Give and Take

We have heard this expression of mutual concession.
But as we know....
Some give.
Some take.
Some give and expect nothing.
Some give with expectancy.
Some take and never give.
Some take and give begrudgingly.
And some keep score thinking they are playing by the rules and that is how it is done.

So, which really works?
Which do you choose?

Peace,
Lion's Den Man