breathe

Do you ever have questions about God?

Does he remain a mystery?

I appreciate when people answer yes to those questions and better yet when they are willing to expose themselves by sharing those questions and or doubts they may have. There are some authors who do the same and I find my connection to God grows stronger when I have the chance to digest their thoughts and questions. Unfortunately being open and sharing things like your questions or understandings can be risky depending on your circle. And the bigger your circle the more exposure you have and the opportunity for someone to take you on or take you out is greatly increased. So often we keep it to ourselves or we keep it clean and neat and only talk about the things that everyone else agrees with…..

The problem is now the circle really becomes a circle but this time like when a dog chases his tail and the mystery of God and the pursuit of truth have been suffocated…….I think God likes it better when we breathe.

Peace,
Lion’s Den Man

do it

There was a great UPS commercial several years back where a pair of consultants come visit a company and lay out a great plan to help the company change, grow, get better etc. The owner of the company responds to their plan by saying “great, do it”. Their response was…”well sir we don’t actually do what we propose we just propose it……”

It makes me wonder how often I know what I should do, yet I do not do it, I only talk about it…

James 1:22

22 But be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves.

Peace,
Lion’s Den Man

a good day

Ephesians 4:26

26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.

Can you have a good day knowing, at days end, that you are not at peace with those in your life? I can’t. The day just falls short. I agree with whoever first said, “Life is too short’” So…why not make each day a good day.

Peace,
Lion’s Den Man

spiritual growth

I’ve been reading a book by John Ortberg called “The Me I want to Be”. Reading always seems to keep me in the flow and I feel more in tune with things around me. But, that’s not the case for everyone. By design we are different, unique and have certain things that put us in that “zone” where we feel in tune with the Spirit.

Ortberg writes, “How often do we get burdened because we try to weld weapons that have helped someone else in the battle? We hear about how someone else prays, or reads Scripture to start or end their day, or worships, or studies, or serves—and we feel guilty if we don’t do the same. We get frustrated because what works for someone else is not helpful to us. We are like David trying to walk around in Saul’s armor.”

I believe there is a place set aside for each of us by God where we find ourselves very alive and very close to Him. If you haven’t found it…..keep looking you will.


Ephesians 2:10

10 For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.


Peace,
Lion’s Den Man

at peace

Proverbs 14:30

30 A heart at peace gives life to the body,
but envy rots the bones.


Envy. It is spoken about because it is real and every person experiences it to some degree. Why? .......A lack of peace. Peace in being who you are and what you are. The kind of peace that frees you to be you and move forward.

Find your pain, examine it, understand it, then hand it over and be at peace.

Peace,
Lion’s Den Man

a perfect plan

Ephesians 4:16

16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.

I love how doing good things not only helps someone else but makes me feel good and helps me as well. I use to think that was a selfish thing until I came across this verse.  I now see it as God’s plan. I do my part, play a role in His plan and in doing so He feeds and grows me in the process.

A perfect plan by the perfect plan maker….

Peace,

Lion’s Den Man

unconditional

God loves you.  Unconditionally.

Jesus loved the lepers.  Unconditionally.  Jesus loved the tax collector. Unconditionally.  Jesus loved the children. Unconditionally.  Jesus loved the woman at the well.  Unconditionally.  Jesus loved Nicodemus.  Unconditionally.  Jesus loved the prodigal son.  Unconditionally.

No conditions.  No rules.  Love.  Unconditional. 

The amazing thing about this is that love changes people.  What you can't do by pouring guilt on people, love can accomplish.  Love reconciles.  Love reaches.  Love forgives.  Love welcomes.  Love heals.

Jesus loved the lost sheep unconditionally.  Jesus loved the hungry, unconditionally.  Jesus loved the prostitute, unconditionally.  Jesus loved the sinner.  Unconditionally.  Jesus loved the thief on the cross, unconditionally.

And let's not forget this- Jesus loves you, unconditionally.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

the message

So what is the message of the Christian faith?  So many churches offer so many answers to this question.  Some will tell you that:

-God loves you if you straighten up
-God loves you if you believe just right
-God loves you if you stop sinning
-God loves you if this
-God loves you if that
-God loves you if

None of that is good news.  But the true gospel is good news.  And there is another way to describe the message of the Christian faith.  Here it is:

God loves you.
There is no if.
God loves you.
no if.
none.
God loves you

It is not one of many views on the Christian message.  It is the Christian message.  The moment someone adds and "if" to it, the message has been perverted and it is no longer good.

Grace isn't an alternative message of Christianity.  It is the message.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Book

My favorite book of all time is Walking on Water by Anthony Demello.  It is for sale in the church bookstore for $2 over our cost.  Demello died at the age of 56 in 1986.  He was a Catholic priest from India.  He grew up around Buddhists, Muslims, and the very poor.  His book is a delightful picture of a life paradigm that offers busy Americans more peace, freedom, happiness and joy.  If you are looking for a book to read, this one changed my life.

I put this book in the hands of many people.  Here is what one reader recently wrote to me about the book.  And yes, the book is really this good....

The book you shared with me is amazing! I can see why you re-read it a couple of times a year. I wish I had had it about 6 years ago. It answers many questions I have had for a long time. I was able to identify with a lot of the difficulties mentioned in the book. I very much appreciated the answers and illustrations to assist me. I definitely had lived the "robot" life while being in a state of fear and anxiety.... just trying to holding on .......

I am trying to figure out who I am and who God created me to be. Because I was in turmoil and numb for so long, in some ways I feel like a child just learning about the world around me...a kind of re-birth. I don't know if that makes any sense. It has been so long since I have been able to stop and smell the roses (live in the present) and even know what it is like to be truly loved by someone who accepts me for who I am. ....... I am going to have to work at re-framing my thoughts as I know that God's purpose for my life is still being revealed. I believe the exercises in the book will help me reconnect with God in a way that I have never been able to do before. That is exciting!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

bookstore

One of the things that I love about our church is our little bookstore.  We offer some of my favorite books for sale.  There are also some nice Christian cards and gifts.  Used books are priced at $2.

What ever we buy a book for, we mark it up about $2.  That is to cover the cost of items that just disappear from the bookstore.  Yes, some folks take things and don't pay.  We are not in it to make money, but to get great literature into the hands of our members and friends. 

If you are looking for something to read, check our the bookstore.  Good stuff, great values.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

plagiarism

Do I even know how to spell plagiarism?  Let's just call it, "it" for the rest of the blog.  Plagiarism, it, will get you fired, it will get you flunked out of a class.  It is writing verbatim someone else's ideas and claiming them as your own.

The other day, I posted on the topic of the "drug of approval."  A reader was right to call me on this.  It is an idea that is discussed in Anthony Demello's book, Walking on Water.  Which by the way is one of my favorite books.

Well, I don't ever mean to plagiarize the work of others.  Fact is, according to the old testament book, Ecclesiastes, "there is nothing new under the sun."  I have no new ideas.  I have no original ideas.  Everything that I know, or think I know, I learned from someone else.  From Anthony Demello, Bob Tuttle, Jim Ireland, Paul Brinkman, Bob Fillmore, and the list goes one.

I will often write about some idea, I don't always think to credit the person I heard it from.  Sometimes I don't even remember who I heard it from, but I will never tell you that it is my original idea. 

So, the drug of approval, and about 40% of everything else that I think, came from the writings of Anthony Demello.  If you have not read any of his books, I encourage you to do so.  Walking on Water is available in our bookstore at church.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

radio show

You are invited to tune in on Tuesdays at 4pm to 1030am for our radio show, "Welcome to Woods Chapel."  We have done this now for about six weeks.

Topics have included:  Grace, atheism, forgiveness, guilt, change and when bad things happen.  We have tried to offer topics that nonbelievers and nominally Christian people might benefit from.  If you want to listen to them you can find them at:

http://www.woodschapelchurch.org/#/worship/wcc-radio-show

Also we are looking for more ideas.  If you have a good idea for a theme for a weekly radio show, please post a comment.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

denominations pt 2

Someone posted this comment.  Let me comment on the comment.  Also, as a side note, sometimes when I cut and paste items into the blog they don't show up very well, so I am working on a way to highlight the pasted items so that they are readable both in an email and on the blog.

Here is the comment.

As I began to ask you some questions that mentioned non-denominational churches and their growing popularity, I began to Google the question, and here's what seemed key. The main reason for their popularity is that they are meeting needs. Jeff, do you find that busy people today are eager to have what they do matter. In addition to a church meeting needs in the member's own life, I think when they spend their time they want to be sure they are meeting needs and not going through perfunctory rituals that have become "sacred tradition." Do you find this in the people you minister to at WCC? I personally think the reason WCC is so vital and alive, is that our church is meeting needs all the time

Now my comment on the comment.
Do churches meet needs?  Some churches meet the dysfunctional needs of congregants to feel right and superior.  Some churches meet the needs of congregants to learn or worship or find friendship. 

I agree that people want to have what they do matter.  I want us to teach people to live beyond themselves.  To find a life that is full because we have given ourselves away.  To me, this kind of missional living provides for the needs of others, and we are filled along the way.  It is a healthy fullness of joy.  Doing that for which we were created.

Some do just settle for rituals and sacred traditions.  Others are energized by them.  One of my favorite moments of Sunday morning is to sing the doxology at 8am.  "Praise God from whom all blessings flow.  Praise him all preachers, I mean creatures, here below."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

denominations

Someone asked me to write about the purpose of denominations.  Let me write about the role of Methodism, not all denominations operate the same.  Some keep a strong connection over churches and pastors while others are very loose affiliations of churches.

1.  The Methodist denomination serves as an ordaining body to verify the ability of a person to be a pastor.  Sometimes churches that are not connected to a denomination ordain anyone they want, with no concern for their educational requirements.

2.  The Methodist denomination holds together various forms of doctrines and beliefs.  They say in effect, "this is who we are and what we believe."  Churches that do not have this covering can believe in all sorts of things. For example the Westboro Baptist church.

3. The Methodist  holds its pastors accountable for doctrine and behavior.

4.  The Methodist denomination is a place where churches can work together.  We are a part of a larger connection.  Think of all the work that was done in Joplin by the Methodists.

5.  The Methodist denomination provides systems and structures to help pastors and churches be successful.  We are in effect, a part of a family.  The Methodist family.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

quote

A friend shared a quote from a writer named Robert Brault.

"Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true."

I love it.

It's a beautiful day  in God's world, be sure to see the good.

movies

So I watched one of my favorite moves the other night, Harold and Maude.  Filmed around 1972 in the San Francisco bay area, it stars Ruth Gordon and Bud Cort.  It is one of those movies about growing up.  It is about coming of age.  It is about deciding to live.  I got to thinking about so many other "coming of age" movies, and I came up with a list:

Harold and Maude
Stand by Me
The sisterhood of the travelling pants
Sandlot

I am sure that there are more that you can think of, please help me add to the list.

These movies somehow just stick right in our hearts. I am glad for them.  I think of them and they make me happy.  It is comforting to know that we survived growing up.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

I loved this, Part three

While I agree with the comment from the other day, [see the post from Wednesday] I do feel that I made some good points. 

Yes we are Christians before we are Methodists, but, not all churches are the same.  In fact, some denominations are so brutal, I want to shrink back and hide from their theology.

I love grace because guilt is so painful.  So many churches are filled with guilt.  A young man that started going to our church was asked why he left his past church and landed here.  He said, "I got tired of feeling bad when I left church on Sunday."

I love the essentials because they really matter, and God is not going to give us a test over doctrinal peripherals when we get to heaven.  Some churches get lost in the minutia and actually think it is important, and that they have just the right spin on it.

I love missions.  There are many churches that are not engaged in missions.  They have forgotten the teachings of Jesus, pulled the wagons into a circle and tend to feel smug.  They have forgotten that faith is not just believing, but also doing.

So, although I would agree that I am a Christian first, I am also a Methodist by choice.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

I loved this, part two

So regarding the concept of denominations and how we can easily get caught up in them.  I have a joke that I pull on friends that are visiting you from out of town.  Here is how it plays out.

It is after service on a Sunday.  Someone is coming through the line shaking hands.  They introduce me to their relative from out of town.  The relative says, "I'm a Presbyterian."  Then I like to say, "Oh, sorry, no Presbyterians [or whatever denomination they are] in heaven."

They routinely look at me with a puzzled face.  Then I tell them, "no Presbyterians, no Baptists, no Methodists.  We are all finally on the same team."  I like a good joke.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

I loved this, part one

To what I posted on Saturday about Barry Manilow and such, I received this comment, which I dearly loved.  I am going to write about it for a couple of days.  Here is the comment:

Okay Jeff, I suspect that in your job you are often reminded that you are accountable for holding to Methodist beliefs, and "doing what Methodists do."

From a layperson's perspective, although I'm a member at WCC, I rarely if never spend any time thinking about or defending the fact the I'm a Methodist.

I continually identify with being a Christian in a world where other believers live out their faith in Jesus Christ in various Christian denominations. If someone takes the Jesus factor out and who He is and wants to be in our lives, that's where I would begin to find issues.

I don't even feel like a Methodist, if there's supposed to be something unique about being one. In fact, I cannot find the word Methodist, Presbyterian, Assembly of God, Baptist, or whatever, in the Bible.

Part one- I love how you readers read this blog stuff and are usually smarter than I am.  This person hit the nail on the head!  We must always be open to hearing from and learning from others.  This person's comments were right on the mark.  Who is speaking into your thoughts?  Is your brain open?  Is your life paradigm open?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

loneliness

So I have written before about Princess Kiki, aka "the fat cat."  We had her for two years and never saw her.  She hid from everyone and everything.  Finally we got her to come out of her shell and overcome her fears.  That might have been a mistake.  Now, she follows me like a puppy.  She has made friends with Lou the dog.  Her desire for attention takes precedence over everything.  In fact, as I type this blog, she is laying on my arm and it is falling asleep.  She can't get enough of the lovin.

I got to thinking..... as much as she loves being loved on now, what were those first two years like?  What was it like to live in fear?  What was it like to not know about love?  What was it like to skulk around in a shadow life?

And then I remember that many humans live like this too.  Afraid to be vulnerable, afraid to be rejected, simply existing in a world turned in.

If this is you, come out of your shell.  Risk it.  Keep risking it, even if you find rejection.  Overcome the pain and the fear and extend some love.  Somewhere, it will be returned, it will come back to you.  Don't waste one more day of your life being lonely.  Life is too good and life is too short.


It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

facebook

Facebook warning:  I am not a good facebook person.  Please do not try to email me on facebook or expect me to participate in facebook things.  It is too much for my brain and I am not interested in my phone being blown up with all of the silly things that are sometimes posted by my friends.

I will check facebook from time to time, but I rarely post anything there.  Consequently, I miss parties that I am invited to, I don't reply to email in a timely manner from facebook, and I am often out of the loop on things that people think that I should know about.

If you want me to know something, please email my church account at Jeffb@woodschapelchurch.org
I am sorry, but sometimes it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks.  With writing a sermon every week, writing a weekly radio show, writing a monthly article from the newsletter and a daily blog, my brain is not going to take on facebook.

In fact, I find some of the electronica that has been added to our lives in the last 20 years detrimental to life.  I used to go out to dinner with my family.  Now I go out to dinner with my family and they are all texting on their phones.  I used to stand in the line at the supermarket and be friendly with people.  Now I stand in the supermarket line and listen to them talk on the phone.  Elevators used to be a sanctuary for introverts.  Not any more.  Before email, I used to talk with people in person or on the phone.

Not all technology is good for people.  I for one am reserving some time for the good old life.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Psalm 139

From my friend Bill C.


Back in the 70s/80s a book by Leslie Brandt was much loved.  It was called “Psalms / Now” and is a contemporary restatement of the Psalms.  I especially remember Psalm 139: 1-10:

 

O God, You know me inside out,  through and through.

Everything I do,

            every thought that flits through my mind,

            every step I take,

            every plan I make,

            every word I speak,

    You know, even before these things happen.

You know my past;

    You know my future.

Your circumventing presence covers my every move.

Your knowledge of me sometimes comforts me,

            sometimes frightens me;

    but always it is far beyond my comprehension.

 

There is no way to escape You, no place to hide.

If I ascend to the heights of joy,

    You are there before me.

If I am plunged into the depths of despair,

    You are there to meet me.

I could fly to the other side of the world

    and find You there to lead the way.

I could walk into the darkest of nights,

    only to find You there

            to lighten its dismal hours.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Barry Manilow

Our brains think of random things.  I woke yesterday morning humming a Barry Manilow song.  It reminded me of a time when some friends made fun of me because I like his music.  It was all in good nature.  Then I got to thinking of other things that I have been made fun of for.....

Not being popular in high school.  Having a crummy car.  Not being a very good athlete.  Being socially awkward.  Having a certain kind of job.  Being old.  Losing my hair.  Having red splotchy skin.  Being a Methodist.

Of all of those things, the only one that bothers me today is being made fun of for being a Methodist.  Actually it doesn't bother me, I am not going to take the drug of approval, [see post from a couple of days ago] but I am not going to shy away from being a Methodist.  I am in fact, proud to be a Methodist.

My mom didn't want me to be a Methodist.  For some reason, that was not good enough, not spiritual enough.  Over the years, the rest of the make fun of Jeff for being a Methodist kind of goes like this.  Catholics have mass.  Disciples of Christ have communion every Sunday.  Baptists have the true and only right and righteous method of baptism.  Assemblies of God has speaking in tongues.  What do Methodists have? One friend used to call the Methodists "brand X Christians." 

Well let me say a word about some of why I love being a Methodist.

1.  Methodists focus on the essentials.  They don't fight over peripherals.  Just the facts Ma'am.  Let's not get separated over matters of opinion or get lost in the minutia.
2.  Methodists are focused on grace.  They don't tell others who is going to heaven or hell.  They leave that up to God.  They focus on the remedy [God's love] not the problem of sin.
3.  Methodists are actively involved in mission.  They see the faith as something to be lived, not just something to be believed.

So, I am still losing my hair, I still have red splotchy skin, I do listen to Barry sometimes, and I am proud to be a Methodist.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

nice night

Last night was a nice night.  We sat on the deck and visited.  After that, I sat out by myself and listened to the birds sing.  Oh, that reminds me of something I read not too long ago.

This would be for someone who feels that they can't do something because they are not the best at it.  Maybe even mediocre at a thing.

"If only the birds with good voices sang, the forest would be a very quiet place."

Is God asking you to use your gifts?  Then just do your best.  Get in the game.  Get your licks in for Jesus.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Dad

So I was asked to write about my Dad as well.  My Dad was a good man.  He worked hard his whole life.  He struggled with addiction but kept at it.  He raised three kids and paid the bills.  He was hard on us, but he was trying to prepare us for the difficulties of life.

There are a lot of things that you don't appreciate when you are young, that later in life, you see what your Dad was trying to teach you.

Dad was an engineer at Ford Motor Company in Claycomo.  After Mom died, he joined our church.  That was a great day for me.  After 9-11 I called him up and asked for his advice. 

ME:  Dad is this anywhere close to Pearl Harbor?
Dad:  Son, it is worse.  Pearl Harbor was military on military.  This was done to innocent civilians.
ME:  Dad, there are going to be a lot of people in church on Sunday.  I am nervous about what to say.
Dad:  Son, look into your heart and you will find the words to say.

To my dying day I will remember watching my Dad wander in the back on the sanctuary on the Sunday after 9-11.  It meant the world to see him there and feel his support.

Dad had a routine.  Coffee at home for breakfast.  Lunch and dinner were at Romanelli's in Waldo.  When he was 18, he has his first beer there, so he remained a loyal customer.  On February 2nd, 2002 Dad had a stroke and died coming out of Romanelli's.  He was 74.  I was 44.

The funeral was at Mt. Moriah at 105th and Holmes.  I did the service.  I will never forget being at the visitation and the number of my friends that came in the back door and wandered up to pay their respects.  Those moments just stay with you.

I miss my dad.  Still.  I really did not get to know him until after Mom died.  Dad was a great guy. 

So the moral of this story is...... Hug the people that you love.   Appreciate them.  Meet them for lunch.  Spend time caring for them.  You will be glad that you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Mom

Someone asked for me to write about losing my mom.  I have been putting it off, but here goes.  Mom died July 17, 1995.  She was 62.  I was 37.

In March of 1995 mom went to the doctor for a routine exam.  He noticed that something was protruding from under her rib cage.  She had not been feeling badly, it was a random find.  They sent her for a CT scan.  Liver cancer.  Later to be diagnosed as lung cancer that metastasized to the liver. 

We tried to get Mom and Dad to go to M.D. Anderson in Houston, but they did not want to do so.  They were content to stay with their local doctors.  Mom took chemo and went through lots of tests and procedures. 

Mom went to a church that taught that if you had enough faith, you could be healed of anything.  She believed that she was  going to be healed.  Consequently, she really was not interested in talking through some of the things that you might want to talk with someone about who might be dying.  Whatever our issues were, she left them to us to resolve on our own.  Mom died on July 17, 1995.

The funeral was held at the Muelbach funeral home at 6700 Troost.  A group from our church sang "It is well with my soul."  I did the memorial message.  My friend David Van Giesen led the grave side portion.

It was strange to lose your Mom.  It was the first time that I had lost a person that close.  Your brain thinks about a lot of things.  Fortunately, we were raising three small children at the time and they kept us pretty busy. 

I still feel badly when I talk to people who are 75 years old and they are going to visit their mom.  I did not get to have my mom as long as I would have liked, but everyone loves their mom.  Sometimes I wish that she had been allowed to see my children grow up.  She would have been so proud.

So, the moral of the story is that we all need to appreciate the people that we have in our lives.  No one lives for ever, and we should be grateful for our loved ones.  Take a moment now to pray for them and give thanks to God for them.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

the drug of approval

Most everyone I know, at one time or another, has been addicted to the drug of approval.  We want the approval of our father, we want the approval of a friend, we want the approval of a partner. 

A ten year old girl walks into the room wearing a pink dress.  We say, "Oh, my you look wonderful!"  She beams with joy.  The next day she walks into the room wearing a green dress.  We look at her and say, "Green?  It's not your best color."  Her countenance falls and she is crushed.  She is addicted to the drug of approval.

All of us would prefer to be liked.  We would prefer to be approved of.  We would prefer praise to criticism.  There are some people that it is pretty important to have their approval.  Your boss would come to mind.  If he or she doesn't approve, it could mean a job change.

But for the most part, we are way too worried about getting others to like us.  What if we spent our energy living and loving, instead of worrying about if everyone liked us?  Maybe they act that way because something is wrong with them instead of you?  Maybe they will never be pleased.

Live well.  Do right.  Love all.  But spend your days in celebration and joy instead of worry.  Don't buy the drug of approval.  God approves already and he is the only one that ultimately gets a vote.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Annual Conference

The Annual Conference of the Missouri United Methodist Church was held this year on June 7-10.  The conference is a time of reports and voting and worship and rekindling of friendships.  This year, I was asked by the Bishop to deliver the Sunday morning sermon to the conference. 

The service was held at the Juanita Hammonds center on the campus of Southwest Missouri State in Springfield.  I have now had several members give me grief over the fact that no one was informed of this.  Good natured grief, but a disappointment that no one was told.  Some would have prayed for me, others said that they would have gone to participate had they known.

I apologize to you, and this is my fault.  It was quite an honor, and I just could not find a way to tell you that I was asked to do this, without it sounding self-promoting.  It still feels a little funny to post this. 

So some of our musicians went down and led worship, and I got to preach, and here is the link if you want to listen.  The topic for the conference was "praying hands and dirty fingernails."  This topic was from a blog the bishop wrote about how true prayer drives us to the work of the kingdom.

Here is the link if you would like to listen:

https://new.livestream.com/woodschapel/events/2189022

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

quiet

Quiet.  Shh.  Sometimes quiet is good.  It is peaceful.  It is good for the soul.  When I was a child, my father used to tell me that I talked too much.  Imagine that!  When I was a teenager, he would sometimes say, "Jeff, you just don't know when to shut up."

That always kind of bothered me, until I got older, and then it started to make sense.  Imagine that!  Something that my father said, made sense as I got older.

Sometimes words don't help.  Sometimes walking away from an argument is better.  Sometimes a hug to a friend who is hurting is better than untimely words.  Pat answers never help.  At times, your presence may be more important than your opinion in a marriage.

Quiet.  There are many good reasons for it.  Most of us need more of it.  Shh.  Be still and know that I am God. Ps. 46:10

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

self vs selfish

Selfishness sure is ugly isn't it?  I watch people work to take care of themselves, to the detriment of many others, and I am just amazed.  Healthy people are willing to make sacrifices for the common good.  They never hurt others intentionally and apologize if it should ever happen on accident.

Broken people are anxious and are consumed with self.  Healthy people still have a self, but they are not selfish.  They are able to live outside themselves and care for others.  Have you noticed when all is well in our world, we are much better at being nice to others?  And conversely, when we are consumed by some problem, we don't even see other people.

Every now and then it is a good idea to tell yourself that all is well.  Tell your self to relax.  Take a chill pill.  It will all work out. 

The moment we get our eyes off of our own mess, we can start to love others.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

life

Today I am 56 years old.  Happy Birthday. 

I am thankful for every birthday.  I am thankful for every day.  My mom died when she was 62.  My sister and I talk about this quite a bit.  She is 58.

This ride of life isn't going to last forever. 

But now back to happier thoughts.  Today I will do some wonderful things.  Since it is my day off, few of them will involve church.  I will work on a sermon today, but mostly I am going to do cool things.  I am going to sleep in a bit [already did that part.]  I am going to walk in the yard, I am going to clean the garage [which actually is a treat for a tool guy] I am going to go on a bicycle ride and I am going to say thank you to God a bunch for the gift of this day.

God is great.  Life is good.  Very good.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

4th of July

Today is the 4th of July.  I am proud to be an American.  I am more proud to be a Christian.  I have to remember on the 4th, that there are Christians in every country in the world, not just here.  We also must remember that in addition to being citizens of this land, we are citizens of God's kingdom.

I am also proud to be your pastor.  It is a great privilege.  I count it one of my life's greatest joys.

Enjoy today with your family and friends.  You are wonderful.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

yard

I find much joy in the garden of our yard.  Here are some more pictures of the beautiful things that God is growing at our home.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

surprise!

Every now and then we get a very big surprise.  I had one the other night.  My entire family of five went out to dinner at La Fuente.  Anytime we do this, I end up with the bill and it is usually $80 or so.

The other night when we were done, I asked for the bill.  The server said that our bill had been paid.  I asked by who.  He looked at my daughter Jenny.  She smiled.

JENNY PAID THE BILL!!  Jenny is 24. 

This is so exciting for me on several fronts.  First of all, Jenny has a job and makes enough money to pay the bill.  Secondly, Jenny manages her money in a way that she is able to pay the bill.  Finally, and the biggest thing of all is this:  Jenny wanted to pay the bill.

I was a very proud parent.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Jaguar

I saw a Jaguar dodging through traffic.  It caught up to me and popped into my lane.  There was a fish emblem on the back of their car.

If Jesus required a certain driving decorum before people could put fish on their cars, I wonder if there would be fewer fish on cars?

Personally, I would rather simply drive like a Christian.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

as the deer

Behind our home is a little meadow and a water retention pond.  The retention pond is full of trees.  Sometimes the pond is dry, but routinely, especially when it has rained, there is a little brook that wanders through.

Deer drop by from time to time to drink the water, eat the grass and rest in the meadow.  After dodging cars and jumping fences all day, I am sure that it is a peaceful rest for their souls.

"As the deer pants for the water, so my soul longs for you O God."  Psalm 42:1

May you find a place of rest for your soul today.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

pulling weeds

Jesus separated the weeds from the wheat.  He recognized that there was some good stuff and some stuff that had to go.  It is probably true for all of us, parts of us are great and parts of us need some work. 

I have been pulling weeds at home lately.  Volunteer elm trees and volunteer red buds.  Milk weed, thistles, chickweed, and weedy weed.  They all just show up from time to time.  My friend in the Lawn business, Jon, tells me that if you don't get something good to grow on bare ground, nature is going to make something grow there and you may not like it.

From time to time we need to take a look at ourselves and admit to the weeds that are in our gardens.  Be honest with God and let God pull them.  The Holy Spirit is always working to make us sweeter and it will happen if we allow room for it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

reread

Reread that classic.  I read good things and am very impressed by them.  I think that the ideas will stick, then a month later, I have forgotten them.  I may even read them again somewhere else and recognize the information but forget where I first heard it.

Consequently, I am going to be on a bit of an unofficial quest to reread some of the books that have made a difference in my life.  I am hopeful that their insights will come alive to me again.  We all need new insights.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Titles

If you are  looking for something to read, I want to offer some titles.  And by the way, I would encourage everyone to read, not just for enjoyments sake, but to read to learn.  To read to open up the paradigm of one's mind.  I love a good book of stories, but I also love the books that cause me to stop and rethink my path.  We never grow when all we read simply reinforces what we already think.  The best books cause us to really think about who we are and how we live.

Here are some pretty good titles, most of them are available at the church bookstore.

The Pursuit of God, by A.W. Tozer
The Orthodox Heretic, by Peter Rollins [coming soon]
Total Forgiveness, by R.T. Kendall
The Velvet Elvis, by Rob Bell
Walking on Water, by Anthony Demello
What's so Amazing about Grace, by Phillip Yancey

If you have not read all of these, I encourage you to pick one of them up.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

weathered pages

I love books.  I love old books.  I have a collection of old books.  It used to be larger, but keeping books around can become very troublesome.  Very heavy.  Bordering on hoarding.  So I have given many of my old books away.

I have a set of Charles Dickens from the 1860's.  I have an old Dante's Inferno.  I have the Works of Wesley.  [not the originals]

One of the things that I found odd about old books was how they weathered, greyed, became brittle and smelly.  Sometimes old books just fall apart in your hands.

The other day, I opened up one of the oldest books that I purchased new in 1984.  It was a copy of The Road less Travelled.  To my surprise, the pages are getting dry, brittle and smelly.  My book is now an old book.  It is after all, almost 30 years old.

I am no longer a spring chicken, but that is ok.  The good news about that, is that I was thinking and reading 30 years ago.  I hope you have something good to read.  Reading opens our mind and helps us solve our problems.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

see the good

Someone is bothering you.  If you focus on that, it will just keep hurting.  If you did something wrong, apologize, but if you didn't do anything wrong then stop worrying about it.  Life is too short for us to worry about every single thing that we can't fix. 

We have to decide everyday.  Will we look down or will we look up?  Behind every cloud is the sky.  What do you see when you look?  The clouds or the sky?

God has given us a wonderful gift of life, and it is passing faster than we think.  Yesterday is gone, all we have is today.  Let's not waste any more time feeling bad.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Paul

Friday is my day off.  Sometimes I get free time and sometimes I have to work.  That's just the nature of the beast.  Last Friday I had a list of errands to run:  Harbor Freight Tools, Savers, A-1 Rentals, the gas station, etc.

When I came out of Savers I got into my car.  I was immediately approached by a homeless looking man.  He was saying, "I don't want money, I don't want money."  He looked kind of desperate, so I decided to listen to him.

All he wanted was a ride up the street, from 44th and Noland to 36th and Noland.  He had to get to the barber shop.  I said ok.  He got in my car.  Sorry about this, but he smelled.  Smelled of alcohol.  10 in the morning and he had tied a pretty good one on.  I introduced myself to him.  He told me that his name was Paul.  Paul.  That was my Dad's name. 

On the way to 36th and Noland, I thought about his life, I thought about his future.  I was glad to help him.  I hope he has better things come his way.  We said goodbye and he went into the barbershop.  I drove on to the next place on my list.

There are a lot of people in this world that need help.  A small effort on my part saved Paul a ten block walk on a very busy street on a hot day.

There is always someone to help if we are willing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

too complicated

Preparing sermons can be a pain in the neck.  You pray, you listen, and you work.  Routinely I get stuck in sermon preparation and I have to take a step back and look at it from another angle.  Often I see the problem- the sermon is too complicated.  Too many thoughts, too many things for my brain to follow.  And if my brain can't follow it, how can I expect anyone else to follow it?

So I simplify the thing, and it usually goes better.

I think there is a life lesson here.  Sometimes we make things too complicated.  We need to simplify.  We need to find a few really good things and focus on them.  When we try to focus on too much, we lose our focus and are prone to miss some of the really good parts of life.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

wedding ring

I lost my first wedding ring a couple of years ago.  I went to play softball, I took it off and put it on my watch band, somehow, later that night on the way home, I had the watch but not the ring  I went back to look for it several times and never found it.

I went without a band for a year.  No one seemed to care.  After a year,  I got a new one.  Just the same.  Simple white gold band, no diamonds.

Three days ago, I lost the new one.  I spend several days retracing my steps.  I called several restaurants.  I remember taking it off and setting it down, thinking, "this is not a good idea, you are going to forget it."  And forget it I did.  I spent three days looking for it.  About the time I thought I had really lost it, I found it.

Everything that I lose is somewhere.  In fact, everything that I lose is right where I put it.  Right where I put it.  If I could just slow down and savor each moment, I would lose fewer things.  We are so busy we can't keep track of much of anything.  Time to slow down.  My favorite author says that if you can't remember where you left your keys, you are too busy.

Slow down.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

This Beautiful Mess

I came upon a book that I read a few years ago.  The author is Rick McKinley the book is titled This Beautiful Mess.  I had made some notes about it at the time.  The thoughts seem timely to me.  Here are the thoughts.....

I have been trying to stay up with what I think a pastor's brain should be doing -trying to get smarter.  What if God just accepted me as I am? Is that enough? Have I been reading to be accepted by God or to find the approval of people?

 The Beautiful Mess says, – Stop trying to do everything….Stop trying to please everyone or at least stop worrying about it all.  The kingdom is here now, in me – in my kids.  How is God present in this ordinary, broken, goofed up life that I’m living now?

 You have to invest in people.  Give them your time. It’s time.  Page 56: “Spiritually we tend to think in levels too. Everything depends on what we do.”  Page 57: “He simply invited His followers to see it, embrace it, believe in the unfading reality of it – and join in what His Father was already doing in the world.”

There is something that I am fighting in my life – it is the notion that I have to keep doing something. What if the most spiritual people just rest in his love?  The kingdom just is.  Page 61: “It dawns on me that the weight of the climbing up levels just about killed me. For the first time in my life, I begin to sense the possibility of a new way to just be in the kingdom.”

 Every week the pastor says, “Go in peace”, but are we at peace?  What if we are so at peace that the kindness just flows from our life?

 Page 86: “Practicing the presence of the kingdom changes how we see the world, our neighbors, and ourselves. It changes the way we use money, understand children, and play in creation. It causes us to stop and listen, see, touch, taste, and feel. The kingdom is found in justice breaking in all around us, in beauty in the midst of the mess.”

You can’t be salt or light because you are trying. Jesus makes us salt and light. Relax. Then live.

Page 129: “This is a place to start: to wake up to the million mysteries that unfold in us and around us every day. Why are so many who call God Father passing their gift of days behind drawn shades? We must come alive. We must say with every breath and every act, “Look! The world!”

history

I love history.  I am not sure why.  Why do we love the things that we love?  I am just very interested in history and archeology.  Somehow, when I think of what people did and thought and built hundreds of years ago, it puts my life into perspective.

This is a picture of a Roman aqueduct from Sergovia, Spain.  My friends Fred and Irene are in Europe and they are sending me pictures.  I am going to have to make my own visit there some time.

History reminds us that we are not as smart as we may think.  It also reminds us to apply ourselves to life because we will not be here for ever.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

I believe

I believe.  I believe in you.  You may not be sure about what is going on, but I believe in you.  I have seen you.  I know what is inside of you. 

It is time.  Stand up.  Stand up! Fulfill your potential.  I know that you have insecurities, but the time is here.  Stand up.  Be who God has created you to be.  Every time that you hold back, you limit God's work. 

He has called you.  He loves you.  He is with you.  Step up to the plate and get your swings in for Jesus.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

three things

People often ask me what they can do for their church beside pray.  Here is my answer, and it comes in three parts.

First, talk to people about your church.  Tell them about the missions and ministries that you like.  Be positive.  Tell folks why you like your church.

Secondly, invite folks to join you.  Invite them to sit with you in worship.  Invite them to join you in mission.  Invite them to give.  Invite them to love what you love.  They don't just join your church, they join you.

Finally, each person needs to work to add value.  The church at its worst is when the members go to church, sit in the pew and then expect the pastor and staff to do the work of ministry.  The church at its best is realized when the members are actively engaged in kingdom work.  It is interesting as well that when a person is actively working to add value, they are usually doing steps one and two, talking to others about their church and inviting others to hop in.

Healthy churches thrive from the ground up.  Every member in ministry, mobilized and working for the mission of Jesus Christ.  Talking, sharing, inviting, doing, going.  I want to go to that church.  Don't you?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

random thoughts on Fathers

Jim T used to say that on Mother's day I would praise mothers, and on Father's day I would chastise fathers.  I am sure that he was right.  Somehow in my brain that makes sense. 

Since I have never been a mother, there is this mystique about them.  A mythology maybe, it goes like this.......Mothers always know what to do, or were supposed to know.  They just do it.  They instinctively sacrifice themselves for their children. They can't do anything but do the right thing.  Maybe this is why I praised mothers on Mother's day.

Fathers I know about.  I know about how hard it is to get up every day and try to do the right thing.  I know about how hard it is to sacrifice, and I know what it takes to get the job done.  Not an easy thing.  Anyone can father a child, being a Father is really hard work.  I think this is why I have goaded fathers along, hoping to encourage or motivate them, but I guess fathers should be praised too.

Peter Pan had a happy thought.  In the movie Hook, he rediscovered his ability to fly when he remembered his happy thought, which was, "I'm a Dad!"  It is indeed a happy thought.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

birds

Every now and then someone shares a picture with me that just has to be passed on.  These little guys are too beautiful not to share.  They were visitors to the yard of my friend Betty N.

Can you hear the birds sing?  It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

my sisters

I have two sisters. One older and one younger.  One lives here in KC and the other lives in Northern California. I left my heart in both places. Kansas city and the bay area.

We are in our fifties and we are just finally getting close.  That is both sad and good. Sad that it took so long but good that we are getting close.

If you have a brother or sister that you are not close to, I urge you to reach out to them.  They are your blood, your family, and life is very short.  Very previous and very short.

It is a gift to have family. Make it the best that you can.  Keep working on it. It's worth it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.

filter

Sometimes things just don’t make sense.  We get in the way of what is good…say things that are only true to ourselves and poof a good thing turns bad.  We are so caught up in our understanding of things that we can’t see the truth from truth’s perspective. Or sometimes, as a another has put it, “Our need to control how others see us is like a god we’ve been bowing down to for so long we don’t even realize it.”

So a happy place turns sad. A relationship turns sour. Hurt and resentment enter the picture. Someone leaves with an ugly feeling and the other has no clue that there is a problem.

When we believe so strongly in ourselves nothing good happens. Our truths are not always His.

Filtering our thoughts before they become words is necessary and prayer is the best filter.

Peace,

Lion’s Den Man

 

slow down - part two

Well I couldn’t agree more with Jeff’s post yesterday.  Slowing down.  Balance.  Unfortunately if your scale is tipped to the side of the busy, hectic, frantic then it often takes a lot of deliberate effort to bring things back to even again. I can relate Jeff. A lot of us can relate. And most, if not all, wish it were not that way.

Reading a book tends to slow me down a bit. Funny thing is what I read the night before the "slow down” post was this...

“(Knowing) God has made my life better. I move more slowly than I used to because I don’t want to miss anything.

I find more and more beauty and meaning in everyday, average moments that I would have missed before.

I need fewer answers because I see more.

I find more people fascinating than ever because I’m more and more used to being surprised by the mystery that a human being is.

I’ve discovered more and more events are less about the events themselves and more and more about me being open to whatever it is that’s going on just below the surface.”

So I ask myself the question. Do I respond to the thoughts this writer shared in the same way because of my relationship with God? If not then what do I need to do to make that happen...

Peace,

Lion’s Den Man

slow down

Slow down.  I have to slow down.  I have so much going on that I am catching myself coming and going.  I have forgotten the dog's name.  He has forgotten me.  He barks at me when I come in the house.

I am sure that I am not the only person who feels this way.  We get so busy.  At annual conference last week, someone reminded us that "busy" is not a spiritual gift.

The only way I know to get less busy is to do fewer things.  It means that I can't meet with everyone who asks.  It means that I can't answer every single email.  It means setting boundaries and learning to say no.

Just yesterday it was my birthday.  Now here comes by birthday again next month.  Busy is the enemy of a beautiful day.  Let's all slow down so we don't miss it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

what a person knows

I am convinced that the older I get, the less I know.  When I was young I knew it all.  My Dad used to say, "those who say, don't know.  Those who know, don't have to say." 

John Wesley said, "When I was young I was sure of everything.  In a few years, having been mistaken a thousand times, I was not half so sure of most things as I was before.  At present, I am hardly sure of anything but what God has revealed to me."

Somehow, it is easier for me to relax now that I know that I don't have to know everything.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

engaged

Engaged.  Connected.  On it.  I like to talk about prayer as something that helps us to be "spiritually engaged."  Praying for your church means more than just lifting up the pastors and staff.  True prayer helps us to be spiritually engaged.  That means that when something happens that we don't like or don't understand, instead of complaining to a friend in the foyer, instead of calling someone to gossip about it, we pray.

"God, help me to understand why the service went that way.   God help me to understand why that staff person seems to be fighting what I want to do.  God help me trust in you.  God help me to get past my feelings of frustration.  God help me to be engaged with my church in a positive way."

Spiritual engagement does not put an end to disagreements, but it radically changes the way that we go about disagreeing.  Prayer drives us to keep a matter as private as possible and allows the people in the mix to resolve it without others being drawn in unnecessarily.

When something happens in your life that you don't like, is your first inclination to complain, to be angry, or to pray?  Prayer grabs hold of our humanness and helps us to be a part of a constructive dialogue and resolution.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.  And if you can't see it, don't complain, pray about it until you find a better place because it really is a beautiful day.

summer radio show

Woods Chapel will have a summer radio show beginning June 11th.  It will air on KCWJ 1030 AM on Tuesdays at 4pm.  For those of you who miss the live broadcast, it will also be available on the internet through the church web site.

The format will feature at 14 minute talk by me or one of the other pastors and then a 14 minute focus on some ministry aspect of the church.

This will be a great tool to invite your friends to listen and learn a bit more about who we are, what we do, and how we go about it.

Thanks for all that you do to support the ministry of Jesus through Woods Chapel.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

quote

From the book "Fish" by Stephen C. Lundin.

"There is always a choice about the way you do your work, even if there is not a choice about the work itself."

And so our attitude is so very important.  Are we working for our boss or are we working for the Lord?  When we do our work as if it were for God, everything changes, and everything is beautiful.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

ha ha

Maybe it wasn't so funny, but I thought it was funny and it didn't seem to bother the bride and groom. 

So last week I am doing a wedding away from the church.  Cramped space where only the bride, groom and minister can fit in the front.  I have my wedding service outline in one hand, I am holding a microphone in the other [no lavaliere] and it is time for the rings.  The best man and maid of honor bring me the rings.

Now I have my notes folder, a microphone and two rings in my hands.  Do you see where this is going?  I am clever though, so I drop the groom's ring into my suit pocket.  We go on.

We get the bride's ring on her finger and I reach into my pocket for the groom's ring.  Uh Oh.  And this suit is less than a year old.  There is a small hole in the corner of the pocket and his ring has fallen through and made its way to the bottom of the inside of my coat.

I have to set down my notes and the microphone and fish around to get the ring back up to the bottom of the pocket and out.  It took a couple of minutes, but it felt like much longer.

None worse for the wear, the bride and groom finally got married.

I need to get my pocket sewed up.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

no fix

Sometimes in life we come upon things that we don't seem to be able to fix.  How we hope something will go, is not how it turns out.  You do everything that you can to make it different, but you can't.  The thing is beyond your abilities.

What to do?  Keep trying.  Keep at it.  You keep going.  And, you trust in God.  You lean on Him.  In fact, these kind of things tend to force us to lean on Him.  That is at least one positive result of the things that seem broken beyond repair.

God is with us!  There is always hope.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

if you really knew

If you really knew the worst about someone?  Could you still  love them?  I run into people all of the time who have big giant secrets.  They can't bear to tell anyone because they think that they would be rejected.  So they wander in this life, hunched over with the burden of guilt on their backs.

When someone tells you the worst that they have done, are you able to still love them?  Are you able to look past their dirty laundry and love them?

This is God's kind of love.  God looks at us, knows all that we have ever done, and still loves us.  He still sees the good in us.  If God can do that for us, maybe we can work harder on releasing others.  To err is human to forgive is divine.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Bible jokes

If God has a sense of humor.........

When was baseball mentioned in the Bible?
In the big inning.

When were loud motorcycles mentioned in the Bible?
David's triumph was heard throughout the land.

When was tennis mentioned in the Bible?
When Moses served in the courts of Pharaoh.

How does God make tea?
Hebrews it.

Who is the shortest man in the Bible?
Nehemiah [Knee  High Miah]

What kind of man was Boaz before he got married?
ruthless.

Lot's last words to his wife.....
"honey are the kids behind us?"

How do you know that God likes cars?
Jesus was a car painter.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Sales

Sometimes people ask me about the weather.  Hey, today is the golf tournament.  Can you get us some good weather?  Jeff, can you get the rain to hold off?

I like to respond, "I am in sales, not management."

This reminds me of another saying that is often used, "opinions expressed here are not necessarily those of the management."  It seems to me that there are a lot of Christians, and a lot of Pastors who have forgotten this.  They come to think that their ideas about God are the only right ones.  When we get to feeling this way, we can become a very heavy burden to those around us.  No one likes an arrogant Christian.

None of us are as smart as we think.  We all need to be in submission to our Father.  None of us know as much as we think we know.  I have come to believe that when we die and fly up towards the pearly gates, about 80% of what we think we know is just going to fall off.  We will be left with some very simple truths. 

Did I love God?  Did I love my neighbor?  Did I do for the least of these? 
Well done good and faithful servant.  Enter into the joy of the Lord.

Opinions expressed here are not necessarily those of the management.  And I find some consolation in that.  I don't have to know everything.  I can trust in God.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

A bigger God

The following is my experience, it may or may not resemble yours.....

I was raised in the church.  When we were children, and first believed, our God was smaller, but big enough to resolve the issues in the mind of a child.

When we became teenagers, we started to have problems.  Some of us gave up on God during this time, because we thought that we shouldn't have problems, or we decided that we couldn't believe in a God who would allow such painful things.

Those of us who survived adolescence and returned to the church as adults, have learned that a child sized God or even an adolescent sized God is no longer big enough.  Adults can run into some pretty difficult stuff.

The only consolation that I find from adult problems, is that God needs to get bigger.  Our capacity is increased, the hole in our life is larger, and we need a bigger God.  Thankfully, he is able and willing to rush in and fill the void.

Bigger problems?  Bigger God.  He is there.  He is waiting.  He is trustworthy.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

Father's Day

Father's day is coming up in a few weeks, but lately I have been thinking about the kind of father that I have been.  Being a father is a funny thing.  I used to work really hard taking care of kids, teaching them and raising them.  Then one day they grew up and moved out.  Now they have taken responsibility for their own lives.  I am in effect, out of a job.

It is a funny feeling.  Not needed anymore.  Not thought of.  Poor me!  Time for a pity party.  The empty nest thing takes some time to transition.  You look back and wonder what you might have done differently, you think of mistakes that you made.  I wish I could have those moments back and have a redo.

Mostly I just look at my kids and feel proud.  They are all going to be fine.  They have good hearts.  Maybe one day soon, I will have grand kids to invest in.  Now there is a happy thought!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.