Wednesday, October 10, 2018

commandment vs commission part 3

I think that the church has focused on the wrong thing.  We tried to convert people instead of loving them.

When was the last time you went door to door anyway?  When was the last time that you struck up a random conversation with another human about faith?  For the most part we don't do it, because it is awkward.  It feels awkward to us and it feels terrifyingly awkward to them.  It does not feel like love.  Because it isn't.

You have to earn the right to talk to someone about vital things.  Recently someone got in my grill about how I raised my children.  I walked away.  They have not known me long enough to try to speak into something so precious.  You must spend the time with someone and earn the right for deep conversations.

It is the same with faith.  Many of the people that are out actively trying to convert others are doing more harm than good.  On the other hand, those that are out actively loving others are filling the world with good.  They are filling the world with God.

To love someone feels natural.  It is what we were created to do.  Do what comes natural.  Love them.  Leave the converting up to  God.  If others see love from us, God has much more to work with.

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Tuesday, October 9, 2018

commission vs commandment pt 2

When we go out to convert someone, we make them our project.  We have what they need and we are going to make sure they get it, whether they want it or not.

On the other hand, when we love someone, they simply receive the love.  They are not our project and they are not really even the object of our love.  Our love is not directed towards them, our love is directed towards everyone.  They just happen to be in earshot or heart-shot.

I want to suggest that the best way to convert someone is to love them.  If we can't love someone then we will never convert them.  Our words will always sound to them as a resounding, repeating gong that just won't stop.

Light of the world, shine on me, love is the answer.

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Monday, October 8, 2018

Sunday Sermon Audio 10-7-18 David and Goliath

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commandment vs commission

I grew up on the great commission, most famously found in Mt 28 "Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you."

I did not grow up on the great commandment which is found through out the Bible in the Old and New testaments, "Thou shall Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and love your neighbor as yourself."

The great commission made us militant. Christians went door to door and all over the world to tell people to get saved. The resulting attitudes too often sounded like this-

"we are right and you are wrong"
"we are in and you are out"
"become like us or you are going to hell."

It is no wonder that the average person in our country is sick of church.

What if we had gone out to the world and to our neighbors and just tried to love them? Maybe the church would be thriving today.

Fact is, where ever Christians are engaged in loving others, the church is thriving today.

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Sunday, October 7, 2018

Not That

Not That.  No.  I am not that.
But sometimes I really feel that.  Like that thing.


 Sometimes I feel lonely.  Sometimes I feel angry.  Sometimes I feel perplexed.
Worse is that sometimes I come to believe that the lonely and the me are one in the same.  I sometimes allow myself to be defined by how I feel. 

So that when I say I am perplexed, it feels as if the core of my identity is perplexed.

But no.  No.  I am not that.  And neither are you.  We can feel lonely or happy or angry or giddy or perplexed but we are not defined by our feelings.  Feelings come and go.

I am, you are, more than your feelings. 

You are God's child.  You are loved by him.  You are ok.  I am ok.  It is well with our souls.  Do not for one minute allow yourself to think that you are defined by the feeling of the day.  It will come and it will go.  Only God's love and grace to you is consistent.

Put on the grace t-shirt and let his grace define you.

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Saturday, October 6, 2018

What if your child went missing?

My friend Susan wrote in to share this story....

Love and Light

I have been following a story for approximately 51 days, since August 1st , that has occupied my thoughts and prayers constantly. 28-year-old Samantha Sayers went missing on August 1st while on a solo day hike at Vesper Peak, northwest of Seattle WA. She was seen at the peak, and descending some time afterward, but never made it back to her car as planned by 6pm. Her fiancé became worried and drove from Seattle to the mountain, and called 911 around 1am. The Snohomish Sheriff’s dept and other search and rescue groups have been searching ever since with no sign of Sam. I became aware of this story because Sam’s mom, Lisa, is someone I work with long-distance. I have never met her; she lives in Pennsylvania. I have listened to her LIVE updates on her facebook page DAILY. My “mom” heart is devastated for her and her family. I feel like I know her after 51 days. I feel her pain. I pray and pray and pray that God will lead someone to Sam and give them peace. Honestly, I have been so blessed by this family. That may sound funny, but who knows how we would feel, act, or react if we were in this position? To have a child, no matter what age, go missing with no sign. The worry, the anxiety, the anguish, the FEAR. Lisa has FAITH. She is HOPEFUL. Does she cry and fall apart sometimes? Of course! But I have learned SO much from her steadfast belief that God is in control, no matter what. If someone is negative, she just asks everyone to “bless and release” and not say anything bad about them or be angry with them. “Bless and release”!! I love that. There are approximately 33,000 followers on her facebook page praying for Sam. This has become bigger than just Sam missing. This is bringing people together in love, caring, and support. There have been donations, prayers, yellow ribbons across America, spreading the word to try and get assistance for the family once the official search was called off. Here is what Lisa posted:

Love and Light goes for everyone. You can treat others with respect whether they agree with your beliefs or not. That is what love and acceptance is. That is what represents and stands for. #findsamsayers

If someone disagrees with you or is negative, BLESS AND RELEASE. The other message here is that Sam is all about Love and Light. Be who you are. You be You. Let Me be Me. Love and Light. Bless and Release. In the face of such adversity, to be teaching us these lessons is a blessing, and needs to be passed along. Please pray for this family. #findsamsayers


Friday, October 5, 2018

I hate that store

I have a friend who hates a particular store.  She avoids it like the plague.

Last week she found herself headed there, dreading the encounter.  Afterwards, she wrote the
following to me...

Sometimes we go into a situation or a place not looking forward to it because we have had bad experiences in the past...like Walmart! However when walking out of the store, a man got in the way of my cart and made a funny comment about women drivers. I laughed and smiled and he said thank you for smiling, you made my day!  That positive encounter with another human made the trip worthwhile.  Sometimes it’s good when our preconceived notions of what to expect are wrong.

I comment...I am glad that this person survived the trip to Wallyworld.  I am glad that she saw the good.  For me, the effort to see the good must begin when we are pulling into the parking lot.  Have a plan... Look for a way to make a tense moment better.  Maybe in the future, she can go there and intentionally try to graze people with her cart just to make the trip fun!!!

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Thursday, October 4, 2018

Consumer Reports

I am a consumer and I am making a report.  Be very careful when buying things on Amazon or Ebay.  I try to do my homework and I can tell you that there are wide discrepancies in prices for the very same items.

My wife has a Roomba Vacuum.  It charges up and drives itself around the house.  When the cat was younger and felt up to it, he would ride around on it looking for mice.  Well, the spinner brush module went bad.  I took the Roomba apart and did some trouble shooting.  I priced the module.  $66.00 on Amazon.  I read the reviews and found that you can buy the exact same part on the Roomba website for $18.  That is a savings of $48 that I can now use for chocolate, Harbor Freight tools or a contribution to the church.

Today the water valve is out in the refrigerator.  No the cat does not
ride the refrigerator.  On Amazon, the price that shows up first is $57.99.  With a little searching I found the same item on Amazon for $17.00. I think I am going to go to TGIF for dinner tonight.

Don't jump at the first item.  Sometimes you find a better deal for the same item.  Sometimes a little exploration pays off.  Patience is a virtue.

Jeff Brinkman, part time editor
Consumer Reports

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Wednesday, October 3, 2018

Sermon Audio from Sunday for those interested- topic: we are all called

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I am not crazy

Before I begin, happy birthday to my Dad, Paul Brinkman who died in 2002.  I miss him.

Now to the post.  
I am not crazy.

A jingle went through my head.  I started singing it.  
"yummy yummy I digga digga bowl full new kind of breakfast cereal oceans of energy...."

My wife and daughters say that I am crazy and they have never heard of it.  I must be making it up.  But I look on line.  I think it is a fruit loops commercial from when I was a kid.  I search and search on line and on youtube.  

Nothing.

I know that I am not crazy. 
I keep working on it.... for weeks....

Finally I get some more words... "oceans of energy, we call it Kellogg's Puffa Puffa Rice.  Aye-A Aye-A"

And armed with the name of the cereal, I find the jingle and the commercial that was from 1967.

Here it is, enjoy it!  Don't let it get stuck in your head!


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Tuesday, October 2, 2018

trivia

I was walking through a store the other day and I heard some guys discussing Ellie May and Jethro.  I thought about how much I love trivia.

What show were Ellie May and Jethro on?
The Beverly Hillbillies.
What was the name of the banker's secretary on that show?
Miss Hathaway.

What is the name of the dog on the Jetson's?
Astro.

Who are these people pictured below?


star of my first cartoon

sidekick of the above

what is her name and what show was she on?

who is this?  what is this?  From what cartoon?

Scroll down for the answers.....




The star of my first cartoon is Quick Draw McGraw

His side kick is Baba Louie

The woman is the Sea Hag from Popeye

The animal is Popeye's dog.... named "Jeep."

That was a lot of fun for me.  I hope you have a great day!

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Monday, October 1, 2018

Len Dawson

I just thought of this story the other day.

I was 11 or so.  Lenny Dawson was the quarterback of the Kansas City Chiefs.  My mom was dropping me and two friends, Bob Berry and Greg Fisher at the Red Bridge bowling alley.

As we got out of the car, Bob said, "look, there is Len Dawson."  I thought that was pretty cool.

We got to the door and I held the door for our group.  I continued to hold it for Len Dawson.  A couple of kids were coming in too.  I held the door and said to them, "look, that is Len Dawson."  One of the boys said, "yes I know, he is my dad."

I felt kind of dumb.  The first of many such times to come in my life.

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Sunday, September 30, 2018

I was here first

This is not one of my best stories....

So the buffet is packed. On a cruise I only eat in the buffet because I don’t like to get dressed up for dinner and I have no interest in meeting the Captain. Just keep the ship on course, OK?

So I have already had breakfast but now Dave is finally awake and he wants to go. So I go in with him to keep him company while he eats. He is shy and insecure and needs people to chaperone him.

Every table is full. I look around. I see one table that is being cleared by a young man from the Philippines. I head for it. I hope I get there first. I notice a young woman pushing around the back side a couple of tables over. She about knocks over an older woman [I am 61 so older to me is up there] she about knocks over the older woman trying to beat me to the table.

I win. I sit down.

Then to my astonishment, she sits down. She looks away like she does not see me and the turns towards me and acts surprised.

She-this is my table.
Me- it certainly is not, I was here first
She- this is my table, you have to move.
Me- I was here first and you know it.
She – this is my table, get going old man.
Me-[pausing for what to say…. Trying to gather the better part of myself]
        I finally got up to leave and said, I hope you enjoy yourself.

I was snippy. She was a b word. Besides that I was there first. If my children who are about the age of this woman ever treat an old person like that, I will personally find them and keel haul them.

Reflections on this story….
  • Dave should have rolled out of bed at 730 and there would have been plenty of tables.  [I keep throwing him under the bus...not fair, he is a good man]
  • There are some people that are just rude. They don’t care about anyone but themselves.
  • I should not have been snippy. But in my defense I was there first.  [Never mind Jeff there is no defense for your snippy attitude.]

This incident has hung with me, the sting of her words. I am processing it, trying to release it. There are 4,000 people on this ship. 500 of them look like her. I see her everywhere and I wonder if she is going to come up to me and insult me again. Oh, whew, that was not her, just a look alike.

Even small encounters with people can be either joyful or painful. Small pains can linger like a splinter in one's hand. May we deliver less pain to others and more joy.

And I am not old, and I was there first.

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Saturday, September 29, 2018

Owl Picture

So I am on a cruise with my friend Dave. Actually I invited all of my real friends, Bill, Bruce, Jim, Paul, Karen [just kidding] Steve, Ed and Bobby. None of my friends could go so I asked Dave.

Dave is a good man. I learned on this cruise that he snores and sleeps a lot.

Anyway, I am drinking coffee in the café on deck 8. I am alone because Dave is still asleep. We have just docked at this little island in the Bahamas. Later today we will get off the ship, wade on the beach and pay for food and drinks that we could have had for free had we stayed on the ship.

So I am drinking coffee and reading a book in the café on deck 8. A cute little owl lands on the railing just outside of the window. I reach in my pocket to take out my phone to take a picture of him and my room key falls out. I snap one lousy picture and a well meaning cruise person from who knows what country taps me on the shoulder and says, you have dropped your room key…..

I said thank you, but what I wanted to say was leave me alone, you jerk, I am trying to take a picture of this owl before he flies away. My room key savior notices the owl, he says, look at owl! He gestures towards the owl and it gets spooked and flies away.

I wanted to punch the guy in the head. I was all ready to be entered into the annual Audubon Society photo contest and he had to mess things up.

Anyway if that is the worst that happens to me today, it is a beautiful day. By the way, that is not a bad way to look at things…. If that is the worst that happens, we are ok. I once knew a man and wife whose baby died. Later they had another. When this baby was born the doctor came out and said, your baby has a deformed foot. The man said, that is all? Baby is ok other than that? Ok, we can live with that. If that is the worst that happens, we are ok.

Probably the things that are happening to us are not as critical, not as horrible as we first think. I will have other opportunities to take other pictures of birds.

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Friday, September 28, 2018

Sunday Morning Words

I put this sticker in my Bible when I was 25. 
Just a few years ago. 
It used to say, "Lord fill my mouth
with worth while stuff-
and nudge me when I've said enough."
A few months ago, my friend Hubert Neth had an article in the monthly Missouri Methodist Magazine.  They still send it to me... I am glad to get it but I expect to be cut off at any moment. 😡

Anyway Hubert was writing about a man in his parish years ago that made a significant life change.  When Hubert asked the man about how he came to that decision, the man replied, "it was from listening to his sermons on Sunday morning."

Hubert then wrote, "That was a sobering moment for me, I could get up on Sunday morning, go say my words then go home and lay on the couch and watch a football game.  For this man, those words led to a decision that altered the course of his life."

That story stuck with me.  Any preacher worth his or her salt will tell you that we sometimes struggle to come up with the right things to say.  [If your preacher thinks that they always hear from God, you should run the other direction...] Sunday can be a trying time for a preacher.  My words- are they my opinion or do they reflect something from God?  How can we really know?  They are usually things that I have thought about for months or years.

Yes, we preach the words and then go home to lunch and a nap.  But maybe, just maybe those words will fall into a person's heart in just the right way and they will make a change for the better.

It is a very sobering thought.  Oh Lord, may the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in thy sight.

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Thursday, September 27, 2018

compliment

I received a compliment from my friend Steve the other day.  He said, thank you for "making the ordinary, wonderful."

Isn't this the trick in life that helps us to see the good?

We don't just see a seagull, we see amazing birds.
We don't just see a flower, we see a miracle.
We don't just see an annoying person, we see a child of God.
We don't just wake up and drudge through the day, we wake to the day with joy, as if resurrected from the dead.
We are not just alive, we are here to LIVE! L.I.V.E. LIVE!

Those things that seem ordinary and commonplace are indeed filled with the miraculous.  We forget this to our peril.  We remember this and find true joy.

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Wednesday, September 26, 2018

Seagulls

Notes from a recent cruise with my friend Dave....

Seagulls.  What did they eat before people were around?  Seagulls seem to me to be a primitive bird that goes back a long way in evolution.  They are the garbage men and women of the beach.

On the pool deck there was a plate with a piece of pizza on it.  Although there were tons of people around, this one plate was neglected on the deck lounger.  The seagull swept in, full of confidence, and picked at the pizza.  Some people laughed, some took pictures, some tried to shoo it away.  He just kept eating.

That reminded me of a time when my wife was working in Clear Water Beach and staying at the Sand Key Marriott Hotel.  They have a wonderful outdoor restaurant area by the pool.  Cathy was eating a burger and fries and a seagull swept down right in front of her and picked a fry off of her plate!  Later the restaurant strung fishing line around the restaurant area to deter the birds from flying in.  I was there some months later and the string had done it's work.

No birds were flying around or swooping in for food.  Instead, now they hopped on one foot and
walked with a broken wing.  Defeated and maimed by the string, they stood around the perimeter like a group of beggars hoping for a handout.

If you come for a visit in Florida, watch out for the seagulls, they are persistent.  Except at the Sand Key Marriott where they have been subdued.

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Tuesday, September 25, 2018

Choose

From my friend Pat...

I went camping and floating this weekend on the Big Piney. (Dan Horn and I share a love for this river) It’s a “close to heaven” experience for me.

I love rivers. A river is tranquil, in part because it always knows where its going and has no doubts about what’s next. I can sit by the river and watch it go by: its motion with unwavering purpose, and that’s comforting. I don’t have to do anything.

Floating, being in the river, requires balancing gear, work (paddling), navigation of downed trees,
debris, rapids, shallows, and so on. Decisions made, effort asserted, choices made, risks taken. I have to do a lot.


Life, like a river, is always beautiful from far away. Up close it can be challenging, and sometime not so lovely. But if you want to be in life, if you want to have an impact, you have to jump in, do the work, and make choices. You have to suffer the stress of the rapids.

Christ calls us to get in the game. Its not always easy; it requires work, it requires choices, painful ones at time. But its what he has called us to do.

We all have to chose what we will do with a river, and with life. Not making a choice is a of course, a choice. At the end of the day, if you’re still on the river bank, you’ve not gone anywhere, you’ve buried the time, the treasure given you.

Choose.

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Monday, September 24, 2018

I can't fix it

I made a mistake.  I can't fix it.  It really doesn't affect anyone but me.  I didn't hurt anyone.  But the thing is over.

Yet, because I feel badly about it, I keep dragging it around like a ball and chain.

If you can fix a thing, fix it.  If you can apologize, do so.  If you can make amends, then get after it.  But for heavens sake Jeff if the thing is over and it can't be changed, then move on.

By dragging a thing around with us, all we do is sour our day and the day of anyone else that comes into contact with us.

Humans make mistakes.  Last time we checked you were human.  Let it go.

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Yesterday's Sermon Audio - The 23rd Psalm

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