs.  We taught them the Baptist or Methodist or Presbyterian version of Jesus.

What if we stopped trying to fix people and just loved them?  I think the best missionary work is not the powerful overpowering the powerless.  I think that the best missionary work is the strong becoming weak for the sake of Christ.  Just go love people.  We don't have to be in charge and we don't have to make people do it our way.  Just go love them.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Monday, November 11, 2019

practical Christianity

From Richard Rohr's daily devotional, November 1, 2019

Hospitality is the practice that keeps the church from becoming a club, a members-only society. —Diana Butler Bass

Practical, practice-based Christianity has been avoided, denied, minimized, ignored, delayed, and sidelined for too many centuries, by too many Christians who were never told Christianity was anything more than a belonging or belief system. And we only belonged to our own little club or denomination at that! Some of us were afraid to step foot into a house of worship across the street for fear of eternal punishment. Now we know that there is no Methodist or Catholic way of loving. There is no Orthodox or Presbyterian way of living a simple and nonviolent life. There is no Lutheran or Evangelical way of showing mercy. There is no Baptist or Episcopalian way of visiting the imprisoned. If there is, we are invariably emphasizing the peripherals, which distract us from the very “marrow of the Gospel,” as St. Francis called it. We have made this mistake for too long. We cannot keep avoiding what Jesus actually emphasized and mandated. In this most urgent time, “it is the very love of Christ that now urges us” (2 Corinthians 5:14).

Quaker pastor Philip Gulley superbly summarizes how we must rebuild spirituality from the bottom up in his book, If the Church Were Christian.  Here I take the liberty of using my own words to restate his message, which offers a rather excellent description of what is emerging in Christianity today:

Jesus is a model for living more than an object of worship.

Affirming people’s potential is more important than reminding them of their brokenness.

The work of reconciliation should be valued over making judgments.

Gracious behavior is more important than right belief.

Inviting questions is more valuable than supplying answers.

Encouraging the personal search is more important than group uniformity.

Meeting actual needs is more important than maintaining institutions.

Peacemaking is more important than power.

Life in this world is more important than the afterlife (Eternity is God’s work anyway).

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Sunday, November 10, 2019

Free hugs

I love free hugs.  My friend Irene sent this in.  I think it is from the Upper Room October 22nd.

























It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Saturday, November 9, 2019

children are to be seen and not heard

Some days I allow myself to remember.  To think back on how I was raised.  I don't know why I do it, I am not sure that any good comes from dwelling on the memories, but I am keenly aware that the wounds of childhood can mark someone for life.

When I was a child, children were to be seen and not heard.  You were nothing.  Stay out of the way.  If people are around, put on a good show.  Dress right, call them Mr and Mrs.  Then get out of sight.

We weren't just beaten with belts, my mouth was bloodied many times as a child, by my mother.   From time to time she would remind us that she had received an A+ in college in child psychology.

We put on a good show.  Although we lived in a 900 square foot, one bathroom house, we attended church and belonged to the country club.  We lived in an old neighborhood on the Missouri side, but we went to church and country club in the swanky suburb of Prairie Village, Kansas.

Life was more about show that reality.

Why am I telling you these things?  Well, let us remember that most of us are products of good things and bad things.  Good times and bad times.  Today my sisters and I talk about "surviving" our upbringing.  And there is some good news.  No matter what has happened in your past, no matter what difficulty a person experiences along the way, we can choose to survive.  We can choose to do better.  We can choose to thrive.

I didn't have any choices about how I was raised.  But today, I have all of the power to make choices in my life, and so do you.  May we choose grace, kindness, and reality.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Friday, November 8, 2019

who are you taking to church?

From my friend Pat...

The minister at our church in Coronado asked an interesting question today. He asked, “Who did you bring to church today?” Since my wife was home under the weather, I thought, “Well, me, I guess”.

But he began to describe all of the people in his life who he brought to church every week: the first minister he trained under, an aunt who raised him after he lost his parents, a parishioner from his prior church who was the first to volunteer, the last to leave.

And he asked again, “Who did you bring to church today?”

I thought of my mom, who made me go to church until it seemed normal as an adult. Lamentations of mortal sins were very effective. Then there was my friend Charlie, who taught me (and still reminds me weekly) that religion is more like skin you live in than a suit you wear occasionally. And my former minister Jeff, who was clairvoyant about my needs for a sermon each week. Whatever the issue de jure in my life, Jeff seemed to nail a perspective I’d not contemplated. I don’t know how many times i left church thinking “I wish my (wife, sons , daughters, partners, etc) had been here to hear this. But it was enough that I was. There are many, many others that I take to church with me each week.

Which leads to an obvious and not so obvious questions. Ask yourself: “Who are you taking to church this week?” It will awaken an appreciation for the blessings you’ve had.

And the not so obvious: “Who is taking you to church this week?”

Think about it.


It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Thursday, November 7, 2019

Windex

In the movie My Big Fat Greek Wedding, Toula [the bride] her dad immortalized Windex using it for everything.

Ok, so some things are just too good not to share.  I was visiting with a guy a couple of blocks over who had a rat problem.  He put out bait and the rats died.  But they crawled who knows where to die.  Pretty soon my buddy is telling me that they have flies.  No more rats, but now flies.  Lots of flies.

What to do?  He clues me in to a family trick. When they land on the window, spray them with Windex.  They get saturated and cannot fly.  Then you squish them.  And the Windex is already there on the window for clean up.

I hate flies but I can't wait until the next time that I see one.  I am going to try it.

By the way, what do you call a fly with no wings?
A walk.

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Wednesday, November 6, 2019

Paris Normandy - Last day

We had a delightful trip.  On our last day we visited Les Invalides [the Invalids] which was a hospital for Napoleon's wounded soldiers.  Over the years it has been turned into a military museum.

The building was fantastic, the contents amazing.

Eiffel  Tower

Carvings above the entrance to the museum

100's of bronze cannon on display

we saw hundreds of fantastic suits of armor.
The museum has thousands of them.

World War 1 French tank

wonderful collection of toy soldiers.

1/600 scale models of towns and forts.  The Kings and Generals
used them to plan for defense and attacks.

Church of the Invalids.  A place where
wounded soldiers could worship.

WW1 cannons

Ball Turret from a B-17 Bomber

Napoleon's tomb.  Contrary to popular myth, he did not design
it and you don't have to bow down to get to see it.

so many people have come here over the years that many
of the marble steps were worn in the middle.

Arc de Triomphe
Absolutely Amazing!

Stone carving at the Arc

Underneath the Arc, names of French Generals
and the Battles that they fought.

What a blessing to go see these wonderful sights and to enjoy them with great friends.
We are home now and getting back into the swing of things.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Tuesday, November 5, 2019

Paris Normandy Day 8

Today we took a bus tour of Paris.  It was raining pretty hard all morning so some of my pictures did not turn out that well.  We saw some amazing buildings and learned some great history.

Obelisk from Luxor Egypt.  Our guide says that it
was a gift but if you do your research, some pressure
was applied to the Ottoman Turks and the French
traded the Ottoman Empire for a large mechanical
clock that never worked.

Arch de Triomphe as seen from Champs-Elysees

After the fall of France in 1940, the Germans
showed their power by marching down this
main street of Paris.


After Paris was liberated in 1944, Allied soldiers made a
show of returning Paris to freedom by marching down the same street.


Eiffell tower in the rain.

beautiful fountains in Paris.
If you live in Kansas City, the Plaza area
and the fountains much resemble Paris.

Column dedicated to Napoleon's victories.
It is patterned after Trajan's column in Rome.
The column was built with bronze from cannons
recovered from Napoleons enemies.

Napoleons column is built of bronze.
Trajan's column is built of marble.
Napoleon's column dates 1806 and is 144 feet high.
Trajan's column dates to 113 ad and is 98 feet high.
Trajan is depicted in sculpture at the top.
Napoleon tops his as well.


The Ritz Hotel where Princess Diana spent her last night.

parking in Paris.  The blue car really wanted in.

Opera House.  One of many amazing buildings.

The Louvre.  Unfortunately to visit the inside will
have to wait for another trip.

1500's residence of  the King. 
Bridge over the river Seine.

Beautiful old church.  The bells were
ringing as we were there.  Be sure to listen
to the short video.



I loved the dragons and the gargoyles.


Notre Dame Cathedral

Notre Dame Cathedral - this is where the fire happened.
See the next picture for before and after comparisons.
The world raised 5 Billion Dollars in two days to repair the Cathedral.

comparing to the picture above, you can see that the entire roof is
gone and the tall spire as well.

We stopped in a coffee shop for coffee and a biscuit.



Tomb of Napoleon.
Old man in front.

I visited the museum of Rodin the sculptor.
He was evidently a very sensual guy.
Lots of statues with high action.  Now maybe
we know what the thinker was thinking about.

Donna Jones at the flower shop.

Cafe where we ate dinner.
My daughter Alli's silver car.

It was a lovely day.  Tomorrow, God willing, we are going to the War Museum.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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Monday, November 4, 2019

Paris Normandy Day 7

Today we arrived in Paris and began the city tour.

The regular stock buildings of Paris are amazing.

Giant clock at the Museum D'orsay.  It was an
old train station that was turned into a place
to hold modern sculpture and paintings.

I loved these little guys.  There was so much to see!

Hundreds of sculptures.

Paintings small and large at the D'orsay Museum

It would take months to see all of the Paris museums.
 Look at the people in the bottom of this picture. 
You can see how enormous the sculpture is.



Monet paintings

The building itself was a masterpiece.

I ordered a ham and cheese sandwich from a take out
stand.  Very tasty.

Outdoor bronze sculpture.  Lots of nudity in Paris. 
Note the bird resting above.

Many lovely fountains in Paris.

We are only here for three days.  It would take months to see it all.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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