Wednesday, August 2, 2023

More on friendship

How do we make friends?

Friendship is an important part of our human experience. Through friendship we can give and receive
love. Given this important aspect of our lives, how do we make friends? Is it easy? Does it take a long
time? Do I have to be in a certain environment?

What are some of the key components for making a friend or friends?

1. Common interests
    a. Music
    b. Helping others

2. Finding a connection
    a. Working together on a common goal
    b. Sharing thoughts and ideas

3. Being able to listen
    a. Genuinely interested in what others have to say
    b. Understanding their perspective

4. Open to meeting others
    a. Social interaction
    b. Honest communication

5. Open to new experiences
    a. Overcome fear of rejection
    b. Actively seek new opportunities

This list is not exhaustive by any means but should give us a great place to start thinking about how we
make friends.  After considering the aspects of the above list, I believe our focus may be one of the most important pieces to this puzzle. If we focus on serving others instead of thinking about what we will receive from them, people will notice our genuine care and love for others. This recognition may just lead us to connections for friendships.

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to be a friend.

Respectfully submitted by Bruce L.

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