Friday, January 21, 2011

the good the bad and the ugly

We all have them. Good sides, bad sides and just plain ugly sides. Most folks, including me, try to keep our best foot forward. Keep the good side out. But occasionally, we are "off" and someone will see our bad side or worse, our ugly side.

Say for example that you run into someone you know and you both show your ugly sides to each other. It's gonna happen, and you feel bad later. Then you see them a week later and everybody is back on, back in their better frame of mind.

Do you scold them for being ugly last week or do you just let it go? Do you poo poo them for being ugly or just respond to the good that you see in them now?

Grace loves. Grace forgives. Grace forgets. Grace responds to their good side and releases the bad feelings that came from their bad side. Heck, they may be doing the same for you in this new moment, seeing the good in you, and choosing to release how you made them feel when you were ugly.

So we all have those sides. Lets show the good today, let try to always be the good, but if someone slips, don't write them off for ever because they were ugly. They still have a good side, and it will come back.

It's a beautiful day in God's world, be sure to see the good.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Okay Jeff, there's one person(s) you don't want to get ugly with, if you want any time left in your day off. This would be the clerk at the auto licensing bureau. We know you're goig to be nice to that person today, so you can have a life besides getting a car re-titled.