I can blame myself for a number of things. I can blame other drivers for a number of things. Some things just happen to us that bring pain. Old age brings pain. Change brings pain.
Yes. Sometimes you have to tell someone that you want their behavior to change. Sometimes it is healthy to be honest with someone.
But sometimes we express our pain when we should be absorbing it. There is no reason to yell at the teacher about your child's grades. There is no reason to boo the sports team that is having an off day. There is no reason to complain or gossip about your pastor. [To my knowledge no one is complaining about me, I am just saying this in general.]
I think it is true that when we pass on the pain, it is always delivered in a higher dosage than is necessary.
On the cross Jesus absorbed the pain. He said Father forgive them. We need to pass less of our pain along and learn to absorb more of it.
Just don't say anything. Sure you are mad. In an hour or a day, this will pass and you won't remember it. Go kick a tree. We all need to learn to absorb pain. Give someone a break. Give someone the grace. Absorb the pain.
It's a beautiful day in God's world be sure to see the good.
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I am leading some trips this year and next. If you are interested in reading about them, or joining in, the links are below.....
Wesley's Ireland with optional London Extension
October 8-17, 2018
http://www.eo.travelwithus.com/tours/wesley-in-ireland-2018-with-rev-jeff-brinkman#.WqHrI7puLIU
Holy Land Tour - includes my favorite spots
with optional Jerusalem extension
March 4-13, 2019
http://www.eo.travelwithus.com/tours/hl19030419g17768#.Wt84h7lRHcs
Paris-Normandy River Cruise
October 23-31, 2019
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