general Jeff update

So I had a wonderful visit last weekend with my buddy Roger.  Oh my, it was fantastic.  While he was here I got a call from the construction company to go to Omaha for a few weeks.  So I spent part of Easter Sunday travelling.

For my friends at the Ft Pierce First United Methodist Church, I probably will not be back til May 20.  Omaha, then Kansas City... then back to Florida.

In the Atlanta airport I had to change terminals so I rode the train.  When the train stopped, the door opened and a few of us were trying to get off.  A group of four young people were trying to get in.  There was literally no where for anyone to go because they were blocking the square feet right in front of the door.  Maybe I shouldn't have said anything, but I said, "can you wait until we get off of the train."  The young woman said, "go around."

Now I am typing this 4 hours later and I still feel the hurt of that encounter.  Tell me if I am wrong, but when my parents raised me, you let other people get off, and get out of the way, then you entered.  I was put off by the attitude, and by the disrespect for an old person.  [me.]

OMG I just made it about me!  I am so good at that.

So I was sitting at the bar in Atlanta waiting for my flight to storm ridden Kansas City.  The people on either side had paid their bill and left.  The bills were sitting there on the counter for anyone to see.  One left a $2 tip on a $30 bill the other left $1.10 on a $16.90 bill.  I was annoyed.  I gave the server $10 when she came to pick up the bills.

Anyway, the moral of the story goes back to what it always goes back to.  How we treat each other matters.  Grace and kindness leaves a sweet spot.  Rude behavior leaves a mark as well.

We only go around once in this life.  We have only one chance to live this day.  Leave a positive mark.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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someone remembers you

This came in from Carlotta Belcher, my mother in law.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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awesome quote from Bruce

 aha!!!!!  I love it!!!

"I don't know anything about consciousness.  I just try to teach my students how to hear the birds sing."

Shunryu Suzuki Roshi

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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joke day

In the Eastern Orthodox Church, the day after Easter is joke day.  They tell jokes because on Easter, Jesus pulled the wool over Satan's eyes.  He got the best of the devil. [now you know that I don't believe that the devil is the opposite of God, but I am just going to let them keep their metaphor.]  In fact, I am going to join in.  Today is joke day.  Let's enjoy.

Here is a smattering of my favorite jokes
Two cheese trucks were in a collision. One turned on it's side and split open. Debris was everywhere. [De Bris, the bree]

My friend was in a side swipe accident. He lost his left arm and left leg.
He's all right now.

When does a joke become a Dad joke?
When it becomes apparent.

Did you know that a Florida Alligator can grow up to 12 feet???
But most of them only have four.

A toothless termite walks into a bar and asks "is the bartender here?"

A pair of jumper cables walk into the bar.  The bartender says, "I'll serve you, but don't start anything."

Well we could go on and on, but if you catch one little smile today from a joke that you know, give thanks to God because Jesus is the Victor and we can all rest easy today. He is risen!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Happy Easter

Easter brings many memories for me.  When I was three years old, I got a deck of Casper the Friendly Ghost playing cards in my Easter Basket.   We went to egg hunts every year in Kirkwood park.  We ate big Easter meals and finished them off with a piece of lamb cake. [white cake baked in a lamb shaped pan.] We never missed church, ever, when I was growing up. In fact, I believe that I have been in church every Easter Sunday for 67 years.

Today, we will make new memories.  Time spent with families, traditions exercised, relationships renewed.   And church.   May you find this day, a blessing from your worship.   May the prayers prayed, the words spoken and the songs sung, bless you.  May you feel the joy of life with God.   May the resurrection speak to you of the hope that we have in Christ.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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seeing the good

Three years ago, a friend of mine from church was diagnosed with bladder cancer.  After surgery, radiation and immunotherapy, the cancer had metastasized to the bones and there was not much left to do.  There was one possible final treatment, but the doctors warned that it could make you really sick. My friend decided to forgo the last treatment and just enjoy the time he has left.

I see him from time to time at church and he is in a very good place.   Although he has months to live, he has a great attitude.   He stopped me on the way into church last week to explain why he cries at church. "He said, it is not that I am sad, no far from it. I am happy.  I am alive like never before!  When I open my eyes I see things like I never have in the past.  The colors are so beautiful and vibrant.  I have such an appreciation for newfound thoughtful, loving, caring friends.  I am so grateful for life and for the gift of each day."

I find this to be an amazing witness to the power of God's work in the world and the power of the choices that we have to see the good regardless of circumstances.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Good Friday

Good Friday is proof that God loves us.

To willingly make a sacrifice for the benefit of others is a sign of love.  Good parents do it for their children.  Friends make sacrifices for each other.

Jesus gives himself up.  It shows the immense depth and width of God's love for us.

That is why they call it Good.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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ages and changes

When I was young, I knew everything.

In my 40s, I started having questions.

In my 50s, I accepted the questions and started to explore them.

In my 60s, I looked at other answers. I even questioned the value of my questions.

Now I recognize that part of the value of my life is recognizing that I don’t know everything. I no longer need certainty. I am totally comfortable enjoying the mystery of life.

I can accept people and love them just as they are, whether they meet my expectations or not.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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speaking peace

I had the opportunity the other day to speak a little bit of peace into the life of another human.  This is someone that I have worked for doing handyman work.  I have helped her off and on for years.

Some of my customers I am very close with, others it is more like I am an employee.  This particular person always seemed a bit distant to me.  I am fine with that.  I want people to be comfortable and to welcome me into their lives as they see fit.

Well last week when I got to her house for a job, she was having a meltdown.  She saw me and started to cry.  She apologized and then rambled off a pretty good list of problems.

I gave her a hug.  I told her that it would be all right.  Afterall, it will be alright.  It was a beautiful opportunity to speak peace into the life of another human.

A good word at the right time is good stuff.  Good for them and good for you.  To speak hope into another human's life is a wonderful thing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I prayed today...

I got a note from a dear friend the other day.  It said, among other things, "I have been praying for ways to show God's love to someone in a tangible way."

Oh, I loved that.  To make a conscious decision in the morning to look for someone to care about.  To devote a part of one's brain to be on the look out for the needs of other humans.

Well done.

That is why we are here.  

May we all work harder to spend the time to look for and find, to look for and see the needs in the world around us.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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act or react

Some of the memes that I see, I am not sure of the source, but I love this one...

I don't know who said it, but I totally agree.  It may even be 5% of what happens to you vs 95% of your response.

On the stage of life we are all actors or reactors.  Reactors [as the name implies] react to things without thinking.

Actors on the stage of life, on the other hand, they step back, they take a deep breath, they remember who they are, they remember who they want to be and then they act.  They act out of the best of who they are.

Which kind of person do you want to be???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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dreams

I dream.  I dream in color.  I dream almost every night.  The story of the Stone Chapel was a dream that I had on Tuesday night last week.

I dream about church, I dream about people, I dream about all kinds of things.  The human mind is an amazing thing.

I have gone to bed with a problem and found the solution, in a dream!

I had a class in college in which they told us to write down our dreams.  Put a pen and paper by the bed and write your dream the moment that you wake up.  

It is amazing how much happens in a dream and how easily it is to forget them.

Whatever your dreams are for this life, keep after them.  It is never too late.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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The Stone Chapel, Pt. 2

The skies were blue and the sun was out.  It was a bright spring day.  The pear trees that lined the road to the Stone Chapel were in full bloom.  In the north garden, Pam and Jim were pulling weeds.  

The doors to the Chapel stood open and the sounds of the children's choir poured out into the church yard.

At the labyrinth, Trevor walked the lines, thinking about his life.  Joan and Mike sat on the bench, waiting their turn.

Daffodils and tulips were shouting to the glory of God.  The green grass was freshly mowed.  

The atmosphere around the Stone Chapel was electric.  On Sunday morning, the pews were filled and the foyer was aglow with handshakes and hugs.

The atmosphere was self perpetuating.  

THE END...

Now, what is the difference between this story and yesterday's?  You.  People.  People that care.  People that take pride in their church.  People that love and value their church.  Never doubt that a few committed people can make a difference in their church.  In fact, it is the only thing that can.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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The Stone Chapel, Pt 1

The day was cold and overcast.  The Stone Chapel was closed.  The doors had been locked for a long time.  Cracks in the sidewalk sported weeds.  Next to the Chapel, the labyrinth had not been walked in years.  The one remaining bench was rotten and it leaned precariously to the left.  The old chapel was so neglected that it created it's own weather.  

Something is missing.  Do you know what it is?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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what do you want from me?

In the old days, I used to meet people for breakfast or lunch.  Sometimes happy hour.  My purpose was innocent.  I just wanted to get to know them.  I wanted them to know that they were valued.

I remember a couple of times when people were suspicious.  It was like they were waiting for me to ask them to serve on a committee or give money for something.

Friends, we need to learn to value people for simply who they are.  I don't need anything.  I don't want anything.  

Maybe I just want to love you.

Let's have breakfast or lunch.  What do you say???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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cow jokes

So I got into a texting banter the other night with a friend.  It was a back and forth about cow jokes...

Someone once told me to lighten up the blog from time to time [like my Delorean] so here we go.

What do you call a cow with no legs... ground beef.

What do you call a cow with two legs shorter than the others... lean beef.

What did the momma cow say to her calf... it's pasture bed time.

Why did the cow win an award?  She was out standing in her field.

What happened when the cow jumped over the barbed wire fence?   Utter disaster.

What did the momma buffalo say to her boy as he left for school in the morning?  Bye-son!!!

[if you want more serious writing, please send me some questions that I can chase]

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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crazy versions

I was visiting with a friend the other day about the many versions of Christianity.  I don't know about you, but I usually just go about thinking that Christians are kind of, mostly the same.

This could not be further from the truth.

There are many crazy versions of Christianity.  Some Christians speak in tongues.  Some of these groups insist that without this practice, you cannot go to heaven.  Some Christian groups will pray over you and cast out evil spirits.  Some Christians handle snakes.  No thanks!  Mormon's believe that there is Mother God as well as a God the father.  They have lots of children to provide bodies for the "spirit babies" that the Gods are producing.  On and on the list could go.  

Why do I bring this up?  Just be normal please.  Just love people and don't get lost in speculative crazy doctrines.

If God is love, that is what we need to focus on and how we should spend our time and efforts.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Roger

I met Roger in 1991?  I was assigned to the Princeton UMC.  Does anyone from Princeton still read this blog?  I am not sure.

Anyway, for me, Roger was a great friend at first sight.  Roger has a great sense of humor, a great work ethic, and a recognizable voice.  We hung out all the time in Princeton.  After I moved away, we saw each other from time to time [like my Delorean]  but after a bit, we lost touch. 

Then when Scott was injured 3 years ago, Roger and his wife Kathy, saw the post on my blog or Facebook.  

I will never forget, I was sitting on the back porch watching TV about 8pm and I got a call from a number that I did not recognize.  I answered the call.  There was that recognizable voice.  My heart was immediately happy.

Do you have people in your life that make you immediately happy to hear from???  I hope so!!!

Anyway, Roger, it turns out was working just north of Jacksonville, Fl.  A few weeks later, I drove up to see him.  We had a wonderful visit.

After not seeing each other for years,  one of the things that he said to me on that visit was this... "my life is better with Jeff Brinkman in it."  Wow did that make me feel great.  I would say the same about him.

Roger is coming to visit in a few weeks.  I cannot wait.  

I thank God for the people who make our lives better.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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out of prison

On Monday last week, I was in Miami.  I was waiting at a job site for a city inspector to come by and give a final inspection approval so the store could open.

The door was unlocked for the inspector's visit, but the store was not open officially.

Every 15 minutes someone would walk in the door and I had to explain to them that the store was not open.  I got some interesting responses... "well then why is the door unlocked?"  When will you open?  Sure looks like you are open...

Anyway, two young men came in looking for work.  I had to explain to them that I did not work for the store.  I also had to explain to them that I had no power to hire for the construction company that I was here representing.

One young man was begging for a job.  He said, "I just got out of prison.  I am trying to stay on the straight and narrow."

I felt for him.  I felt his desperation.  I congratulated him on not being in prison.  We shook hands.  He left.

Wow... the next time I think that I have problems, at least I am not and have not been in prison.  But for the grace of God go we.  May we be mindful of the least of these.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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think first, think harder

When I was a teenager, there was a poster that said, "be sure to engage brain before putting mouth into gear."

These days, I think that it is important to do just that.  

Don't be in a hurry.  Don't go off in a huff.  Don't react or overreact to whatever has come your way.  Think carefully before you do that.  Read both sides of the news.

Our best decisions are not made on impulse, but after careful, prayerful thought. I am the most proud of my life when I step back, take a deep breath, remember who I am, and then make a decision or take an action.

I hate going to bed when I know that I missed it.  I love going to bed at night when my decisions reflect who I really want to be.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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seeing the good

In response to my post a few days ago about seeing the good, my friend Mary sent in this picture.  I wonder how many people walked past this tree and paid no attention to this cardinal?  

Life feels better when we stop and see the good.  There are so many things out there to enjoy and appreciate if we but pay attention.  

Today, maybe take a moment.  Slow down, or better yet, stop in your tracks and look to see what you might have been missing.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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don't change

Love.  True love.  It loves you, just the way that you are.

In far too many relationships, love comes with conditions.

I love you, but.  I will love you when you start this or I will love you when you stop doing that.

Love does not demand conditions of people.  Love does not try to control.  Love just loves.

I love you the way that you are... don't change.  Don't change unless you want to do so.  

No conditions.  I just love you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Helping others

I believe in helping others.  I believe that it is better to help one time too many than one time not enough.  In other words, I would rather help so many, that from time to time I was taken advantage of, instead of withholding help and letting legitimate needs go unmet.

Recently I have become aware of a need at our church.  A young woman was diagnosed with a brain tumor.  She is from a family that works hard.  Fortunately, the tumor was benign and she is expected to be ok.  But there will be bills.

I have chosen to help the family by making a payment on their medical bills.  I asked a good friend if I should ask for others to help through the blog.  They weren't sure if it was a good idea or not.  

So, I don't want to put anyone on the spot.  I will just put it out there this way... if you are interested in learning more about the situation, send me an email at jsbrink57@gmail.com

If you choose to help or not help, that is totally fine.  I love you just the way that you are.  And honestly, there are tons of other needs out there.  This one just spoke to me for some reason.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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April 1st

Happy April Fools Day.  I have no jokes to share today.  I overdid it a few years ago and I hurt some of my friends.

I don't want to hurt people.

Over the years I have learned that not everyone "gets" or appreciates my sense of humor.  I totally understand that.  Some times I don't know where it all comes from.

Anyway, if you need some humor today, I hope that you find it.  Text me and I will tell you a joke.  But I won't be hurting anyone through a blog post today.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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3 kinds of churches

To begin with...  Happy Birthday Tyler!!!

Now on to today's post...

My friend Bill Carpenter has always said that there are three kinds of churches:  Growing, Stagnant and Declining.  Each has their own unique set of problems.  

Which set of problems do you want to have at your church?

Well I am so excited for the Fort Pierce First United Methodist Church.  Yesterday we received 12 new members.  That is amazing!  That is huge!

In the 8 years that I have been attending, nothing like this has happened.  Good things are happening all around.  Pastor Tim Barton is doing a fabulous job.  

It is exciting to be a part of a church that is doing a lot of things right.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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How soon we forget

My eight year old grand niece, the daughter of my niece was here to visit for a week.  Oh my how she loved the sunshine, the palm trees and the beach!!!

She is from Kansas City, so she doesn't get to see those things so much.  

We tend to enjoy the things that seem new to us.  

And this is a bit of an insult to the amazing things that we get used to.  We get used to the beach, to the sunlight and to the palm trees...

We should always see the things around us as amazing.  My niece found her visit to be wonderful and amazing.  May we pay enough attention that we are always grateful for whatever is around us.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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not my way

That thing did not go my way. I was perturbed. I was upset.

Thank God that we usually feel better after we get some time to process things.  That is why it is almost always better to say nothing when you are having your first reaction to something.

I must remind myself: "Sometimes in life you get what you want and sometimes in life you get what you get."

And I also remind myself of this quote:

This is the true joy in life,

the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one;

the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap…

and being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod

of ailments and grievance,

complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.

George Bernard Shaw

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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It's closer than you think

In order to see the good, sometimes you have to look really hard.  Sometimes you have to look at the microscopic.  Sometimes you have to see what is commonly overlooked.

And sometimes seeing the good is just perched on your front door step.  It is right there if we just open our eyes.

This is what was hanging out on our front porch the other day, mid day...  front porch security.

two sand hill cranes

protected by Brink's sand hill cranes

Right there for the seeing if anyone was looking.  What beauty is hanging out very close to you?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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feel good about being you

 

So I was watching the Netflix series "Adolescence."  I found it to be very good and also very painful.  Here is a quote from the series... "All kids really need is one thing that makes them feel okay about themselves."

Great.  True.  And let me add to that... All most anyone needs is one thing that helps them to feel good about themselves.

May we do all that we can to help others feel good about themselves.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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If I want something from you...

Anthony Demello was a Catholic priest who died in 1986 at the age of 56. His ideas challenge me to be a more faithful Christian.

One of the things that he said was, “if I want something from you, it’s not love.” I have been stuck on this idea for years. It runs so contrary to everything we were taught, but it also explains so much.

It explains why selfish “love” only ends up hurting people. I love you because you do something for me. I love you because you fill the aching gap in my heart. I love you because I don’t want to be alone. I love you because you make me feel good. All of this is selfish love.

Do you hear the “me” in all of that? How can love be like that? All centered around me? It isn’t. True love is self-giving. True love invests in others. True love is more interested in your joy that in my own. True love finds its joy in your joy. True love hugs you because you matter, not because I need the hug. True love gives people room to grow. It does not push them too hard. It does not force them into a square hole. True love wants to bless others. It divests itself of it’s stuff for the benefit of others. Those who love are in love with love, not in love with stuff.

Gosh, talking about love is so cool. Why is that? Why is it, that when I write or think about love, I am happy? I am full. Why? Because God is love.

If you find yourself loving people in ways that wants to take from them, try a different approach. See yourself as full, able and caring. Receive the gift of the spirit of love. Then just go and care about others. Anyone, anywhere, anytime.

That’s why we are here. God is love, and we really are the happiest when we are about his business.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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bad things happen part 2

Yesterday's post reminded me of this story.

This is an old story, told in many versions, in many books about life and it's difficulties.

The story is about a little boy walking along the bank of a river. He sees a crocodile who is trapped in a net. The crocodile says, "Would you have pity on me and release me? I may look ugly, but it isn't my fault, you know. I was made this way. But whatever my external appearance, I have a mother's heart. I came this morning in search of food for my young ones and got caught in this trap!"

So the boy says, "Ah, if I were to help you out of that trap, you'd grab me and kill me."

The crocodile asks, "Do you think I would do that to my benefactor and liberator?"

So the boy is persuaded to take the net off and the crocodile grabs him.

As he is being forced between the jaws of the crocodile, he says, "So this is what I get for my good actions." And the crocodile says, "Well, don't take it personally, son, this is the way the world is, this is the law of life."

The boy disputes this, so the crocodile says, "Do you want to ask someone if it isn't so?"

The boy sees a bird sitting on a branch and says, "Bird, is what the crocodile says right?" The bird says, "The crocodile is right. Look at me. I was coming home one day with food for my fledglings. Imagine my horror to see a snake crawling up the tree, making straight for my nest. I was totally helpless. It kept devouring my young ones, one after the other. I kept screaming and shouting, but it was useless. The crocodile is right, this is the law of life, this is the way the world is."

"See," says the crocodile. But the boy says, "Let me ask someone else." So the crocodile says, "Well, all right, go ahead."

There was an old donkey passing by on the bank of the river. "Donkey," says the boy, "this is what the crocodile says. Is the crocodile right?"

The donkey says, "The crocodile is quite right. Look at me. I've worked and slaved for my master all my life and he barely gave me enough to eat. Now that I'm old and useless, he has turned me loose, and here I am wandering in the jungle, waiting for some wild beast to pounce on me and put an end to my life. The crocodile is right, this is the law of life, this is the way the world is."

"See," says the crocodile. "Let's go!"

The boy says, "Give me one more chance, one last chance. Let me ask one other being. Remember how good I was to you?" So the crocodile says, "All right, your last chance."

The boy sees a rabbit passing by, and he says, "Rabbit, is the crocodile right?"

The rabbit sits on his haunches and says to the crocodile, "Did you say that to that boy? The crocodile says, "Yes, I did." "Wait a minute," says the rabbit. "We've got to discuss this." "Yes," says the crocodile. But the rabbit says, "How can we discuss it when you've got that boy in your mouth? Release him; he's got to take part in the discussion, too." The crocodile says, "You're a clever one, you are. The moment I release him, he'll run away." The rabbit says, "I thought you had more sense than that. If he attempted to run away, one slash of your tail would kill him."

"Fair enough," says the crocodile, and he released the boy. The moment the boy is released, the rabbit says, "Run!" And the boy runs and escapes. Then the rabbit says to the boy, "Don't you enjoy crocodile flesh? Wouldn't the people in your village like a good meal? You didn't really release that crocodile; most of his body is still caught in that net. Why don't you go to the village and bring everybody and have a banquet."

That's exactly what the boy does. He goes to the village and calls all the men folk. They come with their axes and staves and spears and kill the crocodile. The boy's dog comes, too, and when the dog sees the rabbit, he gives chase, catches hold of the rabbit, and throttles him. The boy comes on the scene too late, and as he watches the rabbit die, he says, "The crocodile was right, this is the way the world is, this is the law of life."

There is no explanation you can give that would explain away all the sufferings and evil and torture and destruction and hunger in the world! You'll never explain it. You can try gamely with your formulas, religious and otherwise, but you'll never explain it. Because life is a mystery, which means your thinking mind cannot make sense out of it.

We want to resist a story like this because we prefer certainty over ambiguity. We want a God that makes sense instead of a God that we have to trust. We want a God that we can control instead of a God that is in control. We want circumstances to go our way. Sometimes they do, and sometimes they don't. It is the way of the world. Trust God anyway.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Murder

A murder took place in our front yard a couple of nights ago.  These are the before pictures:

I won't show you the after pictures.  But let's just say that you cannot lose that many feathers and that much plumage and still be amongst the living.

It's kind of sad, because we get used to the ducks being in the front yard.  My neighbor actually feeds them in his garage.  Well, he feeds one less than he used to.

Bobcat?  Coyote?  Fox?  We don't know. But if you come to visit, don't let your ducks or your small pets out of your sight.

The way of the world can be very brutal.  Sometimes bad things happen.  That is just how it is.  And yet with all of the struggle....

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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just this one scripture

Tomorrow I am speaking at the Ft. Pierce First United Methodist Church.  I guess if you are reading this on Sunday, then it is today.

The scripture for the day is from Mt 5.  If you are offering your gift at the altar and remember that you have something against your brother...  

well... stop... leave the altar.  First go and make amends with your brother.  Then go offer your gift.

What if this was the only scripture passage that we had???  What would the Christian faith look like???  Go make amends before you act out in religious ways...

That is some pretty important stuff.

For far too long, we have allowed the larger church, the denominations to shape the flavor of our faith.  It is time that we start looking at the amazing scriptures that we have and allowing them to speak into our daily lives.

What if the only passage of scripture that we have instructs us to work it out with our brothers and sisters before we act out in religious ways?  Fix it with your brother before you declare doctrine???

Love comes first.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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first world problem

First world, second world, third world. We are most acquainted with the notion of the "third world." What is the first and second world?

The first world designation refers to the United States and its allies, all highly modern, developed, free countries. The second world used to refer to our opponents in the cold war, the Soviet Union and its allies of communist countries, all trying to catch up to us in some way or another.

The third world was every other country after that. Little places around the globe where there was little development and massive human problems.

So what is a first world problem? A first world problem is anything that annoys us, that the rest of the world would either laugh at or not understand at all. here are some examples:

"I had to wait 15 minutes to get my Starbucks" first world problem [the rest of the world doesn't have Starbucks]

"gas is $3.40 per gallon" first world problem [the rest of the world pays $6/gallon]

"my daughters car has another problem!" first world problem [most daughters around the world, don't have cars]

"my flight was delayed" first world problem "most of the world will never fly on a plane"

"my mom died at 62" [my mom really did by the way] first world problem [the average life span in Mozambique is 42]

My air conditioning is out. first world problem. no explanation needed.

I bought a new TV this week.  A really big one.  I got it hung on the wall and the sound didn't work.  Umm... I have to work with Amazon to get it returned and to order a new one.  First world problem.

God is a global citizen. He stands with every human being, every human being, every human being. Isaiah 66:1 "Heaven is his throne, the earth is his footstool." Do we live as if every person in the world is our brother and sister? Isn't it easy to get caught up in our problems, that really are, in the long run, very trivial by world standards? When I remember this, I get a little bit less worked up when I get a flat tire on my car, or when my new TV doesn't work.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Patricia's habit

I have a lot of email and blog friends.  Patricia sent this to me the other day...

On the subject of praying, I have discovered a way to focus and give a brief prayer. My employer requires our work computer’s passwords to be 15 characters or more long. I pick a few words out of the Bible or a hymn, add numbers for the chapter and/or verse, and throw in a punctuation mark. When I type the password to begin a new workday, my heart sings!

I love that... what a great idea... imagine that your new password is Ephesians2.10!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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From my friend Brian

From my morning devotional “Jesus’s instructions on loving one another applies not just to our friends but to us too. It’s tempting but wrongheaded to wield out-of-context lines from Scripture to bolster arguments. Better, in any relationship, is to jointly seek loving, God-honoring, rational accord.” The prayer at the end was “Lord, keep me from using-and thus abusing-Your words out of context to win arguments.” Patty Kirk, author & teacher. Couldn’t have said it better myself. In fact, I couldn’t have said it as well.

Comments from Jeff... 

It is one thing to  quote scripture in a theological debate.  It is quite another to use it in a discussion involving relationships.  To quote scripture to a spouse or a child to get them to change their behavior... well, I find it manipulative and inappropriate.  It smacks of top down, blaming and shaming in order to get things to go one's way.

Love does not treat people this way.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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A gift from her Dad

My friend Kathy shared this comic strip with me.  Her dad had given it to her over 30 years ago.  She has held it dearly.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thank you

Sunday I mentioned again, again, that our Christianity can be measured by how we treat people in the service industry.

A friend shared this story with me a few years ago...

On my way to work this morning, I stopped by Starbucks for my fix. As always, my mind was on what I needed to do for the day and what I wanted to accomplish. Leaving my car, I encountered a city sanitation worker stabbing trash with a fork and bagging it up. I honestly don't know where my words came from...I usually go on about my business. But this time, I stopped and said..." thank you for your work, I really appreciate what you are doing."  I have no idea why I said that to a perfect stranger. I walked on down the sidewalk. Next, I heard.. "Hey.. come back here"  Turning around, the guy said to me..."Nobody ever said that to me before.. thanks".

Like I said.. I am usually about MY OWN business.  But at that moment, I felt like the day was worth living because maybe I made it better for someone.  But later on, I decided that the incident did much more for me than it did for the trash man.  Maybe I was about ANOTHER business and didn't even know it.  Maybe I had already accomplished what I was supposed to do for the day. Hmmmmm...

Who can you reach for and care about today?

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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St. Patrick's Day

So on St. Patrick's Day, everyone is Irish. I have actually done the Ancestry.com testing and I am about 10% Irish and about 20% Scottish.  Before my beard turned gray, it was red.

My friend Dave will not do Ancestry.com because he does not want his children to be identified via his genetic profile in the chance that they commit a crime.

Back to St. Patrick's Day. Today is the day when I always remember that famous Irishman who invented outdoor tables and chairs. Do you remember his name???




This is a hint...




The name of the Irishman who invented outdoor tables and chairs?    Paddy O Furniture.

And don't forget his brother in law, the bullet proof Irishman...

Rick O'Shay

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Last time

Today is my last Sunday to speak at Blue Springs First UMC.  I gave three sermons in January and today is my third and last in March.

I have enjoyed so very much the opportunity to preach.  I thank Pastor Chris Able for the invite, Pastor Colin Brown for the referral and Pastor Aaron Brown for the positive encouragement.

It is interesting to talk with a group of people "for the last time."  What do you say when you want to leave with your best message?

Tomorrows message is...

1. Wake up to life.
2. Appreciate what is around you.
3. Be grateful.
4. Enjoy/celebrate.

My we all get better at those 4 things.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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from my friend Bruce

this says it all...  kind of sums up my out look on life...

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3.14

My friend Joyce introduced me to Pi day March 14th... 3/14   3.14

So I guess that you can blame what comes next on her...




What do you call a snake that is 3.14159 feet long? A Pi-thon.

Why should you never start talking to pi at a party?

Because it just goes on forever.

What was Sir Isaac Newton’s favorite dessert? Apple pi.

What’s wrong with the equation 'pi r squared?'

Pi are round. Cake are square.

What did the students say about their Euclidean geometry test?

It was easy as pi.

What did pi say when someone asked if it could explain what Pi Day was again?

"I don't want to repeat myself."

Did you know? That 3.14% of sailors are Pi-rates? [my favorite]

What do you get when you divide a jack-o-lantern by its diameter?

Pumpkin pi.

How many bakers does it take to bake a pi? 3.14.

Why shouldn’t you eat too much pi?

You’ll end up with a big circumference.

What do you get when a bunch of sheep stand around in a circle?

Shepherd's pi.

What do you get when you take the sun and divide its circumference by its diameter?

Pi in the sky.

Why did pi fail its driving test? Because it didn’t know when to stop.

Happy Pi Day!!!


It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.


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it can be hard to share the love

When your heart and mind is filled with doubt and guilt there is no room for love there.  When your heart was taught in a repressive upbringing that you are bad and sinful, if that is what you believe in your heart, then it is hard to share the love.

It is only when we come to believe deep down that God loves us, can we really move to love others.  Guilt begets suffering.  Only love begets love.

If you want to be a person that shares love, lose the guilt and the unworthy feelings and come to believe that God loves you.  You will be glad that you did, and so will everyone else that you come into contact with.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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a great find

A pastor friend of mine, Jeff Posegate posted this on Facebook.  Handwritten by his mother, Marion Posegate on the front cover of her copy of her daily devotional book in 2018:  "We are how we treat others.  Nothing more."

I totally love that.  We are how we treat others.  Nothing more.  I am going to steal it and use it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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follow up/correction

As a follow up from yesterday's post.  I got a note from a friend who offered a gracious correction or redirect from my post yesterday.

Yesterday I mentioned that one way to get out of the dumps was to think of those who love you.  My friend wrote in to remind me that "while thinking of friends and loved ones may help us get out of the dumps, there is a more important thing in play regarding them."

And that is that they are not there simply to help us feel good.  They are also there as the object of our love.  In fact, it is our purpose to love others.  We do not love others simply so we might feel better, we love others because that is why we are here on this earth.

But, let's agree, when we do love others and show care, it almost always makes us feel better.

"A new commandment I give unto you.  Love one another."  This is our life purpose.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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when you are in the dumps

I was having lunch with a friend last week.  A fantastic human.  We were talking about how easy it is to get "down" when your kids move out and move away.  We talked about how we need to actively work to keep a positive attitude.

I think that there are some basic things that we can do when we are feeling down.

First of all, recognize that you waking up this morning is a blessing.  Not everyone woke up today.  So be thankful for the gift of this day.  Second, to the extent that you can, be thankful that you are in mostly good health.  Health is a blessing that we should not take for granted.  Then think of your friends and the people that love you.  No one loves you, you say?  Well, I love you.  And if you need to talk, call me.  You matter to someone.  Think of those who love you.  Finally, look out at the amazing world that God has given us and be thankful.

When I take stock of the basic blessings that we get every day, it keeps me out of the dumps.  I hope 
that it will do the same for you as well.

1. Thankful for waking up
2. Thankful for health
3. Thankful for friends
4. Thankful for the gift of this amazing world.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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wrong, continued

I posted on this a few days ago, but I keep thinking about it.  How do we know when we are wrong?  Do we even care?  I think that there are some people that will never admit that they are or were wrong.  Some refuse to even consider the possibility that they might be wrong.

But we are all wrong from time to time.  

I think keeping our mind open and listening to others is very important.  I try to make good decisions based on the information that I have, but I am keenly aware that I may be wrong.

I think that we are usually wrong when we hurt people.  I believe we are wrong when we express our opinions in hateful ways.

Are you, am I, willing to consider that we are wrong from time to time?  A humble heart is a good thing to bring to any discussion.  Communication without kind hearts is usually not helpful.  

Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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thoughts on taking a stand

On February 24th, I made a post called "the kingdom comes first."  The post was about the importance in my opinion, of Pastor's keeping their political feelings out of the pulpit.   A friend encouraged me to share in on Facebook, which I did.  

The responses were overwhelmingly positive, but I did have a few folks ask me some questions.  A question that came up a couple of times was this... So when do you think we should take a stand against evil?

It's a great question, because there surely is a time.  Some of my pastor colleagues are chirping now as if Trump is opening gulags and building concentration camps.

50% of you, my readers are Republicans and 50% are Democrats.  I agreed with some of what Clinton did and I disagreed with some.  The same is true of Bush, Obama, Biden and Trump.  I think that it is pretty clear that Trump is going after some things in ways that previous presidents did not.  It is making some people nervous and I personally have mixed feelings about these things.

In my opinion, it is not time for me to get political.  It is not yet time to make a stink.   When the government under any president begins the persecution of Jews or any other minority, believe me, I will stand up.  When dissent begins to be smothered, when the media begins to be controlled, you will hear my voice.  In support of freedom, I will gladly be in the line for a bullet if that is what it comes to.  

But in my opinion, we are a long way from that.  Let's see what happens.  And in the mean time, as the great theologian John Sherley reminds me, let us love one another.  That is why we are here.  Love one another.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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give it some time

There is a story in Acts 5 where the Apostles were peaching in the town square. The Jewish leaders wanted to put them to death, but Gamaliel, a respected man said that they should give it some time.

Acts 5: 34 But a Pharisee named Gamaliel, a teacher of the law, who was honored by all the people, stood up in the Sanhedrin and ordered that the men be put outside for a little while. 35 Then he addressed the Sanhedrin: “Men of Israel, consider carefully what you intend to do to these men. 36 Some time ago Theudas appeared, claiming to be somebody, and about four hundred men rallied to him. He was killed, all his followers were dispersed, and it all came to nothing. 37 After him, Judas the Galilean appeared in the days of the census and led a band of people in revolt. He too was killed, and all his followers were scattered. 38 Therefore, in the present case I advise you: Leave these men alone! Let them go! For if their purpose or activity is of human origin, it will fail. 39 But if it is from God, you will not be able to stop these men; you will only find yourselves fighting against God.”

I am going to make a comment on what is going on with the new administration. Like most of you, some of it I like, some of it I don't.  Some of it I want to be upset about.  A friend reminded me of the above story.  

So, I guess I will give it some time and wait and see. If it is a good thing, it will come to light. If it is a bad thing, well that will be evident as well.

Sometimes it is ok to withhold judgment until we see the end result.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I heard it for the first time

Luke 6: 32 “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

A week ago Sunday, Pastor Tim read this passage. I have, and you have, heard it 100 times. But this time, I heard something that I had not heard before. I mean, I heard it in the past, but it did not register. Sunday, it registered.

Do you see it in verse 35?  He is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked.  WHAT???  I love it.  Kind to even the wicked.  

He doesn't just love the good ones.  His economy is not based on reward and punishment.  He even loves those who are bad, wicked people.

Now that is some love right there.  Maybe we followers, could learn to love even the wicked.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Cinco de Marcho

Yesterday I was telling a friend that I found it odd that Ash Wednesday was also Cinco de Mayo.  They looked at me.  I didn't get it.  Finally they had to point out that Cinco de Mayo is in May.

OH.  Duh.

I was wrong.  I had to change my blog post for today.  Speaking of wrong, I hurt someone last week.  I didn't mean to, but I was only thinking about myself.  Worse actually, I wasn't thinking at all.  I was just reacting to something that was going on and I never thought about how others might be affected.

I apologized.  I think apologizing is good and important to keep healthy relationships.  But what I really wish is that I would have never made the mistake.  I wish that I would have never delivered the hurt.

I am sorry.  Think harder Jeff.  Well, let's try again tomorrow for tomorrow is another day, and it isn't Cinco de Mayo either.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.


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Don't miss the parade

Just so you won't be disappointed...

Please take time to watch the parade today. Many people have gone to great lengths to prepare for this special event.  Your boss will let you off work for it.  Just ask them.

What parade you say?

Today is the day when all of the bands from the local high schools line up downtown and march fourth.

[this was my grandmother's joke, passed on to my mother, then to me and now to you.]

Unfortunately, there are those of you that see this coming every year. Some consider it one of my "signature" jokes. A few would be disappointed if it did not show up on schedule.

If you are catching this little joke for the first time, I hope it makes you smile. Or at least grimace. Grimace. Get it???

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.


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going on a trip

A couple of my friends were going on a trip out of the country.  

Stop right there.  Do we realize how fortunate that we are to be able to travel?  To go from state to state and most countries freely?  Do we realize how fortunate we are to be able to afford such trips?  We should be thankful for that, whether it is a trip to Italy or a trip to Panama City.  Travel is a blessing.

Now my friends were worried about what to take and what not to take.  What if they forgot something?  Then one of them realized... there is nothing to worry about.  If we need something, we can borrow it from another traveler, or we could just buy the thing that we forgot.

Now there is something to be thankful for.  Friends that will loan you what you forgot.  Friends to travel with.  And the ability to buy that thing that you forgot.  

My gosh we are so blessed.  

Dear Lord may we all appreciate how blessed we are.  May it make us gracious, kind, humble and generous.  Amen.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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too much Paul

It is my opinion that the church has built too much of it's doctrine on Paul and not enough on Jesus.  Paul gives crisp statements that are easy to turn into formulas.  Jesus taught basic principles that challenge us to the core.  There is a huge difference.

From Paul, some denominations created "the four spiritual laws." The church used these words to create a formula by which people can be "saved."   Some of their spiritual laws include...

• all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God
• the wages of sin is death
• while we were still sinners, Christ died for us

The problem in my mind with this approach to Christianity is that it has oversimplified the faith and it has elevated belief over a life of following.  It has also made those who follow this type of Christianity into militant, arrogant colonialists instead of people of love.

I wonder what the four spiritual laws according to Jesus might be???

• do unto others as you would have them do unto you
• turn the other cheek
• love one another as I have loved you
• love your neighbor as yourself

How might the world be different, how might our lives be different, if we lived by Jesus' laws instead of the words of Paul.

If the church can learn to live by the principles of Jesus, people may actually want to return to be a part of the church.

We can't control the church or the theologians, but we can control ourselves.

Love one another.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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put the phone away

I texted my friend in the morning about an appointment that we had next week.

I didn’t hear from him all day.  Finally late in the afternoon I called him.  He answered the phone.  I asked him.  "Are you mad at me?"

I was kidding. I knew that he wasn’t mad at me, but I’m thinking "but, you didn’t answer my text."

I asked him, I said,  "I text you this morning. Haven’t heard anything back. Are you mad at me?"
 
He said, "no I’m sorry I haven’t been paying attention to my phone."

STOP!!!  WHAT???  Not paying attention to your phone?

I absolutely love that!  I haven’t been paying attention to my phone. How much more joyful our lives would be if we paid less attention to our phones.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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very well

I have posted this before, but I feel the need to share it again.  Here is a story from Anthony DeMello that I love.  It is a story that challenges me to release my worries...  It reminds us that those who have hurt us really have no power to do so.  In the face of unfairness, we can still come out whole.

VERY WELL, VERY WELL

A village girl became an unwed mother and, after several beatings, revealed to her parents who the
father was: the Zen Master living on the outskirts of the village.

The town was in an uproar.  The villagers trooped into the Master’s house, and rudely disturbed his meditation,
they denounced him as a hypocrite and told him that he must take the baby.  All the Master said was,
“Very well. Very well. ”

He picked the baby up and made arrangements with the woman next door to look after
it at his expense.

His name, of course, was ruined, and his disciples all abandoned him.

When this had gone on for a year, the girl could bear it no longer and confessed that
she had lied. The real father was the boy next door.

The villagers felt terrible.  They had made a mistake.  The went back to the Master's compound.  They bowed profoundly to the Master to beg his pardon and asked to take the
baby back. And all the Master said as he handed back the child was, “Very well. Very
well. ”

What is going on in your life?
What is going on in my life?

Who is mistreating you?
Very well. Very well.

Nothing can hurt you unless you allow it.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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I am leading a trip to Italy in November of this year with Pastor Sherri Swanson.  There is plenty of room and we would love to have you join!!!

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