3 thoughts for a pastor

Thoughts for the pastor -

~ when someone is mad at you, ask them:   “How can I do a better job?” 

~ The Bishop can give me an appointment.  The congregation can paint my name on a sign.   I only become your pastor when I win your trust.

~ Give credit, take responsibility . . . Let others shine, leave my name out of it.

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to see the good.

essentials of faith

John Wesley, the unintentional founder of the United Methodist Church, taught that we should agree on the essentials of faith, and in other, peripheral matters we should “think and let think.”
As I consider the essentials of the Christian faith, this is my list:

1. God exists.
2. God created man, woman, and all things.
3. Man and woman fell away from God due to sin.
4. People have tried many times and in many ways to restore the relationship with God but they were unable to do so.
5. God sent His son, Jesus Christ, to do what we could not do ourselves.
6. Jesus taught the people, loved them, and suffered and died on the cross and rose again.

7. His death on the cross is atonement for our sins.
8. When a person chooses to accept the person of Jesus Christ and the power of his acts on the cross, their sin is forgiven and they are filled with the Holy Spirit.
9. A new life begins for that person in that we are conformed to the image of Christ . . . a little bit at a time.

If Christians can stay focused on the essential parts of the Christian faith, then we stay on mission. Churches struggle when they focus on the non-essentials.

Examples of peripheral, non-essential beliefs, non-heaven or hell beliefs would include:
1. Opinions on baptism.
2. Opinions on the book of Revelation and how the world may or may not end.
3. Opinions on particular social or political issues.
4. Etc.

I think we can tell when our topics of discussion are not longer helpful in our pursuit of Christ. Many non-essential issues are important issues, but we have to remember that they are secondary. People are going to have opinions that differ from ours. We should not break fellowship because of such differences. We will all spend eternity together, so why not start tolerating one another now?

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to see the good.

why we don't rebaptize people

Why we don’t rebaptize people.

Among the many practices in the Christian church, one of the most troubling is the act of rebaptizing someone. 

If you believe as Methodists do, that baptism initiates you into God’s kingdom, it only needs to be done once.  If you believe that baptism is something that you do when you need to turn from sin and confess your faith, then you better be ready to be baptized 100 times in your life.  I know of a 26 year old man who has been baptized five times!  At some point, it is insulting to God.  At some point we have to start understanding that the power in baptism is not our decision, but the grace of God that descends upon the person being baptized.

In the scriptures, there is evidence of adults being baptized.  There is also evidence that children were baptized.  The Philippian jailer and his house were baptized.  There is no scriptural evidence that children were excluded.  There is no evidence of children waiting and being baptized later in life.  There is no scriptural evidence of rebaptism.

Baptism is the sign of God’s promise to us.  Received as an adult or as a child, it need only be done once.  You may not remember your baptism, or the memory of it may have faded, but I promise you that God has not forgotten.

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to see the good.

God's moon

Did you see the moon the other morning?  How does God do that?  It is like he hung a ping pong ball in front of it.  I am sure that there is some scientific  explanation, but I don't remember what it is. 

A really clear night.  The shadow of the earth against it maybe?  I don't know, but is sure was beautiful.  I hope you got to see it. 

What will you see today that is spectacularly beautiful?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

freeing the canaries

One of my favorite old movies is from 1971 - "Harold and Maude."  Have you seen it?  I was watching it again the other night.  Bud Cort stars as 18 year old Harold, who is trying to find his way in life.  Ruth Gordon stars as a 79 year old concentration camp survivor who has lived a full life.  They become friends. 

It is a funny, and a strange movie.  One line that I caught the other day when I was watching.  Maude [Ruth Gordon] is talking about how she wants people to really live.  She even likes to go to pet stores and free the canaries.  That experience never goes very well.  Freeing canaries is an idea that is ahead of its time.  Then she says, "O my, how the world still dearly loves a cage."

O my, how the world still dearly loves a cage.  How true it is.  So many ways to enslave people.  So many people asleep to the glory and good of this life.  Living this wonderful life from inside a cage of fear and selfishness.  Some people miss the chance to be free.  It is too difficult. O my how the world still dearly loves a cage.

"Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light."  Ephesians 5:14

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

end of the world, part 3

In a post last week, I expressed disappointment with those who claim that America's troubles are a sign of Jesus' return.  In reply to my posts last week, someone asked, and rightfully so, what our response would be to such teaching.

In other words, if there are churches that are drawing folks by pointing them to the end of time, what would we tell them instead of that?  If there are churches that are telling folks that God wants you to escape the suffering of difficult times, what do we teach instead of this?

Let me begin by reiterating "no one knows the hour or the day."  Let me also say that all great people of faith in the Bible faced suffering.  The overwhelming evidence in Scripture is that following God is not the easy way, but it is the way that leads us to hope and meaning.  There always has been, and always will be a cross for Christ followers to bear.

If you want a church and a pastor that will give you the easy answers and the formula's for life, well, those churches are out there.  Good luck with that.  If you want a church that will point you toward the mystery of God and invite you to learn to rest in him, come see us.

In difficult times, this is what I want to say to folks- "Trust in the Lord.  Paul and Silas sang in prison.  Jesus forgave people from the cross.  It is shallow to believe in a God that solves all of our problems.  Instead, God asks us to rest in him, in spite of our problems.  The answer to difficult times is not some magic potion that makes them all go away.  The answer is the God who holds us in the palm of his hand.  Trust means nothing if there is no difficulty.  Trust means everything when times are tough.  We can trust in the God who walks with us through the dark valleys."

It is not the end of the world.  However, we just might be facing the world as millions of others have had to do in less  prosperous countries have for centuries.  Trust in the Lord.  Maybe hard times will finally teach us what it really means to love God and put our faith in Jesus in stead of circumstances.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

what song?

Baseball is over for another year.  At least for teams like the Royals that did not make the playoffs.  I attended a game this week.  The weather was great, and I sure do enjoy baseball.

One of the things that I have learned is that the music that is played in the stadium when a batter comes to the plate is chosen by the batter.  Consequently, when Billy Butler comes to the plate, you always hear country music.  When some of the Hispanic players come to the plate, you often hear Latino tunes.  The really young players choose songs that I do not recognize.

So the thought occurred to me.  Let's say that you and I were actually good hitters and we were coming to the plate for our turn to bat.  What song would you pick?  I am thinking........... how about:

Centerfield by John Fogerty or
We will rock you by Queen or
Tonight's gonna be a good night by the Black Eyed Peas.

It sure would be a fun moment.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

the end of the world, part 2

Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh. Mt 25:13

I am sorry but I cannot let this go by.  I heard a noted religious figure say on TV the other night that since all of these bad things are happening to America, the end is near.  We are living in the last generation.

So, let me get this right- America has debt problems, we have financial problems, unemployment problems, hungry people problems, and fearful for the future problems, so those are signs of the end of time.

Really?  Is America the only country that God cares about?  Why were not the financial problems in Greece a sign of the end?  Why were not hundreds of thousands murdered in  the Sudan a sign of the end.  Why wasn't the fall of Rome a sign of the end [I am sure that someone in Rome was saying so at the time.]  Hungry people in Ethiopia for years, but that was not a sign of the end.  But bring a little heart ache to the streets of America and it must be a sign of the end.  [it's all about me.]

Jesus will come back some day, but his signs are not centered on America.  He has the Whole World in his hands.  America has problems, but our problems are not a sign of the second coming.  Our problems are a sign of selfishness, consumerism, and bad management by politicians on both sides of the isle.

Faithful and mature Christians do not run here and there with every wind of doctrine, trying to figure out when Jesus is coming back.  Love God and love every one you come into contact with.  If you do this, you will be ready, whenever Jesus returns. 

As far as America's problems go, I hope that we can bite the bullet and get them fixed.  But either way, good times or difficult, we Christ followers are called to love God and love one another.  It's not necessarily the end of time, anymore than it was before.  Nothing has changed.  Keep trusting Christ.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

the end of the world

It's all about me.  It's all about us.  It's all about the Big 12.  Can you believe it?  Nebraska is leaving the Big 12 for the Big 10.  Then Colorado leaves for the Pac 10.  How frightening.  But it gets worse.

Texas, Texas AM and Oklahoma are all talking about leaving.  The big 12 might become the little 5.  Who will Missouri play?  What will happen to our TV revenues?  Who will we have left to hate?

There is only one answer to this.  It must be the end of the world.  There is nothing  in the world worse than this.  It is a sign of the end.

Somebody moved my cheese.  Surely life cannot go on.  It's the end of the world.  No Big 12 - lets go out and stand on the mountain and wait.  Or..........

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

other places - part two

Last night I thumbed through a book I had read a few years back. I glanced at what I had underlined and read the notes I had written. It was like reading a journal and it brought back some thoughts I hadn't had in a while. It took me to an old place but also a new place. Before I knew it the thoughts and concerns that had filled my day had been replaced by new thoughts and ideas. Sometimes it is just a simple thing that can trigger a bigger and better thing... a new day a new view a fresh outlook.


Peace,
Lion's Den Man

other places

I've been other places as of late so I'm a little out of touch with the things that I let surround me each day. That's not a bad thing. It was almost like a vacation... only better. Vacations, for me, always seem to take a few days to settle in and then a day or so before they are over I start thinking about the stuff that lies ahead again. So this was better...a quick exit for a few days to spend some time doing other things with and for people I care about. My head...my mind...went off to a different place in time. I'm not one to live in the past, but I do value what the past has brought into my life. I thoroughly enjoy hearing stories from the past, especially ones that I either have never heard before or ones that are shared from another persons vantage point. So it was good and it has me thinking and seeing life in a different way...at least for now.

Sometimes we just need a little shake up in the routine to get us out of the rut, so life can show us a different picture.

Peace,
Lion's Den Man

a break

My dear wife has been on the road every single week except for one, this year.  But there is good news.  She is home this week and next!  :-)  It's like a homecoming, like someone returning from the service.  What great joy!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

An Old Farmer's Advice

I received this from a friend -  it all reminds me of the kind of things that my father told me over and over while I was growing up:

Old Farmer's Advice

 

• Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong.
• Keep skunks and bankers at a distance.
• Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.
• A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor.
• Words that soak into your ears are whispered…...not yelled.
• Meanness don't just happen overnight.
• Forgive your enemies; it messes up their heads.
• Do not corner something that you know is meaner than you.
• It don't take a very big person to carry a grudge.
• You cannot unsay a cruel word.
• Every path has a few puddles.
• When you wallow with pigs, expect to get dirty.
• The best sermons are lived, not preached.
• Most of the stuff people worry about, ain't never gonna happen anyway.
• Don 't judge folks by their relatives.
• Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
• Live a good and honorable life, then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time.
• Don 't interfere with somethin' that ain't bothering you none.
• If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'.
• Sometimes you get, and sometimes you get got.
• The biggest troublemaker you'll probably ever have to deal with, watches you from the mirror every mornin'.
• Always drink upstream from the herd.
• Good judgment comes from experience, and a lotta that comes from bad judgment.
• Lettin' the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than puttin' it back in.
• If you get to thinkin' you're a person of some influence, try orderin' somebody else's dog around.
• Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly, and leave the rest to God.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

another song in my head

The last few days a Bob Marley song has been stuck in my head.  "Don't worry, about a thing.  Cause every little things- gonna be alright."  Most of the songs that pop into my head, I spend the rest of the day trying to get out.  This one, I am trying to keep in.

Rise up this mornin',

Smiled with the risin' sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin' sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Sayin', This is my message to you-

Singin': "Don't worry 'bout a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right."
Singin': "Don't worry 'bout a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

adult children

This week has been a good week for my adult children.  Do you ever stop worrying about them?  My oldest is so dog gone independent, I often don't hear form her for weeks at a time.  I have to text her and ask if she is still alive.  Daughter #2 sold her car, bought a car, took care of all the paperwork, and survived the DMV.  Son in Kentucky is now gainfully employed in two jobs.

I have always believed in work.  It sounds a little boring, but if you can get a job and hold a job, you can solve your other life problems on the nights and weekends.  Today, for the first time in a long time, all three of my kids are in the saddle, 40 hours per week.  For some reason, as a father, that makes me very happy.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

enjoying it

Where ever you live - do you enjoy it?  Do you make time and  take time to sit in a chair and enjoy your home or apartment?  Or are we so busy doing something that we never take time to rest.

Some spend their free time with the tv or playing video games.  Again, we have missed a chance to rest and enjoy life.

A friend was looking for silence - he was looking to find the place where his heart would find God.  He could not do it.  His mind was so full of the things that he had to  do.

Don't be so busy with life that you forget to live.  Don't be so busy with things that don't matter that the things that do matter just pass you by.

Remember the sabbath day to keep it holy is about more than Sundays. It is a reminder from the good Lord that we all need rest.

Take a break.  Sit in a chair.  Put your feet up.  Give thanks for whatever God has given you.  Relax.  Breathe deep.  See it.  Sense it.  Appreciate it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

manipulation

Manipulate, manipulation.  Ugh - one of my least favorite words.  Having grown up around the church I have seen it all.  People taught to praise God in certain ways.  People taught certain things to keep them passive and in submission to the church.  Guilt.  Shame.  Guilt. Yeuch.

When people are being manipulative they don't take questions.  In fact, questions are not allowed by manipulators.  Behavioral expectations are made clear and anyone that chooses to live outside of those expectations is severely punished or shunned.

The church should not be a place of manipulation.  The church should be a place where our differences are celebrated.  Where disagreement is welcomed.  After all, we only learn from people who are different than we are.

Please feel free to ask any questions that you have, anytime.  If you expect people to trust you, you must live by a policy of full disclosure.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

more on the hard parts and the good parts

What is required of us is that we love the difficult and learn to deal with it. In the difficult are the friendly forces, the hands that work on us. Right in the difficult we must have our joys, our happiness, our dreams: there against the depth of this background, they stand out, there for the first time we see how beautiful they are.”               

 —  Rainer Maria Rilke

Given the choice, would you rather turn the cheek or strike back?  Given the choice would you rather work for what you have, or have it all given to you?  Take someone else’s flat screen TV, or work for your own?  Would you rather take up a cross, or wear a crown? 

Can we wear the crown without taking up our cross?  The two a day practices for the football team is what makes game night so rewarding.  The studying and working to fix a car yourself makes the driving of it all the more joyful.   The rehab after surgery makes me appreciate that shoulder in ways that I never did before.  The sacrifices that one makes for their family sets the stage for great moments later.

Life.  It is good.  All of it.  The hard parts and the good parts.  It is all one big beautiful canvas that God gives us to paint on.

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to see the good.

the hard part

Yesterday I wrote about the good part.  I think I inadvertently shortchanged the hard part.  Think about it – life is a journey, not a destination.  The good parts are good, but the hard parts are good too.  Sure, it was hard to save the money, but doesn’t it feel good to engage yourself in something that matters?  Sure it was hard to dig the hole for that tree, but doesn’t if feel good to sweat?  And the long drive to the vacation spot – isn’t there some beautiful scenery along the way?

We will always enjoy the good parts of life.  I hope that we get better at enjoying the hard parts of life, because they are part of life too.  Who would want to lay on their death bed and not know what it was like to put in 50 hours a week for forty years?  In some ways, in many ways yet undiscovered, the hard parts too, are the good parts of life.

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to see the good.

the good part

I know that today is the ten year anniversary of 9-11.  I am intentionally not writing about it, because I do not want the rest of our lives to be dominated by an act of hatred.  With that said, I offer today's post:

Sometimes in life there is the hard part, and then there is the good part.  The good part is what comes as a result of your hard work.  We have to remember during the hard times, that the good part is coming.  I always tried to teach my kids – work first, play second.

And so, we go on a long drive to arrive somewhere.  We save money to make a purchase, and then we enjoy it, debt free.  We struggle through college, and get a degree.  We dig a hole to plant a tree, and then sit in the shade.

Almost every good part has a hard part that comes with it.  You can’t have one without the other.  That is what makes the good part the good part.  The moment of rest that you come to when you know your labor is done,  and it was worth it.  Savor the good moments, they are the fruit of your labor.

It’s a beautiful day in God’s world, be sure to see the good.