Friday, December 31, 2021

They monkey and the coconut

I was sad. Someone called me on it. They said, "Jeff, you look sad."   Well, I was sad.

Sometimes things happen that make us sad. But then I realized I can get glad too.  I can be sad, I can be glad.  My choice.

Difficult, hurtful things are sure to come. They will usually drag us down for a bit. But we have a choice to make. We can stay sad or we can get glad.

Anthony DeMello tells the story of the monkey in the coconut tree.  A man is walking by and the monkey throws a coconut at him, striking him in the head.  The man picks up the coconut, cuts it open, drinks the milk, eats the coconut flesh, feels satisfied, and goes on his way.

Note, the man could complain about the pain to his head.  He could be upset with the monkey's intrusion or attack.  But he chooses to do something different.

He takes the hit and sees the good.  A coconut to the head we all get from time to time.  Don't get stuck there.  See the situation.  Drink the milk, enjoy the rest of the coconut and go on your way.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, if we choose to see it.
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Thursday, December 30, 2021

Joy to the world

A few weeks ago, our family [minus Scott] went to the Disney parks.  I got to see my granddaughter again.  What a cute, delightful little person.

She likes catchup


Baby Bella w Mom Alli


One of the things that touched me in this last picture, is the sheer joy that this child feels.  The red Mickey Mouse bubble machine was the genius of my wife Cathy.  

This is one happy baby!  [16 months now]

We adults should find more joy.  It is all around us.  If we pay attention to the good, we will find the joy.  Jesus told a lot of stories about parties.  We should have more of them.

Don't let the negative parts of life drag you down.  The world is still a bubble machine if we can just get our eyes off of the dirty diapers and focus on the good.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.
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Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Take me to church again

Tyler and I were out to breakfast at the IHOP at 17th and US1. Three older folks came in the other door about the time we entered. They were dressed well and had obviously come from church. I asked them if they had been to church and sure enough they had. I overheard one lady say to her husband in regards to the sermon, “I didn’t understand a word that he said, but I was still glad to be there.”

There is something about going to church. Even if the sermon is off, there is something about being with other people that want to love God. There is something about being in the sanctuary. There is something about the stained glass windows. I believe that holy places speak to us, even if you don't get the sermon.  There is something at church that is bigger than the sermon.

Get back in church and take in the ambiance. God is with you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, December 28, 2021

A short history of the middle east

So the Jewish people invaded the land of Canaan. They say God gave that land to them. That is their version of the story as told in the Bible. But they invaded the land and they pushed out the Canaanites and the Edomites and the Philistines.  Eventually King David comes along and he was the bomb! His son Solomon built a temple in Jerusalem. The kingdom was at its height under David and Solomon, but it did not last. Eventually the people were conquered by the Babylonians and taken to captivity, but after 70 years they came back, rebuilt the temple and re-inhabited the land.

When the Romans came in they took over in 63 BC and conquered the area.  They named the province Judea because it was the land of the Jews. This persisted until the Jews revolted in 70AD.  At that time the Romans expelled the Jews and renamed the province Palestine after the ancient enemy of the Jews - the Philistines.

Today there is a rivalry back-and-forth between the Jews and the Palestinians. Whatever side of this argument you are on, I just want people to be aware that it was called Judea before it was called Palestine.

We are so worked up about this. The world is so worked up about this. Should America give back Arizona and New Mexico to Mexico? Should Russia give back the Crimea to Ukraine?

Life is complicated and Nations take what they want from each other. It has always been this way. Just ask the Sioux, the Apache, the Iroquois, etc.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, December 27, 2021

it is a sacred responsibility

I quoted this podcast few weeks ago, but I am going to hit it again today. The podcast is called "Life's Rough Edges" it is a TED talk featuring Nora McInerny. If you have not listened to it, I highly recommend it.

There is another quote from this talk that I loved and hated...

"It is our sacred responsibility to live full lives and to see the good in the midst of difficult and dark times. But it sucks and we hate it."

What a fantastically true statement. We are supposed to see the good, even in dark times. But it is not easy to do. It is hard to force our selves to see and be the good, but it is our sacred responsibility to others to keep after it.

Don't let the bad things keep you down for very long. Spring up and see the good.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, December 26, 2021

Pick 5 Songs

The Five Songs

My friend John Muller loves music. He told me about when he has his friends over to listen to music. Each one brings a jump drive with five songs for the group. Each in turn introduces his songs and they listen to new/old/good music. I love this idea for a party.

When I am at Bruce’s house we always take turns telling Alexa to play a song. When I am in Florida with my buddy Jeff, we also take turns playing songs. And we throw corn hole bags.

Next time you get together with you friends, instead of playing monopoly or clue, take turns telling Alexa to play your favorite songs.

If you need some suggestions here you go:

Brooks and Dunn – Neon Moon
Pink Floyd – Comfortably Numb
Meat Loaf – Two out of three ain’t bad.
Quiet Riot – Girls Rock your Boys
Van Morrison – Into the Mystic
Foghat – Slow Ride
AC/DC – Thunderstruck
The Beatles –In my life
Steve Miller Band – Fly like an Eagle
Kool and the Gang – Cherish
Eric Clapton –Wonderful Tonight
Louis Armstrong – What a Wonderful World
Lionel Richie – Hello
The Thompson Twins – Hold me now

Let me know how your party goes...

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, December 25, 2021

Is something wrong?

Something is still wrong.

We can't even let ourselves enjoy Christmas because something is wrong.  My kids did not come to Christmas.  The pie did not turn out.  Stressed out relatives got into a fight.  Sometimes it doesn't feel like the most wonderful time of the year.  We are still worried that something is amiss.

Solaris Electric Van in the
background.  Red Kia where
I stopped to make a text.

So I a week ago I working at a CVS in Orlando for my buddy Derek. I am waiting on electricians to pull some cable. The electricians show up and I go to their van to talk with them. Then I start to walk across the parking lot. I stop halfway across to text my boss and let them know that the desired electricians have finally arrived.

I randomly stop by this red Kia to write the text about the electricians showing up. The owner of the car comes out of the store and she thinks that something is wrong. She says to me, “is there something wrong with me parking there?”

Why do we still think, why do we default to “something is wrong?”

Here is the good news. I got to explain to her that nothing is wrong. I told her who I was working for and why I had stopped by her car. She was relieved.

When you or I can assure another person that nothing is wrong, it makes them happy. It relieves them of their worry. Now the next trick is to learn not to worry in the first place.

Nothing is wrong.

By the way, at Christmas God is telling us, nothing is wrong. All is well. No worries. I got you. You are loved.

Merry Christmas!!!  Take it easy.

No worries my friend. God loves you!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, December 24, 2021

God's Christmas Message

Most Christians that I know of would tell you that between the two, Easter and Christmas, that Easter is more important.  No Easter, no resurrection, no salvation.

I beg to differ.  I would say this, no Christmas, no life of Jesus, no teachings about love, no Good Friday and thus no Easter.

So Christmas is a vitally important day.  Everything else falls from Christmas.  Also consider this... in sending Jesus, God is saying, "I love you!!!"  God is saying that you are worth it.  God is saying find the joy by following this Jesus into a life of love.

Merry Christmas.  I love you and you are worth it!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, December 23, 2021

Happy Birthday

So a few weeks ago I was on a cruise with my sister Amy.  We got on a tram to ride around the Royal Caribbean island.  Before the tram left, the driver instructed us, "as we pull out today, please join me in singing happy birthday to this lovely lady across the way."  The lovely lady was another Royal Caribbean employee.  [I think that the driver loved her.]

We all started to sing happy birthday to you!!!  It was so sweet!

As the tram passed her, she said, "it is not my birthday, he does this to me a couple of times a day."

I loved that!  I LOVED THAT!!!

Someone going out of their way, multiple times a day, to make someone else feel good.

Happy Birthday to you my friend!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, December 22, 2021

The $20 club

I have a friend that goes to lunch once a month with four other friends. Each pays for their own lunch. Dutch treat. And, and, and this is what makes this a great story... each brings a $20 bill for the server. So this server who has no idea what their tip will be like… sometimes people don’t tip. What is that about??? Anyway, this server gets a giant tip, more than 100% of the bill.

I would love to start a club like this in Florida or on my KC trips. If you want to join me, let me know. I love spending time with good people, with generous people, and I love blessing others.

By the way, if you are going out to lunch or dinner this holiday season, it may be a good time to start your own $20 club!!!

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, December 21, 2021

Too Loud

Evidently, I was too loud.

So I am sitting at breakfast on a cruise ship with my sister Amy. We are drinking coffee and eating breakfast food. We are chatting it up like a brother and sister who have not seen each other in three years.

All of a sudden, the guy at the table next to us pops up, looks at us and says, “I am tired of listening to your conversation.” He walked away.

My sister and I looked at each other with big eyes and thought “what was that about?” The guy's wife stood up and looked at us. I said to her, "I am sorry."   She said, "NO, she was sorry."

The look on her face was the look of someone who had been embarrassed by an unhappy person many times over the years.

Although I used to make a living by talking, we were not too loud that day. He was unhappy about something. On a cruise and so unhappy about something that you have to be rude.

If I was sitting next to people that I thought were too loud, I would just get up quietly and move. He must have something else going on in his life. The look on his wife’s face told us that she has suffered with his angst for years. Such a sad face.

Moral of this story is that if someone is ugly with you, it probably has more to do with what is going on with them than what they think you did.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, December 20, 2021

become your best self

My friend Bruce sent this in...


Reminds me of the song, "Using things and loving people."  Life is about people, not things.  Getting more stuff will not fix anything.  Love God, love people, and love yourself.  Become the love, the loving person that you sense that you can.  Be and become.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, December 19, 2021

Suicide

I have a friend who has a friend and their ex took his life. Now let’s just sit on that phrase “took his life.” I can’t think of sadder words. He took his life.

Friends, listen to me. I have in my life time, considered suicide on several occasions. Thank God I never acted on those thoughts.

Part of what keeps me from doing that is the following:

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.  No matter how upset you are, things can get better.

Suicide takes the terrible pain that you feel and multiplies it, distributing it to every one that loves you. Do you really want those who love you to feel as bad as you do right now?

I know that you might feel bad… Alone, rejected, set aside, but we can still see the good in life. I know it will return to you.  In fact, it never left, we just can't see it.  The sun goes behind the clouds for a while and joy can hide from us, but it is still there and it will return.

Every week I get an email from my former church called “going home.” It is an announcement of the passing of someone. I don’t ever want to get an email that tells me that you have gone home by your own hand.

If you are thinking about taking your life, please don’t. There are still many good reasons to live. Someone loves you. I love you. Reach out to me and I will meet you for lunch and we can talk. I am serious.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, December 18, 2021

My Sisters

 

Amy on the left, Julie on right.
Old man in the middle.
In January of this year, my sister Julie and her husband Mark moved from Kansas City to Vero Beach. This was a huge boost to our social life. We love them and are glad that they are here.

Any of you friends that are looking for a winter home or a place to retire, please come see us. We would love to have more of our friends here in Vero Beach, Florida. We have a room for you to stay in and a car for you to drive. Come visit. 

A few weeks ago, my sister who lives in California came to visit. We had not seen Amy for three years. Since Alli’s wedding. We had a wonderful visit and a wonderful time. After growing up in a home where we did not get to know each other, it has been delightful to come to know and love my sisters.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, December 17, 2021

The ATT guys

The ATT guys are going to help me. Their office is right by our grocery store. They helped us get our new phones last year.  Anytime I am in the grocery store and they have cookies on sale, I buy them for the ATT guys. I buy them muffins and chocolate and I tell them a joke or two. 

They still laugh about this joke... "a pair of jumper cables walk into the bar.  The bartender says, ok, I will serve you, just don't start anything."

When I walk in they start to laugh. They love the treats and they love the jokes. Imagine that!!! Someone loves my jokes!!! If I ever need help with my phone do you think they’re going to help me? Yes of course they will, because we humans are predisposed to be good to people who are good to us.

Now we should be good to everyone, and expect nothing in return, but, what goes around comes around. It is always a good thing to be good to people.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, December 16, 2021

Chuck

On Tuesday I attended the memorial service for my friend Chuck McClamrock.

Chuck came to Kansas City for a job. He met Joy and fell head over heels. He fell hard. Who wouldn’t? Ever since we’ve known Chuck it’s been “Chuck and Joy.” They were in church every Sunday, they sat right over there on the aisle by the old testament window. Chuck had that delightful southern personality. He had a great smile and could be very funny. He nicknamed one of his grandkids “Rattlesnake.” He took his granddaughter Abby for breakfast every time he came to town and saw her.

Chuck coached the Buzzards softball team back when we had 10 teams. Major Hammet and Chuck Stark played on that team as well as others. Chuck and I spent many nights sitting at Kim and Bruce Letner‘s table laughing, telling stories and drinking bourbon. Chuck had good friends in Evan Williams, Jim Beam and George Dickel.

Chuck had that deep southern drawl. Whenever I was around him and he was talking to other people I would repeat what he said and people would look at me and I would explain to them that I was interpreting for him. I loved Chuck. I'm going to miss Chuck. Chuck loved to tell the story about how his mother was the longtime secretary to the district superintendent of one of the district areas in North Carolina. He was a lifelong Methodist. They don’t come any better than Chuck. I’m gonna miss him.

Such a good man.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, December 15, 2021

A great Christmas story

The story came from
Martin Thielen's Doubter's Parish Newsletter. Too good not to share!!!

Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him. . . . “What should we do then?” the crowd asked. John answered, “Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same” (Luke 3:4, 10–11 NIV).

Several years ago, I heard about a Methodist church in North Carolina who spearheaded a wintertime homeless ministry. They recruited fourteen other churches in their city to care for homeless people for one week each winter. Each church opened up its facilities, usually the fellowship hall, to care for eighteen to twenty homeless guests. They provided a warm and safe place to sleep, along with meals, transportation, and other assistance throughout the week.

In early November the cooperating churches gathered for their final organizational meeting. The agenda included scheduling a specific week for each church during the winter months. The United Methodist pastor planned to go to the meeting. However, given her busy schedule, she asked a woman from her church to go in her place. This woman, a new church member, was an enthusiastic and devoted layperson. The pastor gave her a list of convenient weeks in January and February for their congregation to care for the homeless group. The pastor told her, “Make sure to schedule us for one of these weeks.”

The woman went to the meeting. But not long into the meeting, they reached an impasse. Not one of the fifteen cooperating churches expressed willingness to take Christmas week. First, it interfered with all their Christmas activities, including Christmas Eve services. Second, everybody knew their members would not want to cook meals and provide other services for homeless folks during the Christmas holidays. This woman felt dumbfounded. She could not believe that none of the churches would take the week of Christmas. In fact, the more they argued about who was going to have to take Christmas, the madder this woman got. Before she knew it, she smashed her hand down on the table, stood up, and gave a speech. “I can’t believe this,” she exclaimed. “Jesus and his family were homeless in Bethlehem on the very first Christmas, and yet not one church in this community is willing to care for homeless people during the week of Christmas. Shame on you!”

The pastors all felt ashamed—but not ashamed enough to volunteer for the week of Christmas! When nobody volunteered, this laywoman boldly proclaimed, “My church, the First United Methodist Church, will take Christmas week, not only this year but every year.” One of the pastors quickly said, “So moved.” Another said, “I’ll second that.” After a quick vote the meeting adjourned.

After leaving the meeting, this woman went to see her pastor, full of excitement. She said: “I have great news! Our church gets to care for homeless people during the week of Christmas not only this year but every year! Isn’t that great?” Well, that wasn’t exactly great news to the pastor. What about their Christmas Eve services? How would they find volunteers to cook and care for homeless people during the holidays? No, this was not good news at all to the pastor. She deeply regretted not going to the meeting herself. But what could she do? It was a done deal.

The next Sunday the pastor gave the news to her congregation. She said, “We are going to host homeless people during the week of Christmas, and we need a bunch of volunteers to help.” She didn’t think she would get any response, but her assumption proved wrong. People came out of the woodwork to volunteer. Families with young children volunteered, saying to the pastor, “We want our kids to know there is more to Christmas than getting presents.” Families who had lost loved ones during the year volunteered, hoping to fill the void of the Christmas season. The pastor almost received more volunteers than she could use. Christmas week finally arrived. Eighteen homeless people came to the Methodist church to spend the week. And much to this pastor’s surprise, it ended up being the highlight of the year for the church.

People brought in loads of food. The homeless guests ate like kings all week. Church members also brought nice clothes and coats for them to wear. They brought gifts for everyone, especially the children. And they didn’t just give food, clothes, and gifts—they gave of themselves as well. People stayed for hours to visit with the group. They ate meals with them and played games with them. They even held a three-day-long marathon Monopoly tournament! Many members spent one or more nights during the week. The church members got to know their guests as real people. Although they were not required to go, all eighteen of the homeless guests went to the Christmas Eve Candlelight Communion service. The congregation warmly welcomed them, and everyone in attendance had a holy moment. In fact, the entire week ended up being a glorious experience for the church, and it continued that way for the next five years.

This story has an unusual ending. After six years of hosting homeless folks during the week of Christmas, the Methodist pastor received a phone call from the Baptist pastor. He said: “Everyone in town has heard how much your church enjoys hosting the homeless group at Christmas. So we wondered if you would you be willing to share that week with some of the other churches? We were hoping we could do Christmas week this year."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Tuesday, December 14, 2021

The golden windows

This is a picture of my grandmother, Mary Lee Toll.  She was 18 when this picture was painted in 1912.  I of course, knew her much later in her life as my grandma.  We called her Toopta or Toopie or Toop.  No one knows why.

Note the red hair.  Before I went gray, my beard was red.  [random trivia.]

When I was a child, my father's mother, my grandmother, Toopta, told me a story.  In the story a boy wakes up in the morning and looks to the west.  He sees a house with brilliant golden windows.  The boy decides that this is a better house than his and he takes off for a day long trek to get to the house with golden windows.

At the end of the day, he arrives, to find that the windows are not golden.  But as he looks back towards the east, he sees his house now, with golden windows.

My grandma had to explain this story to me.  In the morning, the sun shines on the houses to the west and their windows shine golden.  In the late afternoon, the sun has moved and the houses to the east now have golden windows.

The moral of the story is that no home is better than your home.  Stop wanting something more.  Stop wanting something different.  Go home and be happy.

And so, the other day I was up in the morning and there was a rainbow over my neighbors house.   I took a picture of it, and sent it to him.  Ten minutes later, he sent me a picture of a rainbow over our house.  The pictures were not on the same day, but it reminded me of the story that my grandmother told me.  

Rainbow over my neighbor's house

Rainbow over our house
 [on the left with garage door open]

You may think that it is different or better over there, but it is good at your home as well.  Learn to see the good.  Bloom where you are planted.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, December 13, 2021

Please don't hit the tree

So I have driven up to Kingsland, GA to visit my friend Roger Grout.  Yeah Roger!!!  And so, when Roger isn't giving me a tour of the submarine base, we go to St. Mary's [a near by town] for a beer.  And when we were leaving St Mary's, I noticed this tree that is right on the road side, so close that the town council nailed reflectors into the tree to keep people from hitting the tree.  [Roger did not hit the tree.]

reflectors mean - don't hit the tree!!!


This goes to the whole notion of paying attention.  Oh, I am driving and look.  There is a tree???

Sometimes you have to laugh at the crazy things that people do.


I would imagine that some of the damage was before the reflectors
and some of the damage was after.

Don't look at the reflectors.  Stay on the road and get away from the tree.

Pay attention in life.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, December 12, 2021

Now entering the mission field

One of the things that I was so proud of at Woods Chapel [and still am so proud of] was our decision to become missional.  We came to believe that if a church is not missional, it is not the church.  

We are not here to make a nice place for us to sing and pray.  We are not here to worship the Bible or attend Sunday School classes.  We are here to be in mission.  Every aspect of the church, every group in the church should point people into mission.  We are here to be motivated to go out into the world to help others.

Missions isn't just what the missions department does, it is what every Christian does.

We planted this sign on the way out of the property.  We also put similar words up on the walls of every building exit.


The walking trail is visible as is the introduction
to the stations of the cross.



I hope that it continues to motivate people to understand why the church exists.  Are you in the mission field?  Are you looking for people to be good to?  Christians are missional.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, December 11, 2021

Lenny

Lenny at ground zero on 9-11.

I have known a few famous people in my life.  Some thought they were more famous than they were.  But from time to time I have met some special people.

Lenny is a friend that I have met at Bobby's in Vero Beach.  On 9-11 he was a NYC fire fighter.  He was there at ground zero.  He lived through that hell.

This year, on 9-11 this year, he wore his uniform to the restaurant.  Everyone wanted a picture with him.  You have never met a more quiet, unassuming, kind human.  I am pleased to know him.  I feel proud every time that I see him.




Thank you Lenny and all first responders for your service.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, December 10, 2021

It's not good to brag

My Dad loved to say, "never blow your own horn, it just doesn't sound that good."  But every now and then I have to tell a story of success.

I hate to spend money if I don't have to.  So my Kia Sportage has this handle lock on the lift gate that has deteriorated and is falling apart.  Since I have this neurotic thing about wanting things to work correctly, I asked the dealer how much this part costs.  Part is $100, installation is $150.  $250 total.  Hmm.  There must be another way.


So I look online and find the part for $50.  It takes a month to come from South Korea.  No worries.

Then I proceed to spend an hour taking apart the tailgate and installing the new part.




New part is in.  I am smug and happy.  Jeff 10, Kia dealer 0.



If you need me to fix something at your place, just let me know.  [and sorry for bragging.]

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, December 9, 2021

Where did they go?

I was listening to the Bob Seeger song, "Like a Rock."
Here are some of the lyrics...

Twenty years now
Where'd they go?
Twenty years
I don't know
I sit and I wonder sometimes
Where they've gone

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Seems like just yesterday you were sitting on our deck in Princeton.  I loved you then and I still love you.

Seems like yesterday we watched the girls play intramural football at Warrensburg.  Seems like yesterday that we played softball at Young Park.  Seems like yesterday that we ate at Patty O'Quiglies or Tiff and Jays.  Seems like yesterday we built that church.  Seems like yesterday we worked on sermons at the Outback.  Seems like yesterday that we had a beer at Tanners or Mulligans.  Seems like yesterday that we met for happy hour at the Summit Grill.  Seems like yesterday we saw that steamboat on the Missouri river.

Seems like yesterday we met at Overtime Pizza.  Seems like yesterday we met at the Pot Belli Deli.  20 years or more now, where did they go?  And we had fun and we loved each other and it was awesome.

I savor every moment that I have had you guys in my life.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, December 8, 2021

Something should be said

A few weeks ago I provided the memorial message for Mary Wrobleski.  90 years old, and a lovely positive wonderful human.  She was driving people around just a few months before her death.

After the memorial service, someone came up to me and said, you know, so many wonderful things were said about Mary today.  We should not wait until people die to say good things about them.

I agree. So here goes.

Thank you for your kind emails to me.
Thank you for going to the park to hear me talk.
Thank you for being interested in what I have to say.
Thank you for your hugs
Thank you for helping me with my I.T. issues.
Thank you for welcoming me to your table.
Thank you for welcoming me as an acquaintance.
Thank you for putting up with my jokes.
Thank you that when I look at you, I know that we are connected in ways that I cannot explain.
Thank you for picking me up at the airport.
Thank you for putting me to work.
Thank you for forgiving me.
Thank you for letting me love your kids.
Thank you for loving my kids.
You are the best.
I love you.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.
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Tuesday, December 7, 2021

Thanksgiving past

This year on Thanksgiving, I realized that I have had 64 thanksgivings. When I was young it never occurred to me that I would or wouldn’t have 64 thanksgivings.

At the age of 40 I might’ve thought that 64 would be good I might have thought that 64 would be a lot. No hurry to end them by the way. And I know that every Thanksgiving that I get is a bonus. A lot of people that I have loved have died before me.

I don’t just want to have a Thanksgiving each year, I want to live every day as a Thanksgiving!

In the old days at Woods Chapel, November was the month for 4 sermons on Thanksgiving. I was trying to stretch Thanksgiving to 4 weeks. What if we were thankful for 52 weeks? What if we were thankful for 365 days.

We have so much to be thankful for. Get in the habit. Make it a habit to be thankful.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Monday, December 6, 2021

It could be worse

I received this from my friend Linda on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving.

Today is the day for leaf pick up in our cul de sac. Yesterday, we had to clean the leaves out of our landscaping (the first year we had to do this). We have a LOT of bushes to clean around. It was the subject of much grumbling and whining on my part. After we had finished ours, and my back was aching, my husband said we should go clear out the leaves from a neighbor’s landscaping. The neighbor had a debilitating stroke, and is unable to do this. I trailed along, still complaining, when I remembered the Bible verse from last Sunday’s message about being grateful in all circumstances. The reason that I was able to complain about raking leaves was because my 70-something body was still able to do this kind of activity. I know lots of people who cannot say the same! Thank you God for a body that is still reasonably functional. Tomorrow I will be probably be able to walk half a block to my sister-in-law’s for Thanksgiving!

Friends, when we stop and think about it, we still have much to be thankful for.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Sunday, December 5, 2021

Homeless Ministry in Ft. Pierce

Last week in church this statement was read by Pastor Joe.  The author is Greg Rogolino, the chair of the church council.

"Kathy Rice started the Thursday homeless bag lunch ministry and Dick Lystra started the Monday homeless sandwich ministry. The ministries are on hold until the winter months when most of the homeless are gathered around the downtown area. I’ve had the opportunity to ride with Dick on Monday and out with Kathy and her team on Thursday morning looking for those in need. I’ve always had difficulty giving handouts instead of hand ups to homeless community. I want so desperately to see them dig themselves out of poverty, but over the years I have discovered that in most cases this will never happen. 

 Most have some kind of issue, from substance addictions to mental cognitive issues. There are plenty of programs to help the homeless, but in most cases they don’t want to conform to the requirements to receive the support of the program. So the dilemma is do we allow the homeless to go hungry because they don’t want to help themselves or do we at least try to show some kind of human compassion? 

 The homeless men and women are God’s children and are seen in his eyes as no less. I’ve also been reminded that we’ve been given a directive to love all, not just the people who are like us. I see Gods working every time I go out and serve those who are struggling. I have found that when we walk up to someone in need and hand them a sandwich or meal they show gratitude. I’ve received and observed sincere thanks, not for just the sandwich but for showing compassion. 

 This past winter I observed kindness and caring among the homeless community for each other. One Thursday, when the temperature had dipped into the 30’s, we had the opportunity to hand out knit caps and blankets. One of the homeless men pointed out a friend saying he had struggled all night and needed the blanket and knit cap more than he did. I observed this kind of compassion more than once during our outings. The men we saw regularly looked forward to our visits and conversations of concern. Sandy Knepp who serves on the team always brings candy with her on the Thursday morning outings, receiving the nickname the candy lady from the homeless men. These two ministries are much more than a handout, they bring hope, compassion and love for not just the homeless men but also for those that serve as well."

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Saturday, December 4, 2021

I've got a feeling

So there is this strange thing that happens from time to time. Sometimes I can feel a thing... I know that something is true or I know that something is going to happen a certain way. It’s a feeling in your gut. And I can't explain it but I know that it is how the thing is going to turn out.

It’s so counterintuitive. Shake my head.

In some way, it is a spiritual thing. An evidence in this life of the life beyond. I hope that you, from time to time, get feelings about something that you know, but cannot explain.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Friday, December 3, 2021

Something to be thankful for...

Ailments

We don’t like aliments. We want to be well. We want to be whole. But when was the last time that you considered the miracle of the body healing itself?

I sleep overnight and I wake up and my knees are feeling better. I get a bad cut and then watch it heal. I split a fingernail. Ouch. And then I watch over the next few days as it grows out and restores itself and I cut the bad part off. How about how our eyes can make tears and dispel foreign objects?

The body is an amazing thing. Let’s give thanks for the body’s amazing ability to heal itself.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Thursday, December 2, 2021

Praying for others

My friend Joyce is evidently comfortable praying for complete strangers. I love that and sometimes I wish I was so bold. She sent in this story.

Sometimes a friend or an acquaintance will ask you to pray for them. We have the best of intentions to remember to take their concern to God during our prayer time. Several years ago, I read that when we are asked to pray for someone that we might do it right then. Isn't that really the best way?

Recently while waiting in two different pharmacies, two different days, I noticed two different women who were awaiting prescriptions for pain medication to be filled. The first woman was trying to explain her need. Although I was 10 feet away I could not help but overhear. I felt led to ask if she would like me to pray with her re: her scheduled hip surgery. Her face relaxed as she came nearer and affirmed my offer and added her prayer after mine. A little later as I was leaving she enthusiastically introduced me to her son who was her involved caregiver.

A few days later while awaiting my turn for the flu shot, I noticed a woman rocking in what I recognized as pain. Again I felt prompted to offer to pray for her. She shared that following many weeks of pain, physicians and tests had still not revealed the source.

Praise God and the prompting of the Holy Spirit that I was blessed to show love to two strangers. Even if a person might rebuff your offer, you can still pray for them silently as you go on with your day.


I would add to what Joyce wrote: when you are driving and you pass a wreck, pray for them. When you hear an ambulance, pray for them. Prayer is good for them, and prayer is good for us too. It puts us in a positive frame of mind. It reminds us that we are all in this together.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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Wednesday, December 1, 2021

Can we be honest with ourselves?

When I was a child, we were poor.  The discipline delivered by my mother would be considered abuse today.  I have so many tough stories about my upbringing that I have never told.

Having said that, I had it better than many.  I, as most readers, grew up privileged.  Now if that offends you, consider this...

We always had clean drinking water.
There was always a toilet.
My parents stayed married.
I knew who my Dad was.
I learned to read.
I did not have to be taught to be afraid of the police.
I have a college degree.
My parents paid for my college.
On an on it goes.

I have spent most of my life enjoying these benefits without ever considering how the other half lived, or why they lived that way.  I even spent most of my life wondering why homeless people did not just "get a job."  I spent a number of years thinking that people without privilege should just work harder.

We would love to keep the wool pulled over our eyes, but if we look hard enough, we know

It’s not knowledge that we lack. If we really pause and look at what’s going in this world, we will see that it has gone on for hundreds of years. We don’t lack knowledge, we know what’s been going on.

Injustice, unfairness, and prejudice has been all around us for years.  My town of Vero Beach has an area that was platted out when the town was planned... an area for the African Americans to live.  It is called "Gifford."  Vero is not the only town with such a story.

It’s not knowledge that we lack, it is compassion that we lack. We have an inability to see how we’ve been a part of the problem. We refuse to see that we have hurt others by excluding them and sticking with our own kind.

When we really look and see ALL people as people, then we can begin to create a healthy future, a safe future for everyone. We can create a world where everyone is valued.

The person at the Burger King window.
The man making your burrito at Chipotle.
The guy putting on your tires at NTB or Firestone.
The man on the corner with the sign.

In Jesus’ parable of the great banquet, the wealthy, the important, those who are on top, all have excuses not to attend. One bought a cow, one got married, they all had excuses.  Those who end up at the banquet are the least of these. Maybe we should welcome the least of these. Maybe we should throw a party for them. Maybe we should work to help them feel loved and valued.

They are not less than us. They deserve the same kindness and care that we want for ourselves.

If this is a hard read for you, it is for me as well.  But love happens with compassion increases.  Let's take the blinders off.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

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