Monday, September 20, 2021

Wedding pictures

It was a beautiful wedding on the beach in St. Augustine.  David and Jenny said their vows.  It was a lovely day.  The pastor in green in Rev. Sherri Swanson.  The bridesmaids to the left are my daughter Allison and Niece Taylor.  We had a blast catching up with old friends.  A true celebration.  Life needs more celebrations!!!


The vows

Lighting the unity candle

the kiss [it was a long one]

Introducing Mr. and Mrs. David Phillips!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, September 19, 2021

Talk like a pirate day!

Today my daughter Jennifer wakes us as a new bride.  Her first married day is a holiday.   It is one of my favorite holidays, it is national talk like a pirate day. I wouldn't miss it for the world. Here are some terms to help you make it through today as a joyful participant.


Avast ye =Pay attention
Hornswaggle =To cheat
Shiver me timbers=An expression used to show shock or disbelief
Head=Toilet on board the ship
Poop deck=Deck that is the highest and farthest back
Landlubber=A person who is not incredibly skilled at sea
Davy Jones' Locker=Refers to death
Ahoy, matey=Hello, friend
Batten down the hatches=A signal to prepare the ship for an upcoming storm
Blimey!=Something said when one is in a state of surprise
Booty=Treasure
Crow's nest=The place on the ship where the lookout stand is built
Heave ho=Instruction to put some strength into whatever one is doing
Old salt=A sailor that has a great deal of experience on the seas
Scallywag =A name that is used as an insult to someone
Seadog =An old sailor or pirate
Thar she blows!=An expression used when a whale is spotted from the ship
Three sheets to the wind=Someone who is quite drunk
Walk the plank=A punishment which entails someone who walks over the side of the ship off of the plank. Their hands are often tied so that they cannot swim and they drowned.
Yo Ho Ho=There is often used to express some sort of cheer but also can be used to call attention to the speaker.

Be sure to tell a joke or two.
Where do pirates buy their music?
Aye - tunes
Why are pirates cool?
They just rrrrrrrrrrrr.

Rrrrrrr. It's a beautiful day in God's world, be surrrrrre to sea the good.

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Saturday, September 18, 2021

Oh Happy Day!

Oh happy day!!! Oh happy day!!!  When Jesus washed my sins away!

Today is a happy day for another reason.  Today my daughter Jennifer is getting married!!!  It's about time.  The lucky man is David Phillips.  They will make their home is Jacksonville with George, the best dog in the world.

I am so excited!!!  It will be great to see family and friends and for everyone to be together.  Being together is such a beautiful thing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, September 17, 2021

Premonitions

Lately I have been having premonitions about my death.  I am not sure that premonitions is the right word, but at any rate, I have been thinking about it quite a bit.

I am prepared.  The love file is complete.  [there is a blog post]  The love file is complete.  I know that I am accepted and loved by God.  I am not afraid.

Now having said that, I am in no particular hurry to cross over.  I love my family and friends and I love my handyman work.  

Maybe this is how all older people think...  I am 64 now.  Anyway, if you think about your impending death, you are not alone.

The best thing that I can tell you is that we need to enjoy every day.  Reduce the negative and celebrate the positive.  Each day we live we are one day closer to the end.  So let's make the most of it.  Let's give this day our very best!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, September 16, 2021

a random day

It was a couple of days ago.  It was a random day.  I did the things that I do.  One of the things that I do is to get the mail.  There was some random mail and a package.

The package, surprise to me, was from my sister in California.  Was it my birthday?  No.  Was it Christmas?  No.

I am intrigued.  

I open the package and find the card.  In my family, you always have to read the card first.  She tells me that she loves me.  She tells me that she misses me.  She tells me that she is thinking about me.  She wants to get together when ever we can.

And there is this jacket that she sends to me.  Now I am not particularly a Giants fan, but I love the city of San Francisco.  So my sister Amy is fixing me up.  And she misses me.  How cool is that.

Her gift made a random day into a day where I felt very special.  What gift can I give to someone to make their day special?  What can you give to another to make them feel awesome?  Look into your heart and see if God puts someone on your heart and mind.  You can turn their day from random to awesome.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, September 15, 2021

Pay close attention

I was pretty dry.  I was wondering what to post.  Then out of the blue I got this from my friend Pat.  Pat keep sending me what is on your heart.

Here is what he sent:

I’m learning. At 66, 
I am still learning.

In the military in combat, the old vets rarely covey up with the new replacements. They isolate and keep them at arms length. I always understood it, now I know it.

I have 6 close friends whom I’ve transited life with the last 50 years. Graduations, weddings, child births, divorces, big wins, big losses, vacations and great amounts of laughter. They are the family I built, and I theirs. One of us, John, is a very accomplished musician. He’s played guitar longer than driven a car. Music is, after his wife, kids, and us, his greatest love in live, and I’m not convinced of the order there. Today I learned he has gone totally deaf over the last 6 weeks; there is nothing I can do. And I am broken. Yes there is some accommodation that will be made, might be made, he may have some hearing, but its the first evidence that this family circle is disappearing one piece at a time.

Old people sometimes seem remote. I think it might be for the same reasons that combat veterans are: its too painful to grow close to someone and lose them. I always understood that, but now I know it.

Love intensely. Hang on to those you care about. The pain of them going away is closer than you think.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, September 14, 2021

the scratch on my eye

So I spent a day trimming the palms.  Standing on the ground, reaching over my head, cutting off the fronds [palm branches].  A lot of debris was falling on me.  Evidently something got in my eye and scratched it.  I woke up the next day and thought I had something in my eye.  I washed it out.  I used drops.  Then I decided it was scratched.  It bothered me a lot that day.  The next day it bothered me.  The next day it bothered me some.  After about 4 days it stopped bothering me.

So what?

I am reminded again, I am amazed at the healing power of the human body.  What an amazing things it is that cuts heal, eyes heal, many things heal.

Speaking of healing, Scott is doing better.  He is walking with a cane and looking for work.  Thanks for supporting him and praying for him.

Let's give thanks today for the way that they body heals.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, September 13, 2021

Gratitude

I was listening to a fellow, A.J. Jacobs talking about gratitude on the Ted talk radio hour.

Here is the link if you would like to listen:

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One of the things that he said was that happiness is different than gratitude.  He said that happiness does not create gratitude, but that a grateful heart always grows happiness within.  If we can count our blessings, if we can remember what we are thankful for, happiness can show up.

What are you thankful for?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, September 12, 2021

Apology

So I found the server that I mentioned in yesterday's post and apologized.  She said that I was find and did not need to apologize.  That made me feel better, but I am still glad that I apologized.  Sometimes an apology, an "I am sorry" does as much for you as it does for the other person.  We need to be willing to admit it when we are wrong.  We we don't apologize when we need to, we drive people away.  A contrite heart can restore a relationship.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, September 11, 2021

I was rude

I did not realize it at the time, but I was rude to a server the other day.  I got to thinking about what I said later and I thought, "that was not nice."  I don't know why I did not catch myself at the time.

Yesterday I went to find the server to apologize.  They were not working that day.  I am going back today.  I am going back every day until I find them.

What I said may not have been a big deal to them, but it might.  Anyway, I don't want to be rude to anyone.  I want servers, children, dogs, cats and everyone to want to see me walk in the door.

Is there someone in this world that you might need to apologize to?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, September 10, 2021

See the good

For some reason we humans tend to gravitate to "what is wrong."  And for some folks, the moment that list is fixed, they come up with another list of what is wrong.

Where did we get the idea that everything would go our way?  Are we so spoiled that we think that no heartache will come to us?

When we focus on what is wrong, it keeps us from seeing the good.  And there is so much good:

  • I woke up today.
  • I can see. [I have a scratch on my eye that is bothering me though]
  • I can breathe.
  • I have a car that runs. [not always the case when I was young.]
  • There is food in the fridge.
  • I can read.
  • I own a computer.
  • I have a lot of friends that love me.

Instead of talking about what is wrong, let's talk about what is right.  We are so fortunate.  We are so blessed.  We have so much.  I wish I would, I wish that we all would work harder to focus on the good.  There is so much.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, September 9, 2021

Happy Birthday


Bruce on the left with Dave Harris
at Nick Swanson's wedding.
Today is my friend Bruce's birthday.  Happy Birthday Bruce!!!

I love that we get to love people in this life.  Bruce is one of my favorite humans.

Now on to today's topic.  Not a happy one:  rejection.



Rejection is one of the most painful things that I have ever experienced in my life. I was friends with rejection before I could even name it. The reason that I was familiar with rejection was because I had parents that really didn’t want children. They didn’t hold their children.   Can you imagine spending the rest of your life wishing that someone would hold you?

My parents were trying to survive having children, and we children didn’t even understand that we should’ve been wanted. I was cut from the baseball team when I was in sixth grade- that was a new experience for me. I was kicked out of Boy Scouts because I got into a fight with the scoutmaster‘s son. I was laughed out of humanities class in college as I well I should’ve been.  That's a story for another day.

I’ve been set aside many times in my life.  It’s never fun and it’s never easy. But whenever we face rejection we have a choice to make.  Do you accept it and fall into the gutter and cry or do you get up and go on?  Can we learn to say that life is bigger than this recent rejection?   There is still so much good.  Let's step out and find a way to be a part of the solution.

Life is good, life is beautiful, life is amazing.  There’s so much to celebrate in this life and we just have to keep giving it our best. Some people don’t want our best but we have to keep giving life our very best.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, September 8, 2021

Everything is OK

Everything is OK.  Everything may not be going the way that I want it to go, but everything is OK.  Good leaders remind others that everything is OK.  

The world needs more people who are a "non-anxious" presence.  They are very powerful words.  Look them in the eye and tell them, "everything is ok."

I have a friend Lynn who ends her emails with this phrase, "in the end, everything will be ok.  If everything is not ok, then it is not the end."

I'm OK, You're OK.  Everything is OK.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, September 7, 2021

Naomi Osaka

Naomi Osaka is a 23 year old Japanese tennis player.  Although she had success prior to this, she is probably best know for defeating Serena Williams in the 2018 US Open.

Earlier this year she has not appeared for media events and dropped out of other tennis events.  She has cited ongoing bouts of depression.

Can you imagine the tremendous amount of pressure that are on athletes like her.

I can imagine her thinking, and this is me imagining what she feels like, [I was good, among the best, but now maybe I am not.  The pressure of it all is making me a mess.  I am depressed.]

As we retire and grow older I think that many of us have a feeling like... I used to do that or I used to be that, but now I am not.  It can be depressing for sure.

If you deal with feelings like this, you are not alone.  I saw a counselor a few years ago and she told me that 80% of her clients are people that performed at a high level but are now retired and they don't know what their life is about anymore.

Don't be one of her 80%.  Our life was never about our career.  We were not put here to be a teacher or a custodian or a professional athlete.  We were put here on this earth to love others.  When we forget that, and try to value our lives by what job we held, we will find confusion and depression.

But when we can get up in the morning and love others, we will find the joy again.  You don't have to perform.  You don't have to be the best.  Just get up in the morning and share the love.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, September 6, 2021

side by side

I’m walking through the airport on the way to my gate in Atlanta. I hear a baby crying and I look and I see this guy pushing a side-by-side stroller with twins and they’re both crying. It reminded me of when I pushed the girls in their side-by-side. I don’t remember them crying but I felt for the poor man. Thank God we have children when we are young!

One of my favorite pictures was taken at Worlds of Fun. Me pushing the girls in the side by side. We drove down from Princeton, just me and the girls. It was a Father-daughter day! Great times!

Look at the smiles on their faces!  Worlds of fun was a big deal to them when they were young.  Well for that matter, we have a family vacation planned in December to Disney.  I will be sure to get another picture of us together.

Savor your times together!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, September 5, 2021

Swahili




A book was written in Swahili to the Zula nation in Africa. We pick it up and read it and ask ourselves what does it mean. And we interpret it based on our English language or American heritage and our experience of the American life. With no concept whatsoever of the language of Swahili or the history of the Zulu people. How is that even right? How can this even be the case? What if we started over and said let’s learn the language of Swahili. Let’s learn the culture of the Zulu people. It might enhance our understanding of this book that has come to us.

That is what we do with the Bible. A book written by Jews to Jews, set in the culture of the Hebrew people. We pick it up with no knowledge of their culture and imprint our own ideas onto it.  We even arrogantly argue and insist that our interpretations are right.  How insightful it would be if we could know what they know about the setting and history around the Bible.

And so I hold out to you the BEMA podcast. These guys do an exceptional job of explaining scripture through the Jewish lens. They have given me a whole new outlook on Genesis 1, Revelation, and the book of Romans. I encourage you to give the podcast a try.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, September 4, 2021

It is at least partly my fault


So there is this guy that does not like me.  It has bothered me for a long time.  I keep trying to let it go.  One thing that helps me is to see what happened from his perspective.  How did he experience our encounter.

Now in this encounter, I did what I thought was right.  And given the same circumstances again, I don't know that I would do it any differently.  But his perception of what happened and how it impacted him is probably a source of pain for him.

Seeing the other person's perspective is always helpful.

It helps me to see how he might hurt.  It helps me to understand his rejection of me.  In most of life's painful situations, I usually had a role.  I usually have a burden to bear in the story.  We love to blame others and we hate to take responsibility. 

It helps me to realize that this painful thing can't be shoved off.  It is not everyone else's fault.  The whole thing is at least partly my fault.

And so I get up and go on and try to make better decisions.  I get up and go on and try to be a source of good.  I try to steer clear of danger.  I want my life to be less about pain and hurt and more about good and healing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, September 3, 2021

Forgive, forget and move on

[I wrote this two days ago]

Today I am meeting Mike at the Metal Galvanizing company in Jacksonville.  Mike was very good to me last week when I was there and my truck broken down.  He let me sit in the airconditioned office and loaned me a phone charger while I was waiting to be rescued.  Today on the way to his business, I am going to stop at the grocery store and buy him some Russell Stover candies as a thank you.

I want to give Mike the same joy and grace that he gave me.  He deserves that.  In fact, everyone deserves that.  Even complete strangers deserve love and grace from you and me.

But what if for some reason, I allowed the hurts of the past to occupy my mind today?  What if I became consumed with how my mother raised me?  What if I couldn't get my mind off of the rejection that I feel from those people?  What if I was stuck in the negative?

Then I would be no good for Mike, no good for myself, and no good for anyone.  

At some point, we need to forgive, forget and move on so that we can be present with the people that we need to be present for today.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, September 2, 2021

John Pavlovitz

My friend Linda sends me things to read from time to time.  She recently sent me this wonderful article by John Pavlovitz.  I have edited it down but you can read the full article here:

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In organized religion, one of the central questions has always been and continues to be Who has it right?

Growing up and later ministering in the Church, the elemental heart of spiritual community was the stated or implicit sense that we alone had cracked the God code; that we’d figured out what every other faith tradition (and many communities within our tradition) had not. Evangelism was less about sharing God’s love with the world around us but about getting the world to be as enlightened as we were by completely agreeing with us.

Believing the right thing was everything. The world was sharply divided between the saved and the damned and the greatest imaginable sin was to reject that idea. And it wasn’t enough to believe in God, you had to believe in the correct God, adopt the correct doctrine, and pray the correct prayers—or else your sincerity or judgment (not to mention, your eternal destination) were questioned.

One of the perennial party lines from my megachurch days was “Being a good person isn’t going to get you into Heaven, only accepting Jesus will”—as if God so preferred some 90-second lip service over a long life of kindness, that He would send a loving Muslim to hell while eternally rewarding a horrible human being who once answered an altar call. That seemed like an odd thing for a God who is all-knowing and all-loving to do. That seemed antithetical to love. And this theology has produced some really unloving people who are certain they have their ticket to heaven punched.

Since beginning this work as a pastor nearly three decades ago. I’ve encountered millions of people of faith who believe religion is a hard pass-fail, and they are terrified of flunking. At this point in the journey, I don’t wrestle with that idea much anymore.

The answer to the question, “Do I have religion right?” is actually quite simple to me now, and when people ask me I tell them why.

The right religious worldview is the one that makes you a more empathetic human being—period. It is the belief system that enables you to be more aware of the suffering in the world and propels you into other people’s lives to alleviate that suffering.

If your religion doesn’t yield an ever deepening compassion in you and move you to widen your embrace of disparate humanity, it’s the wrong religion. I don’t care what your pastor, priest, rabbi, imam, guru, or prophet says. Believing the right thing isn’t the right thing unless your life shows the fruit. Less generosity, less empathy, less diversity means you got it wrong. If you’ve worked a weight-loss system for a year with no results, it doesn’t matter if the system is solid and proven to work for others: you and the plan are not working together and you need a new plan.

Yeah, I know many of you reading this will write this all off as universalistic heresy, and I understand why. When you’ve been raised to believe that righteous and rightness are the same thing, you’ll do all you can to defend the story in your heads that tells you you’re one of the good guys.

But if whatever your religious affiliation or spiritual convictions or confession of faith doesn’t result in a life of greater empathy, then what’s the point?

If you are less loving because of your religion no matter what that religion is, you got it wrong.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, September 1, 2021

Character

I have the nextdoor app. Often what is posted on the app is junk. People whining about something. But this came across the other day and I thought it was great.

Character-
Honorable—We show honor to everyone.

Humble —We don’t draw attention to ourselves. 

Selfless—We think of others more than we think of ourselves. 

Pure—We strive to have untarnished motives. 

Peace-loving—We agree to respectfully disagree. 

Gentle—We consider the feelings of others before acting. 

Merciful—We give second chances because they’ve been given to us. 

Impartial—We show fairness to all we encounter.

Sincere—We are authentic, honest, and full of integrity.


It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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