A friend started a new job in ministry, he asked for my advice. I sent him this letter...
Dear Brother,
There is an old saying that free advice is worth what you
pay for it.
As you start your new job, here are some random Jeff Brinkman thoughts...
You may know everything that I am going to tell you. You probably do, but here goes.
As you start your new job, remember that there are two sides
to any job. The actual work of, in this
case ministry, and the relationships that you build. As odd as it sounds, the relationships are as
or more important than the ministry.
In fact, without relationships, how can ministry take place?
Some folks think that if they preach a good sermon or lead a
good choir, everything else will take care of itself. In the long run however, gaining and keeping
the trust of your people is so very important.
So here I go…. Sure work on the ministry plans. In fact, plan the ministry with them… find out what they like, what they have done, and what
genres seem to fit at their church. Remember that they will be there long after you are gone. On the
relational side, be intentional about getting to know your members…. Have a picnic. Take them to breakfast and or lunch. [take women in pairs] Have them in your
office to volunteer to set up folders and other volunteer work. Just as you would invest time and energy in
your relationship with your wife, success in the church world rides heavily
upon your ability to build relationships.
If people know that you love them, they will walk thru fire
for you. People will not always remember
what you said, they won’t always remember what you did, but they will always
remember how you made them feel.
Ok, that is it. Hope
I have not overstepped my bounds.
Have a great week!
Your brother, Jeff
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